Kulani ku ufulu wakudzisankhira

Ena aife timaganiza kuti pali ufulu wambiri: savomereza maukwati a amuna kapena akazi okhaokha omwe amaloledwa ku Ulaya kapena ma TV monga Dom-2. Ena, m'malo mwake, amakwiyitsidwa ndi kuletsedwa kwa ufulu wa atolankhani, kulankhula ndi kusonkhana. Izi zikutanthauza kuti pali "ufulu" wochuluka, womwe umanena za ufulu wathu, ndi "ufulu" m'lingaliro la filosofi: kutha kuchita zinthu paokha, kupanga zosankha, kusankha nokha.

Ndipo ndikupeza chiyani pa izi?

Akatswiri a zamaganizo ali ndi maganizo awo: amagwirizanitsa ufulu ndi zochita zathu, osati ndi ife eni. “Anthu ambiri amaona kuti kukhala waufulu kumatanthauza kukhala womasuka kuchita zimene ukufuna, ndiponso kukhala wopanda ufulu kumatanthauza kukakamizidwa kuchita zimene sukufuna,” akutero katswiri wa zamaganizo Tatyana Fadeeva. - Ndicho chifukwa chake "ogwira ntchito zoyera" nthawi zambiri samamasuka: amakhala muofesi chaka chonse, koma ndikufuna kupita kumtsinje, kukapha nsomba, ku Hawaii.

Ndipo opuma pantchito, m'malo mwake, amalankhula za ufulu - kuchokera ku nkhawa ndi ana aang'ono, kupita kuntchito, ndi zina zotero. Tsopano mutha kukhala ndi moyo momwe mukufunira, amasangalala, thanzi lokhalo silingalole ... Koma, mu lingaliro langa, zochita zokhazo zikhoza kutchedwa zaufulu weniweni, zomwe ndife okonzeka kunyamula udindo.

Ndiko kuti, kusewera gitala usiku wonse ndi kusangalala, pamene nyumba yonse ikugona, sikunali ufulu. Koma ngati panthawi imodzimodziyo tili okonzeka kuti oyandikana nawo okwiya kapena apolisi akhoza kubwera mothamanga nthawi iliyonse, uwu ndi ufulu.

Zili bwanji njira yathu

“M’pofunika kudziŵa zopereŵera zimene zilipo m’moyo,” akutero katswiri wa Gestalt Maria Gasparyan. - Ngati tinyalanyaza zoletsedwa, izi zimasonyeza kusakhwima maganizo kwa munthuyo. Ufulu ndi wa anthu akuluakulu m'maganizo. Ana sadziwa momwe angakhalire ndi ufulu.

Mwana wamng'ono, ufulu ndi udindo wochepa. M’mawu ena, “ufulu wanga umathera pamene ufulu wa munthu wina umayambira.” Ndipo sichiyenera kusokonezedwa ndi kulolera ndi kusamalidwa. Zikuoneka kuti udindo ndi chikhalidwe chofunika ufulu.

Koma zikuwoneka kuti izi zikumveka zachilendo ku makutu a ku Russia… Mu chikhalidwe chathu, ufulu ndi wofanana ndi ufulu wakudzisankhira, kungochita modzidzimutsa, osati udindo kapena kufunikira. Tatyana Fadeeva anati: "Munthu wa ku Russia amathawa chilichonse, amalimbana ndi zoletsa zilizonse. "Ndipo amatchula kudziletsa ngati" maunyolo olemera" monga omwe amamangidwa kuchokera kunja."

Oddly mokwanira, mfundo za ufulu ndi chifuniro - adzakhala m'lingaliro lakuti mukhoza kuchita chirichonse chimene inu mukufuna ndipo inu simudzapeza chirichonse kwa izo - kuchokera maganizo a akatswiri a maganizo, iwo sagwirizana konse. Maria Gasparyan anati: “Akuoneka kuti ndi a zisudzo zosiyanasiyana. “Zisonyezero zenizeni za ufulu ndizo kusankha, kuvomereza malire, kukhala ndi thayo la zochita ndi zochita, kuzindikira zotsatira za chosankhacho.”

Kuphwanya - osati kumanga

Ngati tibwerera m'maganizo ku zaka zathu za 12-19, ndiye kuti tidzakumbukira mozama momwe tinkafunira ufulu wodziimira pa nthawiyo, ngakhale kuti sichinawonekere kunja. Ndipo achinyamata ambiri, kuti adzimasulire okha ku chikoka cha makolo, amatsutsa, kuwononga, kuswa chilichonse chomwe chili panjira yawo.

"Kenako chidwi kwambiri chimayamba," akutero Maria Gasparyan. - Wachinyamata amadziyang'ana yekha, amafufuza zomwe zili pafupi ndi iye, zomwe sizili pafupi, amapanga dongosolo lake la makhalidwe abwino. Adzatenga mfundo za makolo, kukana zina. Muzochitika zoipa, mwachitsanzo, ngati amayi ndi abambo asokoneza njira yopatukana, mwana wawo akhoza kukakamira kupanduka kwachinyamata. Ndipo kwa iye lingaliro la kumasulidwa lidzakhala lofunika kwambiri.

Kwa chiyani ndi chiyani, sizikudziwika. Monga ngati kutsutsa chifukwa cha zionetsero kumakhala chinthu chachikulu, osati kusuntha ku maloto anu. Zitha kuchitika kwa moyo wonse.” Ndipo ndi chitukuko chabwino cha zochitika, wachinyamatayo adzafika ku zolinga zake ndi zokhumba zake. Yambani kumvetsetsa zomwe muyenera kuyesetsa.

Malo ochita bwino

Kodi ufulu wathu umadalira bwanji chilengedwe? Polingalira za zimenezi, mlembi wachifalansa ndi wanthanthi wochirikiza kukhalapo kwake Jean-Paul Sartre nthaŵi ina analemba mawu odabwitsa m’nkhani yakuti “Republic of Silence”: “Sitinakhalepo aufulu monga m’nthaŵi ya ntchitoyo.” kusunthako kunali ndi kulemera kwa udindo.” Tingakane, kupanduka, kapena kukhala chete. Panalibe amene amationetsa njira yopitira.”

Sartre amalimbikitsa aliyense kuti adzifunse funso lakuti: "Kodi ndingakhale bwanji motsatira momwe ine ndiri?" Zoona zake n’zakuti kuyesayesa koyambirira kochitidwa kuti mukhale ochita zisudzo m’moyo ndiko kuchoka m’malo a wozunzidwayo. Aliyense wa ife ali ndi ufulu wosankha chimene chili chabwino kwa iye, chimene chili choipa. Mdani wathu wamkulu ndi ife eni.

Podzibwereza tokha "momwemo ndi momwe ziyenera kukhalira", "muyenera", monga momwe makolo athu anganenere, kutichititsa manyazi chifukwa chonyenga ziyembekezo zawo, sitilola kuti tipeze zotheka zathu zenizeni. Sitikhala ndi udindo wa zilonda zomwe tinakumana nazo paubwana ndi kukumbukira koopsa komwe kumatisunga kukhala akapolo, koma tili ndi udindo wa malingaliro ndi zithunzi zomwe zimawonekera mwa ife tikamakumbukira.

Ndipo kokha mwa kudzimasula tokha kwa iwo, tikhoza kukhala moyo wathu ndi ulemu ndi chisangalalo. Kumanga famu ku America? Kodi mutsegule malo odyera ku Thailand? Kodi mungapite ku Antarctica? Bwanji osamvera maloto anu? Zilakolako zathu zimachititsa kuti tiziganiza zoyamba kuchita zinthu zimene ena amaganiza kuti n’zosatheka.

Izi sizikutanthauza kuti moyo ndi wosavuta. Mwachitsanzo, kwa mayi wamng’ono yemwe akulera yekha ana, kungomasula madzulo kuti apite ku kalasi ya yoga nthawi zina kumakhala ntchito yeniyeni. Koma zokhumba zathu ndi zosangalatsa zimene zimatipatsa zimatipatsa mphamvu.