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Tchuthi ndi abwenzi ndi ana: samalani zinthu zikavuta!
Inde, tchuthi chachilimwe chayandikira. Chaka chino, tinaganiza zopita ndi anzathu ndi ana awo. Titatha kusungitsa malo abwino otchulira, timayamba kuyang'ana zambiri za momwe tingagwiritsire ntchito, monga kusinthasintha kwamasiku ndi ana aang'ono ndi chakudya. Bwanji ngati maholide pamodzi asanduka maloto enieni? Kodi mungatani ngati mkangano uli wosapeŵeka? Timawerengera ndi Sidonie Mangin ndi kalozera wake kuti apulumuke ndi abwenzi.
Pamene ana ali ang'onoang'ono
Poyambirira, Sidonie Mangin akufotokoza m’buku lake, oseketsa ndipo pamapeto pake n’zowonadi, kuti tonsefe tili ndi zifukwa zomveka zopitira limodzi ndi mabanja angapo ndi ana: mabwenzi athu ndi abwino, tidzagawana ndalamazo, ndipo monga tikunenera zambiri. Ndife okondwa pamene timaseka kwambiri… Pakhozanso kukhala zifukwa zakuda, monga kuthawa ubale wa maso ndi maso pakati pa awiriwo ali okha ndi ana awo ongoyamba kumene, kupeŵa tchuthi ndi apongozi, ndi zina zotero. Komabe, kuchoka ndi ana, makamaka akakhala ang'onoang'ono, amatha kusandulika kukhala kusapeza bwino zinthu zikavuta. Choopsa chachikulu ndi matenda, omwe amayamba pamene mukuchoka kapena mutangofika. “Matenda aubwana amakhala masiku 15 ndendende, patchuthi. Amafuna chisamaliro chapadera: kuletsa, mwachitsanzo, kudziwonetsa padzuwa kapena kusamba. Zabwino mukakhala patchuthi! », Amatchula Sidonie Mangin. Zovuta zina zomwe zikuwopseza gululi: zokopa za mitu yathu yokongola ya blond. Malinga ndi maphunziro a wina ndi mzake, ali ndi ufulu kapena ayi kugubuduza pansi pa chokhumudwitsa pang'ono. Zomwe zingakhumudwitse ena mwachangu. Njira ya moyo ndiyo mfundo yaikulu ya kusamvana pakati pa banja ndi mabwenzi.
Osiyana kayimbidwe ka moyo ndi ana
Madongosolo, chakudya, maphunziro amene munthu amapereka kwa kerubi wake amasiyana ndi kholo limodzi ndi linzake. Ndipo koposa zonse, aliyense ali ndi zizoloŵezi zake: "Ali ndi ufulu wowonera TV, akhoza kudya ayisikilimu ...". Sidonie Mangin akufotokoza kuti “maola oikika kapena malamulo aukhondo oikidwa ndi makolo ena angakhale magwero a mkangano. Pali ena omwe amapitiliza kugona ana awo panthawi yoikika pomwe ena amawalola kudzuka pakapita nthawi ”. Zizoloŵezi zamadyedwe nazonso zimawononga nthawi. Malinga ndi makolo, ana ena adzakhala ndi ufulu "mwapadera" kudya Nutella, maswiti kapena kumwa Coca-Cola pa maola ododometsa. Zosatheka kwa ena. “Cholinga n’chakuti mupite ndi mabwenzi amene ali ndi ana a msinkhu wofanana, kuti mukhale ndi moyo wofanana. Pankhani ya maphunziro, tiyenera kuika patsogolo zokambirana momwe tingathere kuti tipewe kukangana ” akufotokoza Sidonie Mangin.
Zoyenera kuchita ngati kukangana sikungapeweke?
Pambuyo pa masiku osaneneka, okwiyitsidwa, tsatanetsatane waukali, mkangano ukudikirira mabwenzi amtendere kwambiri. Kukangana kwamphamvu kapena kwakanthawi, kumakulolani kuti munene zonse zomwe mukuganiza. Sidonie Mangin akusonyeza “kuunjikana kwa mikangano, mfundo zing’onozing’ono zododometsa kapena chiŵerengero cha kutsutsa kosamveka bwino kungayambitse mkangano. Nthawi zambiri zimapita mwachangu momwe zidachitikira! Muubwenzi monga ndi chirichonse, chofunika ndi kukambirana. Kulankhula zinthu wekha n’kofunika. Yankho ? Musazengereze kupuma masana. Kuchoka pagulu kukayamba kuvuta kungakhale kopindulitsa. Simukuyenera kugawana chilichonse nthawi zonse. Muthanso kupita kopuma ndi banja, koyenda, mwachitsanzo ”. Choopsa china n’chakuti ana akamakangana, akuluakulu amayenera kuyesetsa kuti agwirizane. Apanso, Sidonie Mangin akupereka uphungu wosavuta: “athandizeni kupeza maseŵera ofala ngakhale atakhala kuti si amsinkhu wofanana. Pewani kudzudzula maphunziro a anzanu. Yang'anani kunyengerera kuti mupewe kusiyana kwa chithandizo kuchokera kwa mwana wina kupita kwa wina, ndipo upangiri womaliza, wofunikira kwambiri: ngati zonse sizikuyenda, pangitsa mwana wanu kumvetsetsa kuti makolo onse ndi osiyana ”. Matchuthi abwino!