Teremuyo frigidity ndi mawu omwe amatanthauza, mwa mawu amodzi, kusapezeka kapena kuchepa kwa chisangalalo panthawi yogonana kapena nthawi zina kusakhutira pakugonana.

Pachifukwa ichi, frigidity ikhoza kufanana ndi:

• palibe orgasm, kapena anorgasmia
• kusowa chilakolako chogonana (tikulankhula hypoactive chilakolako chogonana), anaphrodisia kapena kuchepa kwa libido.

Pali ndithudi "madigiri" angapo ndi mawonetseredwe osiyanasiyana a frigidity, kuyambira kusowa kwathunthu kwa zomverera panthawi yogonana, mpaka kutsutsana koonekera pakati pa kukula kwa chikhumbo ndi umphawi wa zomverera zakuthupi, kuphatikizapo chisangalalo. "Zabwinobwino" koma osatsogolera ku orgasm¹.

Teremuyo frigidity mwamwambo amagwiritsidwa ntchito kufotokoza vuto lachikazi, ngakhale kusasangalala kapena chikhumbo chakugonana kungagwirenso ntchito kwa amuna. Sichigwiritsidwanso ntchito ndi madokotala, chifukwa cha kufotokozera kwake komanso kusowa kwa tanthauzo lenileni.

Pepala ili lidzaperekedwa makamaka makamaka kwaanorgasmia akazi, kusowa chilakolako kuchitiridwa mu pepala otsika libido.

Anorgasmia imapezekanso mwa amuna, koma ndiyosowa².

Choyamba tikhoza kusiyanitsa:

• anorgasmia zoyambirira : mkaziyo sanakhalepo ndi chilala.
• anorgasmia yachiwiri kapena kupeza: mkaziyo wakhala kale ndi orgasms, koma palibenso.

Tikhozanso kusiyanitsa :

• Total anorgasmia: Mayi sakhala ndi chilakolako podziseweretsa maliseche, kapena paubwenzi, komanso sakhala ndi chilakolako chochititsidwa ndi kukondoweza kwa clitoral kapena ukazi.
• awiri anorgasmia kumene mkazi angathe kukwaniritsa orgasms yekha, koma pamaso pa bwenzi lake.
• coital anorgasmia: Mayi sakhala ndi chilakolako panthawi yomwe mbolo imayenda kumbuyo ndi kutsogolo kwa nyini, koma amatha kupeza chisangalalo mwa kukondoweza kwa clitoral yekha kapena ndi bwenzi lake.

Pomaliza, anorgasmia imatha kukhala mwadongosolo kapena kuchitika nthawi zina: timalankhula za anorgasmia.

Ndani akukhudzidwa?

The clitoral orgasm imadziwika kwa amayi oposa 90%, ngakhale kuti sichiri mwadongosolo kumayambiriro kwa moyo wawo wogonana ndipo imafuna nthawi yodziwikiratu kwa amayi omwe sanachite maliseche asanakhale ndi chibwenzi choyamba. kugonana.

Kutsekula kwa nyini sikuchitika kawirikawiri, chifukwa pafupifupi gawo limodzi mwa magawo atatu aliwonse amakumana nalo. Zimayambitsidwa ndi kusuntha kwa mbolo kokha kumbuyo ndi kutsogolo. Wina mwa atatu mwa amayi amapeza chotchedwa vaginal orgasm pokhapokha ngati clitoris yawo imakondoweza nthawi imodzi. Ndipo gawo limodzi mwa magawo atatu aliwonse a amayi samakumana ndi vuto la vaginal orgasm.

M'mawu ena, chiwalo cha m'mimba mwa akazi ndi clitoris, mochuluka kuposa nyini.

Tikudziwa kuti pafupifupi, akazi amakhala ndi orgasm kamodzi pawiri panthawi yogonana podziwa kuti ena ndi "polyorgasmic" (pafupifupi 10% ya amayi) ndipo amatha kumanga ma orgasm angapo, pamene ena amakhala osowa. , popanda kukhumudwa kwenikweni. Zowonadi, chisangalalo sichimafanana ndi orgasm.

Kusokonezeka kwa orgasm kumatha kukhudza gawo limodzi mwa magawo anayi a akazi⁴, koma pali maphunziro ochepa akuluakulu a miliri omwe amalemba za vutoli.

Mmodzi wa iwo, kafukufuku wa PRESIDE, wopangidwa ndi mafunso ku United States omwe ali ndi amayi oposa 30, akuti kufalikira kwa vuto la orgasm pafupifupi 000%.⁵.

Sekondale anorgasmia ingakhale yochulukirachulukira kuposa kukomoka koyamba, komwe kumakhudza 5 mpaka 10% ya azimayi.⁶.

Nthawi zambiri, matenda okhudzana ndi kugonana amakhudza pafupifupi 40% ya amayi. Zimaphatikizapo kusapaka bwino kwa nyini, kusapeza bwino komanso kuwawa panthawi yogonana, kuchepa kwa chikhumbo komanso vuto lofika pachimake.⁷.

Zimayambitsa

Njira zakuthupi ndi zamaganizidwe zomwe zimayambitsa orgasm ndizovuta ndipo sizikudziwika bwino.

Zomwe zimayambitsa anorgasmia ndizo zovuta. Kuthekera kwa mkazi kufika pachimake kumadalira makamaka msinkhu wake, msinkhu wake wa maphunziro, chipembedzo chake, umunthu wake ndi ubale wake.⁸.

Kumayambiriro kwa moyo wakugonana, ndizabwinobwino kusapeza orgasm, kugonana komwe kumafuna nthawi yophunzira komanso kuzolowera zomwe nthawi zina zimakhala zazitali.

Zinthu zingapo zitha kuchitika ndikusintha mphamvu iyi, makamaka⁹ :

• Chidziwitso chomwe mkazi ali nacho pathupi lake,
• Kugonana kwa okondedwa ndi luso lake,
• Mbiri ya zowawa zakugonana (kugwiriridwa, kugonana pachibale, etc.)
• Matenda okhumudwa kapena kuda nkhawa
• Kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo kapena mowa
• Kumwa mankhwala ena (kuphatikiza antidepressants kapena antipsychotics omwe amatha kuchedwetsa orgasm)
• Zikhulupiriro zachikhalidwe kapena zachipembedzo zokhudzana ndi kugonana (mlandu, "dothi", ndi zina zotero).
• Mavuto a ubale
• Matenda oyambitsa matenda (kuvulala kwa msana, multiple sclerosis, etc.)
• Nthawi zina za moyo, limodzi ndi kusokonezeka kwa mahomoni, makamaka pregnancy ndi menopause.

Komabe, mimba, makamaka mu trimester yachiwiri, imathanso kukhala yabwino kwambiri pakugonana kwa akazi komanso makamaka ku orgasm. Nthawi imeneyi nthawi zina imatchedwa "honeymoon of pregnancy" ndipo zimadziwika kuti amayi ena amapeza chisangalalo chawo choyamba pa nthawi ya mimba, nthawi zambiri mu trimester yachiwiri.

Zochitika komanso zovuta

Anorgasmia si matenda pawokha. Ndi vuto logwira ntchito lomwe limakhala lovuta ngati liri lochititsa manyazi, losasangalatsa kapena losautsa kwa munthu amene akudandaula za izo kapena kwa wokondedwa wake.

Azimayi omwe amadandaula za anorgasmia amatha kuvutika maganizo komanso nkhawa. Ichi ndi chifukwa chake kuli kofunika kulankhula za izo, makamaka monga njira zothetsera.