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Momwe mungawonekere bwino popanda kukhala wabwino: mungaphunzire chifundo?
Psychology
Ndikwabwino kudziwa momwe ndingadziwire ngati kukhala wabwino kumanditsogolera kusunga malingaliro, malingaliro kapena, pomaliza, kusiya kukhala ndekha.
Kodi mumadziwa kuti chifundo ndi luso lomwe munthu angaphunzire? Munthu amene mumamuona nthawi zonse akumwetulira ndi waubwenzi mwina sanali wotero paubwana wake, koma, m’kupita kwa zaka, wakhala wokhoza kuphunzira. sonyeza kuyandikana kwambiri ndi anthu.
Tikanakhala tikukamba za maluso, amene ndi gulu la maluso amene amatithandiza kukhala paubwenzi ndi ena ndi dziko lotizungulira. Titha kupeza kumvetsera, kuyambitsa kukambirana, funsani mafunso, pemphani chithandizo, pemphani chikhululukiro, khalani wachifundo, ndi zina zotero.
Phunzirani chifundo
Monga tanenera, ña chifundo Itha kuphunziridwa kudzera mukukulitsa luso la chikhalidwe cha anthu komanso kudzidalira. "Mu nkhani ya kukhala wachifundo, titha kukulitsa luso la kumvetsera kuti timvetsetse bwino munthu amene ndimalankhula naye. Ndithudi izi zimapangitsa enawo kumva bwino ndikuwongolera chithunzi chomwe ali nacho pa ine. Zonse maluso amatha kuthandizira kukhala okondedwa, kotero kuphunzira kwawo kudzakhala kofunika kwambiri, "akutero katswiri wa zamaganizo Laura Fuster (@laurafusterpsicologa).
Zidzakhala zofunikira kulankhulana ndi munthu wina mu a njira yogwira ndi kuphunzitsa kumvetsera mwachidwi.Kumvera wina chisoni nkofunika kukhala wochezeka komanso kudziwa kuyika malire athu komanso kudziwa kukana. "M'zochita zathu, nthawi zambiri timawona kuti mfundozi zimawonongera anthu ntchito zambiri ndikupanga maubwenzi ovuta komanso kusasangalala," akufotokoza motero katswiri wa Psychologists ku Valencia.
Chisoni ndi chifundo
Chifundo sichiyenera kusokonezedwa ndi chifundo chifukwa kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pawo kwagona pakutha kumvetsa mmene ena akumvera.
pamene chifundo Kumatanthauzidwa kukhala kutha kuzindikira zimene munthu wina akumva, koma popanda kuzindikira kwenikweni, chifundo ndicho kukhoza kudziika m’malo mwa winayo. “Munthu wachifundo kuzindikira mmene ena akumvera ndipo amatha kuwamvetsa ngakhale atakhala kuti sakugwirizana nawo kapena ngati sakumva chimodzimodzi pamikhalidwe imeneyo. Chisoni ndi pamene mugwira kuseka kwa munthu wokondwa. Chisoni chingakhale kumvetsetsa chifukwa chake munthuyo ali wokondwa panthawiyo, "akutero katswiri wa zamaganizo.
Chifundo chabodza
Ndi kangati takhala tikunena kuti ndi achinyengo omwe akhala abwino pomwe sizikugwirizana ndi umunthu wawo. Komabe, izi sizikutanthauza kuti iwo ali. Kudzinamizira chifundo ndi dongosolo la tsiku, ndipo zikhoza kuchitika pazifukwa zambiri: «Mu ofesi yathu nthawi zonse timasanthula malingaliro. Mwachitsanzo, zikhoza kukhala choncho khalani abwino Ngakhale ngati simukumva choncho chifukwa mukuganiza kuti munthu wina akhoza kukwiya. Pamenepa, mwina simufotokoza zomwe mukumva kapena kuganiza ndipo izi zitha kukupangitsani kukhala okhumudwa. Muchitsanzo ichi, kukhala wabwino kutha kutitsutsa, "akutero Laura Fuster.
Chitsanzo china chingakhale kukhala wabwino kuntchito pamene ulibe tsiku labwino: "Pamenepa, kuyesetsa kungakhale kopindulitsa chifukwa mumalimbikitsa malo abwino ogwira ntchito ndipo kungakupindulitseni ngati mutagwirizana ndi abwana anu," iye. akuti.
Chifukwa chake, nthawi zambiri timatero chizindikiro ndi kusapeza bwino. Ndikwabwino kudziwa momwe ndingadziwire ngati kukhala wabwino kumanditsogolera kusunga malingaliro, malingaliro kapena, pomaliza, kusiya kukhala ndekha.