Kodi cholinga chathu monga makolo ndi chiyani? Kodi tikufuna kupereka chiyani kwa ana athu, momwe tingawalerere? Wafilosofi komanso katswiri wa zamakhalidwe a m'banja Michael Austin akulingalira kuti aganizire zolinga zazikulu ziwiri za maphunziro - ufulu ndi moyo wabwino.
Kulera ana ndi ntchito yaikulu, ndipo makolo masiku ano ali ndi mwayi wopeza zinthu zambiri kuchokera ku maphunziro a psychology, chikhalidwe cha anthu, ndi mankhwala. Chodabwitsa n’chakuti filosofi ingakhalenso yothandiza.
Michael Austin, pulofesa, wanthanthi komanso wolemba mabuku ofotokoza za ubale wabanja, analemba kuti: “Nzeru imatanthauza kukonda nzeru, ndipo thandizo lake likhoza kupangitsa moyo kukhala wosangalatsa kwambiri.” Akuti aganizire limodzi mwa mafunso amene ayambitsa mkangano pankhani ya makhalidwe abwino m’banja.
Kukhala bwino
“Ndimakhulupirira kuti cholinga chachikulu cha kukhala kholo ndicho kukhala ndi moyo wabwino,” Austin akutsimikiza.
Malinga ndi maganizo ake, ana amafunika kuleredwa motsatira mfundo zina za makhalidwe abwino. Popeza kufunika kwa munthu aliyense m'gulu lamtsogolo, yesetsani kuwonetsetsa kuti amadzidalira, odekha komanso osangalala pamoyo wawo wonse. Ndikuwafunira kuti azichita bwino ndikukhalabe anthu oyenera mwamakhalidwe komanso mwanzeru.
Makolo si eni ake, si ambuye komanso olamulira mwankhanza. M'malo mwake, ayenera kukhala ngati adindo, oyang'anira kapena otsogolera ana awo. Ndi njira iyi, ubwino wa ana aang'ono umakhala cholinga chachikulu cha maphunziro.
Freedom
Michael Austin akukangana pagulu ndi wafilosofi komanso wolemba ndakatulo William Irving Thompson, wolemba The Matrix monga Philosophy, yemwe akutchulidwa kuti, "Ngati simudzipangira tsogolo lanu, mudzakhala ndi tsogolo lokakamizidwa pa inu. »
Pofufuza nkhani za ubwana ndi maphunziro, Irwin akutsutsa kuti cholinga cha ubereki ndi ufulu. Ndipo njira zowunikira chipambano cha makolo ndi momwe ana awo alili omasuka. Amateteza kufunika kwa ufulu monga choncho, kusamutsira ku gawo la maphunziro a mibadwo yatsopano.
Amakhulupirira kuti muufulu muli ulemu kwa ena. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, ngakhale anthu amene ali ndi maganizo osiyanasiyana a dzikoli angagwirizane pa nkhani ya kufunika kwa ufulu. Kuteteza kufunikira kwa njira zomveka za moyo, Irwin amakhulupirira kuti munthu akhoza kusiya ufulu pokhapokha ngati akuvutika ndi kufooka kwa chifuniro.
Kufooka kwa chifuniro ndikopanda nzeru kwa iye, chifukwa pamenepa anthu sangathe kuchita zinthu ndikutsatira njira yomwe adasankha kuti ikhale yabwino kwambiri. Kuphatikiza apo, malinga ndi Irwin, makolo ayenera kumvetsetsa kuti popereka malingaliro awo kwa ana, amatha kuwoloka mzere ndikuyamba kuwasokoneza ubongo, potero amalepheretsa ufulu wawo.
Izi, malinga ndi Michael Austin, ndiye mbali yofooka kwambiri ya lingaliro lakuti "cholinga cha ubereki ndi ufulu wa ana." Vuto ndiloti ufulu ulibe phindu. Palibe aliyense wa ife amene amafuna kuti ana azichita zinthu zachiwerewere, zopanda nzeru, kapena zosafunika kwenikweni.
Tanthauzo lakuya la kulera
Austin sagwirizana ndi maganizo a Irwin ndipo amawaona ngati kuopseza makhalidwe. Koma ngati tivomereza ubwino wa ana monga cholinga cha ubwana, ndiye kuti ufulu - chinthu cha ubwino - udzatenga malo ake mu dongosolo la mtengo wapatali. Inde, makolo ayenera kusamala kuti asapeputse ufulu wa ana. Kukhala mfulu ndikofunikira kuti mukhale olemera, akutero Michael Austin.
Koma panthawi imodzimodziyo, njira yowonjezera, "yoyang'anira" yolerera ana si yovomerezeka, komanso yabwino. Makolo ali ndi chidwi chopereka zikhulupiriro zawo kwa ana awo. Ndipo ana amafunikira chitsogozo ndi chitsogozo cha kakulidwe, chimene angalandire kuchokera kwa makolo awo.
"Tiyenera kulemekeza ufulu womwe ukukula mwa ana athu, koma ngati tidziona ngati atumiki amtundu wina, ndiye kuti cholinga chathu chachikulu ndicho kukhala ndi moyo wabwino, wamakhalidwe ndi luntha," adatero.
Kutsatira njira iyi, sitidzafunafuna "kukhala ndi moyo kudzera mwa ana athu." Komabe, Austin akulemba kuti, tanthauzo lenileni ndi chisangalalo cha kukhala kholo zimamvetsetsedwa ndi omwe amaika zofuna za ana pamwamba pa zawo. “Ulendo wovuta umenewu ukhoza kusintha moyo wa ana ndi makolo amene amawasamalira kuti ukhale wabwino.”
Za Katswiri: Michael Austin ndi filosofi komanso wolemba mabuku okhudza makhalidwe, komanso filosofi ya mabanja, chipembedzo, ndi masewera.