Zamkatimu
Eglantine Eméyé: "Samy si mwana ngati ena"
/ Kubadwa kwake
Ukuwoneka bwino kwambiri, khanda lokongola lomwe limagona kwambiri, lodekha, lomwe limatchaina kuti anthu adziwe kuti ali ndi njala. Ndimakupezani wangwiro. Nthawi zina ndimasuntha pacifier mkamwa mwako, kusewera, ndimadziyesa kukuchotsani, ndipo mwadzidzidzi, kumwetulira kodabwitsa kumawonekera pankhope yanu, ndikunyadira, mukuwoneka kale kuti muli ndi nthabwala zazikulu! Koma nthawi zambiri, suchita kalikonse.
/ Kukaika
Uli ndi miyezi itatu ndipo ndiwe chidole chofewa kwambiri. Inu simungakhozebe kugwira mutu wanu. Ndikayesa kukhala tsonga ndi matako pa mawondo anga, dzanja langa likuchirikiza mimba yanu, thupi lanu lonse limagwera pansi. Palibe mawu. Ndinazisonyeza kale kwa dokotala wa ana yemwe ankaoneka kuti sankasamala. Zikuwoneka kuti ndine wosaleza mtima kwambiri. (…) Muli ndi miyezi inayi ndipo simukuchita kalikonse. Ndayamba kudandaula kwambiri. Makamaka popeza kuti agogo ako, amene samabisa mawu awo, amalankhula mawu onditsutsa ndi kundipweteka: “Mwinamwake mulibe chisonkhezero, muli bata kwambiri” akulingalira motero amayi anga. “Iye ndi wokongola kwenikweni, wodekha pang’ono, wofewa, koma wokongola kwenikweni” akuumirirabe bambo anga, akumwetulira.
/ Kuzindikira"
Samy. Mwana wanga. Wanga wamng'ono. Iye si mwana monga ena onse, izo ndithudi. Sitiroko idazindikirika m'miyezi yowerengeka chabe, khunyu, ubongo waulesi, ndipo ndizo zonse zomwe tikudziwa. Kwa ine, ndi autistic. Ndidzatsatira, monga momwe Francis Perrin anachitira, ndikutsatira mapologalamu atsopano omwe ena atha kuitanitsa ku France, ndipo zikuwoneka kuti akupita patsogolo kwa ana awa. ABA, Phunzitsani, Pecs, chilichonse chomwe chingathandize Samy, nditero.
/ Marco, mchimwene wake wamkulu
Munali ndi zaka zitatu pamene Samy amafika m'moyo mwanu, mumamudikirira ngati mchimwene wake aliyense, nsanje, koma amene amafuna kukhulupilira zomwe amamuuza mayi ake, mchimwene wake ndi wosewera naye yemwe timakangana naye nthawi zina, koma akadali. bwenzi moyo wonse. Ndipo palibe chimene chinachitika.
Kunja kwanu kumasokoneza zinthu zambiri: "Osadandaula, ndizabwinobwino, ali ndi vuto la autistic, ali ndi matenda m'mutu mwake" mumalengeza mosapita m'mbali kwa anthu omwe akutiyang'ana, osamasuka, pomwe Samy akugwedezeka mwachidwi, akulira pang'ono. . Koma mungandiuzenso mwanthabwala chifukwa mumadziwa zambiri: “Bwanji tikamusiya kumeneko, amayi? .. Ndi blaaaaagueuh!” ”
(…) Chilimwe chino ndi zaka ziwiri za Samy. Marco ndi wokondwa. Tikhala ndi phwando, amayi?
- Uzani amayi, pa nthawi yanji tili ndi kubadwa kwa Samy?
– Usikuuno pa chakudya, mosakayikira. Chifukwa chiyani?
- Ah ndichifukwa chake ... Tiyenera kudikirira mpaka usiku uno.
- Kudikirira chiyani? ndikufunsa
- Chabwino muloleni iye asinthe! muloleni akhale bwino! Usikuuno popeza adzakhala ndi zaka ziwiri, sakhalanso khanda, mukuwona, adzakhala mwana, ndiye ayenda, kumwetulira, ndipo nditha kusewera naye! Marco amandiyankha mosalakwa kwambiri.
Ndimwetulira mwachikondi ndikupita kwa iye. Sindingayerekeze kuswa maloto ake momveka bwino.
/ Usiku wovuta
Samy amakomoka kwambiri usiku, amadzichitira zachiwawa kwambiri. Masaya ake amagazi alibenso nthawi yoti achire. Ndipo ndilibenso mphamvu zolimbana naye usiku wonse, kuti asadzivulaze. Popeza ndimakana lingaliro la mankhwala owonjezera, ndimaganiza zopanga camisole. Kuphatikiza uku ndi amodzi mwa malingaliro abwino omwe ndidakhala nawo. Nthawi yoyamba yomwe ndinavala, zomangira za Velcro zitalumikizidwa, ndimaganiza kuti ndazimanga kwambiri… Amawoneka bwino kwambiri, maso ake ali bata, okondwa… Ndidamva kuti minofu yake pansi pathupi langa ikumasuka. Usiku wotsatira sunali wabwino kwenikweni, koma Samy sanachedwe kukuwa, ndipo sanathe kudzivulaza. Komabe, usiku wakhala wabwino kwambiri kwa tonsefe. Sindinadzukenso maola awiri aliwonse kuti asadzivulaze ...
/ Mawonekedwe a ena
M'mawa uno ndikumutengera Samy kumalo osungirako ana. Ndimapanga niche yanga. Amuna aŵiri amene anakhala mu cafe anafuula kwa ine kuti: “Nena, Mademoiselle!” Kodi baji yanu yolumala munaipeza kuti? Muchikwama chodzidzimutsa? Kapena mukudziwa wina amene ali ndi udindo wabwino? Inde ziyenera kukhala choncho, mtsikana wokongola ngati iwe! ”
Kodi ndiyenera kuyamikira kuyamikiridwa kapena kupandukira kunyoza kwawo? Ndimasankha kukhulupirika. Ndikutembenuka, ndikutsegula chitseko cha Samy, ndikumwetulira kwanga kwabwino kwambiri “Ayi Amuna. Ndinaipeza ngati mphatso pamene mwana wanga anabadwa! Ngati mukufuna ndikupatsani. Pomaliza ndikupatsani. Chifukwa zimayendera limodzi. “
/ Banja losakanikirana
Richard adazolowera moyo wanga wopenga. Wachibadwa, wopenga, iye ali wamng'ono yekha. Monga kamphepo kayeziyezi, ndi nthabwala zake zowona, joie de vivre wake, kukhulupirika kwake, za zomwe nthawi zina zimakhumudwitsa, koma zomwe nthawi zambiri zimakhala zabwino kunena, ndi mphamvu zake, adawonjezera moyo wake kwa ife. Amafika, amaphika, akutenga Samy m'manja mwake, ndipo koposa zonse, amalola Marco kuti achepetse kulemera komwe adamaliza kuyika pamapewa ake. Ndiyeno Richard ali ndi mwana wamkazi, Marie, wazaka zofanana ndi wamkulu wanga. Ana awiriwo nthawi yomweyo anagunda modabwitsa. Mwayi weniweni. Ndipo amayi monga momwe angakhalire asungwana ang'onoang'ono, amathamangira Samy atangogunda, amadzipereka kuti amuthandize ndi chakudya, kumupangitsa kusewera.
/ Merci Samy!
Koma Samy ali ndi ubwino wake. Nayenso amakhala ndi phande m’moyo wabanja wodabwitsa umene tili nawo, ndipo, mwa njira yakeyake, amatipulumutsa ku mikhalidwe yambiri. Ndipo m’zochitika zimenezo, ine ndi Marco timamuyamikira kwambiri. Mwachitsanzo, nthawi zina timagwiritsa ntchito Samy m'sitolo. Osati kungopewa mzere ndikudutsa pamaso pa aliyense (inde ndikuvomereza, ndine wokondwa kwambiri kutero, ngakhale pamene, mozizwitsa, Samy amakhala wodekha masana, ndipo palibe chomwe chingandivomereze kugwedeza khadi lake lachilema. kupita mwachangu potuluka), nthawi zina kungosangalala kuyika wina m'malo mwake. Zili chonchi, Samy wanga wamng'ono, wabwino kutipatsa mpweya! Ndi iye, palibenso zomatira, kusowa kwa malo mu metro, kapena pabwalo. Chodabwitsa kwambiri, tikangotera kwinakwake, pali malo otizungulira, komanso m'malo athu!
"Wakuba wa misuwachi", wolemba Églantine Éméyé, ed. Robert Laffont, lofalitsidwa pa September 28, 2015. Host wa "Midi en France", ku France 3, ndi mtolankhani pa "RTL sabata kumapeto" ndi Bernard Poirette. Ndiwoyambitsa komanso purezidenti wa bungwe la "Un pas vers la vie", lomwe linapangidwa mu 2008 kwa ana autistic.