Ndiye mulungu! Mtsikana wina wazaka 4 anandiuza dzulo pokambirana kuti: " mukudziwa, abambo anga, amatha kukwera nsanja ya Montparnasse kuchokera kunja “. Kuyambira 0 mpaka 3 wazaka, msungwana wamng'ono ali pafupifupi zithunzi za akazi mozungulira iye (ku nazale, mu dziko lachipatala) ndipo ndi manyazi. Nthawi zambiri mwamuna yekha m'moyo wake ndi bambo ake, iye ndi wapadera.
Ndipo amayi mu zonsezi?
Iye mwachibadwa amatenga nawo mbali pakupanga ubale wa atate ndi mwana wamkazi chifukwa mu ubale ndi mmodzi wa makolo, ubale ndi winayo umalembedwa. Amayi, abambo ndi mwana: awa ndiye atatu oyambitsa.
Bambo ali ndi udindo wolekanitsa pakati pa mayi ndi mwana wake. Mayi, nayenso ayenera kumusiya kuti azisamalira ngakhale sakumukonda. Ayenera kumukhulupirira chifukwa nthawi imene bambo ndi mwana wake amakhala okha ndi yofunika kwambiri.
Kodi M'mabanja a Kholo Limodzi ndi Okha
Nthawi zambiri amakhala amayi okhaokha. Pamenepa, mgwirizano wa mayi ndi mwana wamkazi ukhoza kukhalapo. Wang’ono akhoza kukhala woteteza ngati atenga malo a abambo ake n’kukhalabe wodalira mayi ake. Mavuto m’chidaliro chake ndi kudzidalira angawonekere.
Ndikofunikira “kubweza atate ndi mawu” ndi kulola mwana kupeza “atate wapamtima”: amalume, agogo, bwenzi latsopano la mayi ... Mwana amafunikira abambo ndi amayi, alibe udindo womwewo ndipo palibe chomwe chingalipire kusowa kwa wina.
Titha kutanthauzira mu ziganizo zitatu udindo wa abambo kuyambira zaka 0 mpaka 3? Zimathandiza kulekanitsa mwanayo ndi mayi ake. Zimapereka ndi kutsegulira mwana ku moyo wamagulu. Iye akuti kuletsa kugonana pachibale. |