Psychology

Makolo ali ndi zambiri zoti aphunzire kuchokera kwa ana awo, mphunzitsi wa bizinesi Nina Zvereva ndi wotsimikiza. Pamene tikukula, zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kuzindikira zatsopano. Ndipo nthawi zambiri timayiwala kuti tili ndi othandizira kwambiri kudziwa zatsopano - ana athu. Chinthu chachikulu si kutaya kukhudzana ndi kukhala ndi chidwi ndi moyo wawo.

Ana ndi aphunzitsi abwino. Amadziwa kutitengera mawu athu, ndiye kuti muyenera kulingalira mosamala musanalonjezepo kanthu. Amadziwa kupempha kuchita zinthu zomwe sitinachitepo.

Ndimakumbukira momwe usiku ine ndi mwamuna wanga timadula ndikusoka timabuku tating'ono ta zidole za Katya pa tsiku lake lobadwa. Sanafunse nkomwe. Iye ankangokonda kwambiri zinthu zazing'ono, iye ankakonda kusewera ndi zidole "moyo wamkulu". Ndi zomwe tinayesera. Kachikwama kathu kakang'ono kokhala ndi timabuku ta zidole chakhala pafupifupi mphatso yabwino koposa padziko lonse lapansi!

Kwa ine kunali mayeso. Nthaŵi zonse kwakhala kosavuta kwa ine kulemba ndakatulo kusiyana ndi kusita diresi la mwana ndi zokometsera. Kupanga zipsera za chipale chofewa patchuthi ku kindergarten chinali chilango chenicheni - sindinaphunzirepo momwe ndingapangire. Koma ndinapanga herbarium wa autumn masamba ndi chisangalalo!

Ndinaphunziranso kuyeretsa mawindo akuluakulu m’kalasi, ngakhale kamodzi ndinatsala pang’ono kugwa kuchokera pansanjika yachinayi, kuchititsa mantha gulu lonse la makolo. Kenako ndinatumizidwa mwaulemu kuti ndikatsuka madesiki kuchokera ku maumboni osiyanasiyana achikondi ndi mawu ena omwe sanafune kutha.

Anawo anakula. Mwadzidzidzi anasiya kukonda zakudya zamafuta, ndipo ndinaphunzira kuphika zakudya zopatsa thanzi. Ankalankhulanso Chingelezi chabwino kwambiri, ndipo ndinafunika kulimbikira kwambiri kukumbukira mawu onse achingelezi akale komanso kuphunzira ina. Mwa njira, kwa nthawi yaitali ndinali ndi manyazi kulankhula Chingelezi pamodzi ndi ana anga. Koma adandichirikiza mwachikondi, adandiyamika kwambiri ndipo nthawi zina amangosintha mosamala mawu osachita bwino kukhala olondola.

“Amayi,” mwana wanga wamkulu anandiuza, “simuyenera kugwiritsa ntchito “ndikufuna”, kuli bwino kunena kuti “Ndikufuna”. Ndinayesetsa kuchita zimene ndingathe, ndipo tsopano ndimalankhula Chingelezi chabwino. Ndipo zonse ndikuthokoza kwa ana. Nelya anakwatiwa ndi Mhindu, ndipo popanda Chingelezi sitikanatha kulankhula ndi Pranab wathu wokondedwa.

Ana saphunzitsa makolo mwachindunji, ana amalimbikitsa makolo kuphunzira. Zikanakhala kuti sizikanakhala choncho sakanakhala ndi chidwi ndi ife. Ndipo ndi molawirira kwambiri kuti ndingokhala chinthu chodetsa nkhawa, ndipo sindikufuna kutero. Conco, munthu ayenela kuŵelenga mabuku amene amakamba, kuonelela mafilimu amene amawayamikila. Nthawi zambiri ndizochitika zabwino, koma osati nthawi zonse.

Ndife mibadwo yosiyana nawo, izi ndizofunikira. Mwa njira, Katya anandiuza mwatsatanetsatane za izi, iye anamvetsera nkhani chidwi kwambiri za zizolowezi ndi zizolowezi za anthu 20-40-60. Ndipo tidaseka, chifukwa zidapezeka kuti ine ndi mwamuna wanga ndife m'badwo "woyenera", ana athu ndi "m'badwo" wokhoza, ndipo zidzukulu zathu ndi m'badwo wa "Ndikufuna" - pali "sindikufuna" pakati pawo. iwo.

Salola kuti tikalamba, ana athu. Amadzaza moyo ndi chisangalalo ndi mphepo yatsopano ya malingaliro ndi zikhumbo zatsopano.

Zolemba zanga zonse - mizati ndi mabuku - ndimatumiza kwa ana kuti awonedwe, ndipo kalekale asanafalitsidwe. Ndinali ndi mwayi: samawerenga mosamala zolembazo, komanso amalemba ndemanga zatsatanetsatane ndi ndemanga m'mphepete. Bukhu langa lomalizira, “Akufuna Kulankhulana Nane,” laperekedwa kwa ana athu atatu, chifukwa pambuyo pa ndemanga zimene ndinalandira, ndinasinthiratu kapangidwe kake ndi lingaliro la bukhulo, ndipo linakhala labwinoko kuŵirikiza ka zana ndi lamakono chifukwa cha izi.

Salola kuti tikalamba, ana athu. Amadzaza moyo ndi chisangalalo ndi mphepo yatsopano ya malingaliro ndi zikhumbo zatsopano. Ndikuganiza kuti chaka chilichonse amakhala gulu lothandizira, lomwe mungadalire nthawi zonse.

Palinso akuluakulu ndi adzukulu achichepere. Ndipo ndi ophunzira kwambiri komanso anzeru kuposa momwe tinalili pa usinkhu wawo. Chaka chino ku dacha, mdzukulu wanga wamkulu adzandiphunzitsa kuphika mbale za gourmet, ndikuyembekezera maphunziro awa. Nyimbo zomwe ndingathe kuzitsitsa ndekha ndizisewera, mwana wanga anandiphunzitsa. Ndipo madzulo ndidzasewera Candy Crash, masewera apakompyuta ovuta komanso osangalatsa omwe mdzukulu wanga wamkazi wa ku India Piali adandipezera zaka zitatu zapitazo.

Iwo amati mphunzitsi amene anataya wophunzira mwa iye yekha ndi woipa. Ndi gulu langa lothandizira, ndikuyembekeza kuti sindiri pachiwopsezo.

Siyani Mumakonda