Zamkatimu
Mkulu, kuzama komwe kuyenera kupambana
Mkulu akuwonetsa njira chifukwa amatipanga ife makolo ndipo amapeza banja. Iye asanakhalepo, tinali okondana angapo, pambuyo pake, ndife makolo angapo, okondana nthawi zonse… Chochitika choyambirira ichi chimatisangalatsa: timasilira kubuula kwake koyamba, dzino lake loyamba, masitepe ake oyamba, mawu ake oyamba. … Ndipo pali zithunzi zambiri za iye kuposa za ana otsatirawa mu chimbale cha banja… Ubwino wina, ndiMkulu amapatsidwa chisamaliro cha makolo, ndizopindulitsa kwambiri kuona kuti makolo ake ali ndi maso okha kwa iye, kumalimbitsa "kudzidalira" kwabwino. Umenewo ndiye mbali yabwino, koma woyamba kubadwanso amapukuta zotayika ndikuvutika ndi nkhawa ndi zolakwa za makolo ake oyambirira ... Ndi pa iye kuti amawonetsera ziyembekezo zawo ndi zokhumba zawo, ndi iye amene akuyenera kudzaza mipata yawo ndikukwaniritsa zokhumba zawo. konza zomwe anaphonya. Monga shrinks amati, wamkulu amakwatira “kololera minyewa”! Poyang’anizana ndi chitsenderezo chachikulu cha makolo chimenechi, akulu amachita chirichonse kuti agwirizane ndi zikhumbo za makolo, iwo amakhala omvera kwambiri, ozama kwambiri, odalirika kwambiri. M’mabanja aakulu, ana aakazi okulirapo kaŵirikaŵiri amadandaula kuti anakakamizika kusamalira ana aang’ono ndi kuvutika kuchita zinthu monga “amayi aang’ono” odzipereka mosasamala kanthu za iwo eni. Anyamata okulirapo amakondedwa kwambiri ndipo nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi utsogoleri wachilengedwe akakula. Pomaliza, cholakwa chimene tiyenera kupewa ndicho kupempha mkuluyo kukhala wangwiro. Ngakhale atakhala wamtali kuposa abale ake onse, alinso ndi ufulu wochita zinthu zokwiya komanso zokwiya. Ali ndi zaka 3, 4, 5, 6, akadali mwana! Ngati timukakamiza kuti "akule" posachedwa, sadzakhala ndi mwayi wosangalala ndi ubwana wake ndipo simuyenera kumuimba mlandu ngati sakufuna kukula ndikuchitabe ngati khanda ali ndi zaka 20. zakale…
Wamng'ono, wopanduka wanzeru
Ngati pali ana awiri okha, Mng'ono ndi wopanduka kuposa mchimwene wake wamkulu kapena mlongo wake chifukwa amadzimanga yekha pofuna kudzipatula kwa iye.. Wamng'ono ali ndi kusowa. Kuyambira ali ndi zaka 2, amadziwa kuti sadzakhalanso ndi malo oyamba, kuti sanakhalepo yekha ngati wamkulu yemwe akuwonetsedwa ngati chitsanzo, yemwe ali ndi mwayi, yemwe amachita zonse kale ndipo akuwoneka kuti ali ndi ndalama zambiri ndi makolo. Amadziwa kuti kwa makolo, ndi déjà vu, kuti sapita ku chisangalalo chochuluka. Ngati awiriwa ali ofanana, nsanje pakati pawo ndi yofunika kwambiri, komanso kugwirizana. Ngati ali osiyana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, aliyense amatsimikizira zomwe ali nazo (“Ndili ndi mbolo” ndi “ndipanga ana” …), amangothandizana ndipo sachitirana nsanje. Kwa makolonso, uku ndi kusintha kwenikweni. Amadabwa kupeza zomwe samadziwa ndi yoyambayo, si "kukonzanso". THECadet imamangidwa ndi lingaliro lakuti nthawi zonse amachedwa pang'ono. Zimenezi zingamukhumudwitse, komanso zingamulimbikitse chifukwa amasangalala ndi chiyembekezo chodzaposa chitsanzo chake! Ubwino wokhala mwana wamng'ono ndi woti amaphunzira zinthu zambiri poyang'ana ndi kutsanzira mchimwene wake wamkulu kapena mlongo wake wamkulu ... Sakufunikira kuchotsa malo, zachitika kale. Umu ndi m’mene achikulire, osafuna kwenikweni, amalola achichepere kudya chirichonse chimene adziŵa kuchita. Timalimbikirabe maphunziro a makolo, koma maphunziro a abale alipo, ngakhale atakhala ochepa kwambiri! Ngati pali ana atatu, wotsiriza amakhala pakati pa kusilira kwamisala kwa wamkulu ndi kukhudza nsanje kwa wamng'ono. kwa amene timakonda kumusiyira zonse! Chifukwa chake ndikofunikira kuti makolo azisiyanitsa ndi zoyamba ndikupewa kuzitcha "wamng'ono".
Wamng'ono, ngwazi yokopa
Iye ndi “mwana wamoyo wonse” wa abale ake chifukwa palibe amene amafuna kumuona akukula. Nthawi zambiri amanenedwa kuti iye ndiye wowonongeka, wosiyidwa kwambiri kuposa onse, koma zimatengera momwe kubwera kwake kudayikidwira ndi makolo. Ngati afika patapita nthaŵi yaitali pambuyo pa ena, akhoza kulandilidwa monga ngwazi yoonongedwa ndi banja lonse (kuphatikiza azichimwene ndi alongo), komanso ngati zosokoneza, zomwe sitinayembekezere komanso zomwe zimatikakamiza kubwereranso m'matewera ndi mabotolo omwe timaganiza kuti tawachotsa! Chofunikira kuti cadet ikwaniritsidwe ndikuti ndi wolandiridwa. Ndi iye, tiyenera kutsindika kupita patsogolo kwake, kupeŵa “kulankhula khanda” kwa iye ndi kusamutsekera m’chizoloŵezi cha wamng’ono kwambiri amene palibe chimene chingakanidwe. Kupanda kutero, angakhumudwe akadzakula kunja kwa banja lake. Makamaka mu gawo la akatswiri komwe kufunikira kwake kutumikiridwa sikungadutse nkomwe!
Malo amapasa mwa abale
Kubwera kwa mapasa kapena atatu mwa abale kungayambitse vuto kwa ana ena. Amadzimva kukhala osaloledwa ndipo nthawi zina amakhala aukali, kapena amavutika kusukulu, njira yoti akope chidwi. Kumbali ina, chifukwa mapasa moyenerera amalamulira chidwi chonse ndi nthawi ya makolo. Kumbali ina, chifukwa mapasa ali ndi mphamvu zokopa anthu akuluakulu ndipo enawo mwadzidzidzi amamva kuti alibe "zapadera", choncho osasangalatsa. Akakhala kuti alibe kusiyana pang’ono ndi mapasawo, nthawi zambiri amawaona ngati ogwirizana komanso amphamvu omwe amakayikira malo awo. Atha kukhala ndi chidani ndi gululi, lomwe angayese, pafupifupi zaka 7-8, kuti apatule. Kuchepetsa kumverera uku, ndikofunikira kuti makolo apeze nthawi yapadera - komanso payekha - ndi aliyense wa ana awo. Mwachitsanzo, mwa kusiya mapasawo ndi agogo awo. Pomaliza, tiyenera kutsimikizira aliyense: mapasa amatenga nthawi, ndizowona, koma sizikhalitsa.