Psychology

Maso amapunthwa pa #Sindikuopa kunena, akutulutsa "kugunda m'mimba, khomo, zaka 14, atagwira mutu wanga, mantha ..." magalasi akuda, apolisi ...". sindikuwona. Mayina, ma avatar odziwana nawo osati akazi. Ndimadzikakamiza kuwerenga. Mkwiyo. Ululu. Kukhumudwa. Manyazi.

Mu mutu wanga, dongosolo la ambiri makasitomala kwa zaka zambiri. Chikumbukiro chili ngati nyali yoledzera, yokwatula mawu opotola m'mphepete mwa gombe ziwiri za gehena: iwo omwe adazunzidwa ndi omwe adachita.

Facebook (bungwe lonyanyira loletsedwa ku Russia) - malo ovomerezeka? Ofesi ya Psychotherapist? Chipinda chagalimoto? Carl Jung akanapereka dzanja lake lamanzere kuti apeze mwayi wogwira ntchito ndi FB - malo abwino oyesera kuti awone anthu onse atakomoka. Mafunde a anthu ambiri, monga tsunami, amaphimba madera akuluakulu mumphindi, amawombana wina ndi mzake, amawonetsa ndi kukulirakulira, akusefukira psyche ya mamiliyoni.

Flash mob #Sindikuwopa kunena kuti yakhudza masauzande a anthu:

akazi ozunzidwa;

amuna omwe adagwira kachilombo koyambitsa matenda;

anthu amitundu yonse omwe amamva zonyansa ndi chinyengo cha chikhalidwe cha anthu;

mantha, choncho ogwirira mwaukali (zenizeni ndi zobisika).

Omasulira ndi onyoza amawonekera: "nyumba ya mahule", "ali ndi mlandu, adakwiyitsa", amayi apanyumba okwiya - "ndi wovula wamtundu wanji uyu? - pitani kwa psychotherapists, ana amakuwerengerani"; psychotherapists — «bwerani kwa ine, ndidzathandiza aliyense», etc. Ndipo kwa nthawi yoyamba (mu kukumbukira kwanga) Intaneti mbiri kotero mwachangu anakwawa kuchokera makompyuta ndi zipangizo. Kambiranani kunyumba, mumsewu, m'malo odyera ndi m'mapaki.

Chochitika chachikulu, kuyambira moona mtima komanso moona mtima, chimachepa, chimatenga chinyengo, mantha ndi nkhanza za anthu.

Mpira wa chipale chofewa wa chipale chofewa, womwe ukuyambitsidwa kuchokera kuphiri kutsika, pang'onopang'ono umapeza zigawo zatsopano. Choyamba choyera, ndiyeno matope osakaniza ndi ndodo ndi ndudu, akuthamangira pansi, akusesa chirichonse chimene chinali panjira yake. Choncho misa chodabwitsa, kuyambira mwangwiro ndi moona mtima, degenerates, zimatenga chinyengo, mantha ndi nkhanza anthu.

Ndiyesetsa kupewa mavoti. Chochitikacho chinayaka mosavuta, ngati moto wa m'nkhalango mu chilala, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti zilibe kanthu kuti ndani adaponya ndudu yapamwamba kwambiri. Zikadachitika posachedwa. Zinapweteka ndikusweka.

Mnzanga wina anandiuza kuti nthawi ina anamenyedwa ndi mlonda mu kalabu yausiku popanda chifukwa, ndipo wofufuzayo wachinyamatayo mopanda mphamvu anangogwedezeka: "Makamera alembedwa, palibe mboni, sindingathe kuchita kalikonse ..." Anafunsa zomwe zingachitike. zimachitika ngati iye anaphedwa. Mnyamatayo anaponya manja ake mmwamba. Pamene mabungwe a chikhalidwe cha anthu sangathe kuteteza ofooka, pamene boma limapereka "kugwira", zonse zomwe zatsala ndikutsanulira ululu ndi mkwiyo pa Facebook (bungwe lonyanyira loletsedwa ku Russia).

Ndipo n’chifukwa chiyani aliyense ankaganiza kuti zinali zokhudza kugonana? Ngakhale atakhala wolimba bwanji, ali ndi maunyolo, zikwapu ndi mikwingwirima, nthawi zonse ndi njira yodzifunira. Kungoti m’chinenero chathu mawu omwewo amatanthauza kuphatikana komanso kunyozetsa. Zomwe Facebook (bungwe lochita zinthu monyanyira loletsedwa ku Russia) likunena za kugwiriridwa, kumenyedwa, kukakamiza, sizikugwirizana ndi mawu awa ... Glossy Orthodox-okonda dziko lawo komanso opatulika kuchokera kunja, kuchokera mkati - ndi apolisi ogwirira, zaka zambiri zopondereza, azidziwitso ndi alonda.

M’chinenero chathu, zonse ziŵiri kuphatikana ndi manyazi zimasonyezedwa ndi mawu ofanana.

M'gulu la nyama, kukakamiza kugonana kumapangitsa kuti anthu azilamulira. Mwamuna wamphamvu amaphimba achibale ofooka, mosasamala kanthu za jenda, kuti alimbitse mphamvu zake.

Inde, nthawi zonse pakhala chiwawa. Mwina, ndipo nthawi zonse, ndi chibadidwe mu chibadwa cha munthu. Zilibe kanthu kuti ndinu mwamuna kapena mkazi. Amagwirira aliyense. Mwamakhalidwe ndi mwakuthupi. Koma m'dziko lathu lokha "zili ngati" zachilendo. Ndi zachilendo "kulanga", "kutsika", "kuchititsa manyazi". Ndipo ngakhale gulu lalikulu lolimbana ndi chiwawa limayambitsa chiwawa chatsopano. Tsopano ndi makhalidwe.

Poyang'ana koyamba, kutuluka kwadzidzidzi kwa kukumbukira zowawa zoponderezedwa kuyenera kukhala psychotherapeutic. Zimakulolani kugwedeza mtsuko wa akangaude, kudzimasula nokha, dziyeretseni nokha. Koma pongoyang'ana koyamba.

Ndidafunsa mafunso kwa atsikana omwe ndimawadziwa omwe adasindikiza maulalo pa intaneti - akuti sizinali zophweka. Komanso mbali inayi. Makolo samavomereza, odziwana nawo amalola nthabwala zosamveka, achinyamata amakhala chete. Chofunikira kwambiri chomwe oyankhulana anga adazindikira chinali chakuti aliyense adasefukira ndi mavumbulutso ambiri m'mauthenga amunthu. Amayi ambiri amafuna kugawana, koma samapeza mphamvu kapena amawopa. Mwina akhala bwinoko pang'ono. Zomwe timawona pa intaneti ndi nsonga chabe.

Kuchita zambiri kumapangitsa chinyengo chachitetezo, ngati "padziko lapansi ndipo imfa ndi yofiira." M'malo mwake, kwa aliyense wogwiritsa ntchito, kuvomereza pagulu kumakhala katundu wa olemba anzawo ntchito, anzawo, okwatirana, ana ... The flashmob itha. Nkhondo ipitirirabe.

Malo ochezera a pa Intaneti adayesa kukweza ntchito yauzimu ya anthu omwe ali m'fumbi ndikuponyedwa kunja ngati zosafunikira. Ngakhale boma, mabungwe a chikhalidwe cha anthu, kapena, Mulungu aletse, tchalitchi sichinachite izo kwa nthawi yaitali. Kuyeserako kunalephera. Kulemera sikunatengedwe.

Siyani Mumakonda