Momwe mungagonjetse ululu ndi zomwe zimawululidwa kwa munthu mumkhalidwe wokhumudwa? Ziwerengero zachipembedzo ndi ofufuza amakhulupirira kuti ndi chikhulupiriro chomwe chimathandiza kugwirizananso ndi dziko lakunja, kupeza gwero la chikondi cha moyo ndikumva chisangalalo chenicheni.
“Kwa ine, monga wokhulupirira, chimwemwe chimadza ndi chimene chiri chapamwamba kuposa ine, chimene sichingatchulidwe kapena kufotokozedwa,” akutero wansembe wa Orthodox ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo Pyotr Kolomeytsev. — Talingalirani dziko, lopanda kanthu, lozizira, mmene Mlengi wathu sitingamuwone. Titha kungoyang'ana chilengedwe ndi kuyesa kuyerekezera kuti ndi chiyani. Ndipo mwadzidzidzi ndimamumvera Iye momwe ndimamvera wokondedwa.
Ndimamvetsetsa kuti dziko lalikululi, chilengedwe chopanda malire chili ndi Magwero a matanthauzo onse, ndipo ndimatha kulankhula ndi Iye.
Mu psychology, pali lingaliro la "kulumikizana": kumatanthauza kugwirizana kwamalingaliro komwe kumachitika mukukhulupirirana ndi munthu kapena gulu la anthu. Mkhalidwe woterewu, kulumikizana ndi chilengedwe, kulumikizana kwathu - osalankhula mawu, osaganiza bwino - zimandipangitsa kukhala ndi chisangalalo champhamvu kwambiri.
Katswiri wina wachipembedzo wa ku Israel, Ruth Kara-Ivanov, katswiri wa ku Kabbalah, ananena za chochitika chofananacho. “Njira yeniyeni yofufuza dziko lapansi, anthu ena, malemba opatulika, Mulungu ndi ineyo imandisangalatsa ndi kundilimbikitsa,” akuvomereza motero. - Dziko lapamwamba kwambiri laphimbidwa ndi chinsinsi, monga momwe buku la Zohar limanenera.
Iye ndi wosamvetsetseka, ndipo palibe amene angamumvetse. Koma pamene tivomereza kuti tiyambe kuphunzira chinsinsi ichi, podziwa pasadakhale kuti sitidzachidziwa, moyo wathu umasinthidwa ndipo zinthu zambiri zimawululidwa kwa ife mwatsopano, monga ngati kwa nthawi yoyamba, zomwe zimayambitsa chisangalalo ndi chisangalalo.
Kotero, pamene tidzimva tokha kukhala gawo lalikulu ndi losamvetsetseka lonse ndikulowa mu chiyanjano chodalira, pamene tidziwa dziko lapansi ndi ife eni, chikondi cha moyo chimadzutsa mwa ife.
Komanso - chikhulupiliro chakuti kupambana kwathu ndi zomwe tachita sizili zapadziko lapansi.
Mneneri Muhammad anati: “Anthu inu, muyenera kukhala ndi cholinga, chikhumbo. Anabwereza mawu ameneŵa katatu,” akutsindika motero Shamil Alyautdinov, katswiri wa zaumulungu wachisilamu, imam-khatib wa Moscow Memorial Mosque. - Chifukwa cha chikhulupiriro, moyo wanga uli ndi zolinga zenizeni ndi ntchito zovuta. Pogwira ntchito pa izo, ndimakhala ndi chisangalalo ndi chiyembekezo cha chimwemwe mu muyaya, chifukwa zinthu zanga zapadziko lapansi zimadutsa chifukwa cha zoyesayesa zanga ku moyo wosatha.
Mphamvu zopanda malire
Kudalira Mulungu, koma osati kuti mupumule ndi kukhala osagwira ntchito, koma m'malo mwake, pofuna kulimbikitsa mphamvu ndi kukwaniritsa zonse zofunika - maganizo otere pa moyo ndi ofanana kwa okhulupirira.
Pyotr Kolomeytsev akutsimikiza kuti: “Mulungu ali ndi cholinga chake pa dziko lapansili. “Ndipo pamene zidziwikiratu kuti, mwa kujambula maluwa kapena kuimba violin, ndimakhala wantchito mnzawo m’chilinganizo chofala cha Mulungu ichi, nyonga yanga imachulukitsidwa kakhumi. Ndipo mphatsozo zimawululidwa zonse.”
Koma kodi chikhulupiriro chimathandiza kuthetsa ululu? Limeneli ndi funso lofunika kwambiri, chifukwa mafunso ena onse onena za cholinga cha moyo amakhudzana nalo. Ndi iye amene anawonekera mokwanira kwa m’busa wachiprotestanti Litta Basset pamene mwana wake wamkulu, Samuel wa zaka 24 zakubadwa, anadzipha.
Iye anati: “Ndinakumana ndi Kristu ndili ndi zaka XNUMX, koma Samuel atamwalira m’pamene ndinaona kuti kugwirizana kumeneku n’kwamuyaya. Ndinabwerezanso dzina la Yesu ngati mantra, ndipo kwa ine chinali gwero la chimwemwe chimene sichifa.”
Kukhalapo kwa Mulungu ndi chikondi cha anthu amene anali pafupi naye zinamuthandiza kupulumuka tsokalo.
Pyotr Kolomeytsev akufotokoza kuti: “Kupweteka kumapereka lingaliro la kuvutika kwa Mulungu. - Kuchitiridwa manyazi, kuwawa, kukanidwa, munthu amadzimva kuti sakuvomerezedwa ndi zoipa za dziko lapansi, ndipo kumverera uku kumakhala kodabwitsa monga chisangalalo. Ndikudziwa zochitika pamene, mumkhalidwe wothedwa nzeru, chinachake chikuwululidwa kwa munthu chomwe chimamupatsa kulimba mtima ndi kukonzekera kupirira kuvutika kwakukulu.
Sizingatheke kulingalira "chinachake" ichi kapena kuchifotokoza m'mawu, koma kwa okhulupirira, mosakayika pali mwayi wopeza mphamvu zamkati zamkati. Ruth Kara-Ivanov anati: “Ndimayesetsa kuona zowawa zilizonse monga phunziro limene ndikufunika kuphunzira, ngakhale zitakhala nkhanza chotani. Inde, n’zosavuta kukamba za izo kuposa kukhala ndi moyo wotero. Koma chikhulupiriro chokumana “pamaso ndi maso” ndi Mulungu chimandithandiza kupeza kuwala m’mikhalidwe yamdima kwambiri.
Kukonda ena
Mawu akuti "chipembedzo" amatanthauza "kulumikizananso". Ndipo sizokhudza mphamvu zaumulungu zokha, komanso kulumikizana ndi anthu ena. “Chitirani ena monga momwe mumadzichitira nokha, ndiyeno zidzakhala bwino kwa aliyense—mfundo imeneyi ili m’zipembedzo zonse,” akukumbutsa motero mbuye wa Zen Boris Orion. - Zochita zosagwirizana ndi chikhalidwe zomwe timachita pokhudzana ndi anthu ena, mafunde ocheperako mwa mawonekedwe amalingaliro athu amphamvu, zilakolako, malingaliro owononga.
Ndipo pamene madzi amalingaliro athu akhazikika pang'onopang'ono, amakhala bata ndi kuwonekera. Mofananamo, mitundu yonse ya chisangalalo imalengedwa ndi kuyeretsedwa. Chikondi cha moyo sichimalekanitsidwa ndi moyo wachikondi."
Kuyiwala kukonda ena kwambiri ndi uthenga wa ziphunzitso zambiri.
Mwachitsanzo, Chikhristu chimati munthu analengedwa m’chifaniziro ndi m’chifaniziro cha Mulungu, choncho aliyense ayenera kulemekezedwa ndi kukondedwa monga chifaniziro cha Mulungu. Pyotr Kolomeytsev anati: “M’chipembedzo cha Orthodox, chimwemwe chauzimu chimabwera chifukwa chokumana ndi munthu wina. - Onse akathists athu amayamba ndi mawu akuti «kondwerani», ndipo ichi ndi mtundu wa moni.
Zosangalatsa zimatha kukhala zodziyimira pawokha, zobisika kuseri kwa zitseko zolimba kapena pansi pa bulangeti, zobisika kwa aliyense. Koma chisangalalo ndi mtembo wachisangalalo. Ndipo chimwemwe chenicheni chamoyo chimapezeka ndendende m’kulankhulana, m’chigwirizano ndi winawake. Kukhoza kutenga ndi kupereka. Pokonzekera kulandira munthu wina mu zina zake ndi kukongola kwake.
Kuthokoza tsiku lililonse
Chikhalidwe chamakono chimakhala ndi cholinga chokhala ndi: kupeza katundu kumawoneka ngati chinthu chofunikira kuti mukhale ndi chimwemwe, komanso kusowa kwa zomwe zimafunidwa ngati chifukwa chachisoni. Koma njira ina n'zotheka, ndi Shamil Alyautdinov akulankhula za izi. "Ndikofunikira kwambiri kwa ine kuti ndisaphonye chisangalalo cha moyo, ngakhale kunyong'onyeka ndi kukhumudwa zikumveka pakhomo ndi mphamvu yodabwitsa," akuvomereza. — Poyesera kukhalabe wachimwemwe, ndimasonyeza chiyamikiro changa kwa Mulungu mwanjira imeneyi.
Kukhala woyamikira kwa Iye kumatanthauza kuzindikira tsiku ndi tsiku mwa iwe mwini, mwa ena ndi mu chirichonse chimene chiri pafupi, chabwino, chokongola. Kumatanthauza kuthokoza anthu pazifukwa zilizonse, kuzindikira bwino mwayi wawo wosawerengeka ndikugawana mowolowa manja zipatso za ntchito yawo ndi ena.
Kuyamikira kumadziwika ngati mtengo m'zipembedzo zonse - chikhale Chikhristu ndi sakramenti la Ukaristia, "kuthokoza", Chiyuda kapena Buddhism.
Komanso luso losintha zomwe tingathe kusintha, ndikuyang'ana modekha zomwe sizingalephereke. Landirani zotayika zanu monga gawo la moyo ndipo, ngati mwana, musasiye kudabwa nthawi iliyonse.
“Ndipo ngati tikukhala kuno ndi tsopano, monga momwe njira ya Tao imatiphunzitsira,” akutero Boris Orion, “munthu angazindikire kuti chimwemwe ndi chikondi zili kale mwa ife ndipo sitifunikira kuyesetsa kuzikwaniritsa.”