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Kodi hypersensitivity ndi chiyani?
Monga momwe dzina lake likusonyezera, hypersensitivity amatanthauza apamwamba kuposa kumva wamba, kuchulukirachulukira. Mu psychology, lingaliro ili linafotokozedwa mu 1996 ndi American Clinical psychologist Elaine Aron. Mu Chingerezi, amalankhula m'malo mwa "munthu womvera kwambiri”, Mwanjira ina, a munthu tcheru kwambiri kapena tcheru kwambiri, kusankha anthu omwe ali ndi chidwi kwambiri kuposa momwe amakhalira. Mawu awa amawonedwa ngati osaneneka kuposa akuti "wapamwamba kwambiri”, Chifukwa chake amakondedwa ndi akatswiri azamisala okhazikika pankhaniyi.
Malinga ndi kafukufuku waposachedwa kwambiri wa hypersensitivity, izi zimadetsa nkhawa 15 mpaka 20% ya anthu padziko lonse lapansi. Ndipo, ndithudi, ana nawonso.
Makhalidwe: momwe mungadziwire hypersensitivity kwa ana?
Hypersensitivity, yomwe imatchedwanso kutengeka kwakukulu kapena ultrasensitivity, imabweretsa zotsatirazi:
- moyo wolemera ndi wovuta wamkati, malingaliro ofunikira;
- kukhudzidwa kwambiri ndi zaluso (zojambula, nyimbo, ndi zina zotero);
- kusokonezeka pamene kuwonedwa;
- kugwedezeka mosavuta kapena kugwedezeka ndi malingaliro, kusintha, kutengeka kwambiri (kuwala, phokoso, khamu, ndi zina zotero);
- kukhala ndi vuto lochita zambiri kapena kusankha;
- luso lalikulu la kumvera ena, kuzindikira zobisika za zochitika kapena munthu.
Kukhala ndi mwana tcheru: hypersensitivity kuwonetseredwa bwanji mwa ana ndi makanda?
Monga pali mabanja angapo hypersensitivity ana, zingatenge mbali zosiyanasiyana. Mwana womvera kwambiri akhoza, mwachitsanzo kukhala wochezeka kwambiri, wongolankhula, kapena m'malo mwake zowonetsa kwambiri zamalingaliro ake. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, pali pafupifupi hypersensitivities ochuluka monga pali hypersensitive.
Komabe, akatswiri a zamaganizo a ana a hypersensitivity adazindikira bwino makhalidwe ena ndi makhalidwe a ana omwe ali ndi hypersensitive kuti athandize "kuzindikira".
Mu ntchito yake "Mwana wanga amakhudzidwa kwambiri", Dr. Elaine Aron anandandalika mawu 17, omwe makolo akukayikira kuti mwana wawo ali ndi vuto lalikulu ayenera kuyankha"chinachake chowona“Kapena”zolakwika".
Chifukwa chake, mwana yemwe ali ndi hypersensitive amakonda kulumpha mosavuta, kusayamikira zodabwitsa zazikulu, kukhala ndi nthabwala ndi mawu omwe ali abwino kwa msinkhu wake, kukhala ndi chidziwitso otukuka ndithu, kukhala funsani mafunso ambiri, kukhala ndi vuto posankha mwachangu, kukhala amafunika nthawi yabata, kuona kuvutika kwakuthupi kapena kwamaganizo kwa munthu wina, kukhala wopambana kwambiri pa ntchito pamene palibe alendo, kukhala omvera kwambiri ululu, kuganiza mozama kwambiri kapena kuvutitsidwa ndi phokoso ndi / kapena malo otanganidwa, chowala kwambiri.
Ngati muzindikira mwana wanu m'mawu onsewa, ndiye kuti ali ndi vuto lalikulu. Koma, malinga ndi kunena kwa Dr. Aron, zikhoza kukhala kuti mawu amodzi kapena aŵiri okha ndi amene angagwire ntchito kwa mwana koma amakhala atanthauzo kwambiri, ndipo mwanayo amamva chisoni kwambiri.
Mwa mwana, hypersensitivity zidzawoneka makamaka ndi momwe amachitira phokoso, kuwala, nkhawa ya makolo, minofu pakhungu lake kapena kutentha kwa kusamba.
Momwe mungathandizire, kukhazika mtima pansi ndikutsagana ndi mwana wa hypersensitive kuti athetse malingaliro ake?
Choyamba, ndikofunikira kukumbukira, monga momwe katswiri wama psychoanalyst Saverio Tomasella amanenera m'buku lake " Ndimathandizira mwana wanga yemwe ali ndi hypersensitivity kuti azichita bwino ", kuti"Ultrasensitivity imapezeka mwa ana aang'ono”. Zimakhudza makanda onse ndi ana onse mpaka zaka 7 kapena kuposerapo, pamene zimakhala kukhalapo, kapena "anachita” pambuyo.
M'malo modzudzula mwana yemwe ali ndi vuto la hypersensitivity, kapena kuwaitanira kuti abise kukhudzika kwakukulu kumeneku, komwe kumangowapatula, Ndikulimbikitsidwa kuti muthandize mwana kuti azitha kuwongolera komanso kudziwa zachilendo izi.
Mwachitsanzo, tingathe:
- kuitana mwanayo fotokozani maganizo ake ndi mawu kapena masewera,
- ulemu wake amafuna nthawi yachete pambuyo pa ntchito yaphokoso kapena pagulu, mwa iye kupewa kukondoweza kosafunikira (chitsanzo: kugula zinthu pambuyo pa tsiku lalitali kusukulu ...),
- kulankhula za kutengeka maganizo ndi hypersensitivity kudzera mawu oyamikira osati mawu oipa, kumukumbutsa makhalidwe a khalidwe limeneli (mwachitsanzo, kuzindikira kwake mwatsatanetsatane ndi kuyang'anitsitsa),
- mufotokozereni kuti atha kusintha mawonekedwewa kukhala mphamvu,
- muthandizeni kuzindikira zomwe zamukhumudwitsa ndikukambirana kuti apewe mtsogolo,
- muthandizeni kuthana ndi zosinthazo mosatekeseka momwe angathere ...
Kumbali ina, sikoyenera kuyerekezera mwana wokhudzidwa ndi hypersensitive ndi wina yemwe sali, mwachitsanzo mwa abale omwewo, ndipo izi ngakhale kuti ndizoseketsa, chifukwa kuyerekezera uku sikuchitika. kukhala ndi mwana akhoza kukhala wovuta kwambiri.
Mwachidule, chenjezo la maphunziro a mwana hypersensitive mosakayikira ndi kukoma mtima. Maphunziro abwino ndi filosofi ya Montessori ndizothandiza kwambiri kwa mwana yemwe ali ndi chidwi kwambiri.
magwero:
- Mwana wanga amakhudzidwa kwambiri, lolembedwa ndi Elaine Aron, kuti litulutsidwe 26/02/19;
- Ndimathandizira mwana wanga yemwe ali ndi vuto la hypersensitivity kuti azichita bwino, ndi Saverio Tomasella, lofalitsidwa mu February 2018