Kupondereza, nthawi zina zopweteka komanso zosakhutitsidwa ... Ena aife mwina takumana ndi "mkazi woponya" panjira. Poizoni kwa iwo eni komanso kwa okondedwa awo, imalamulira.

Malinga ndi akatswiri a zamaganizo, kukhumudwa kwa mkazi wothena kumachokera ku kukhumudwa komwe kumakhudzana ndi ubwana. Mu Freud, ma castration complex amawonetsa zotsatira zokhazikika, makamaka osazindikira, zomwe zimatsimikiziridwa ndi chiwopsezo cha kuthena mwa amuna komanso kusowa kwa mbolo mwa akazi. Kapangidwe kotengedwa ndi Jacques Lacan.

Mbolo kukhala ya mnyamata "chiwalo choyambirira cha kugonana", ndipo uyu sangaganize kuti munthu wofanana naye alibe. Koma zowawa za Freud zimakhudza mkazi mofanana ndi mwamuna. Kwa atsikana, kuwona chiwalo cha amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kumayambitsa zovuta. Akangoona chiwalo chachimuna, amadziona ngati wothena. Kamodzi wamkulu, kugonana kwake kumawoneka kwa iye kukhala kosowa. Sanabadwe ali mnyamata, kukhumudwa komwe kumayambitsa nsanje kwa amuna. Zifukwa zina, ndithudi, zingachititse kuti akazi azikhala amphongo: bambo wonyansa kwambiri, nthawi zonse amamuchititsa manyazi mwana wake wamkazi, kumukhumudwitsa ndi kumunyoza kwambiri moti udani umawonekera mwa mwanayo. Kenako amatumiza chidani ichi kwa amuna onse.

Kwa psychoanalysis, mkazi wofunkha ndi amene akufuna "phallus" (mphamvu) yekha. Amafuna kulamulira chilichonse, kulamulira chilichonse. Mayi ameneyu ali pankhondo ndi amuna amene akufuna kuwalamulira. Authoritarian, amawapangitsa kuyenda ndi ndodo.

Paubwenzi, wothena amalamulira. Kwa mwamuna kapena mkazi wake, amaona kuti mwamunayo sangakwanitse, ndipo sangamukhutiritse zonse. Iye samazengereza kuitsitsa, kuyankha pagulu. Kutembenuza munthu ku masomphenya ake a zinthu, zosowa zake ndipo nthawi zina ngakhale malingaliro ake apamtima ndi onyansa, ndiyo njira yoti iye apambane. Komabe, nthawi zonse amakhala wanzeru, wabwino kuposa iye. Amaika zofuna zake patsogolo, zosowa zake popanda kuganizira zosowa zake nkomwe. Mkazi wothena sadziwa kutero. Ndi chikhalidwe chake, kwa iye, umu ndi momwe dziko liriri. Nthawi zonse amakhumudwa. Makhalidwe omwe amatsogolera ku kutaya malingaliro komwe nthawi zina kungayambitse kusowa mphamvu mwa amuna. Komabe, pamene okwatiranawo akhazikika m’kupita kwa nthaŵi, mwamunayo amakhala pachiwopsezo choyesa kudzimasula yekha ku ubale wofowokawu mwa kusakhulupirika, popanda ngakhale kuli tero kuti adzipulumutse ku icho. Mkazi wothena akhozanso kuthena mkazi wina. Chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndi kutsogolera dziko ku ndodo.

Mayi wopambanitsidwa uyu adzakhala ndi khalidwe lomwelo kwa ana ake monga momwe amachitira amuna: amawakumbutsa nthawi zonse kuti ndi iye amene amatsogolera, amene amasankha. Zovuta kwambiri mpaka kuchitira nkhanza, zimakhala zotsekeka kwa zokambirana. Ndi iye, popanda kukambitsirana, kusagwirizana ndi kusintha kulikonse, iye akhoza kufika mpaka kuopseza mwanayo ngati samvera, mwamawu kapena mwakuthupi, kapena ngakhale kumusokoneza maganizo. Koma nthawi zonse akuganiza zomuchitira zabwino ndipo mulimonse momwe zingakhalire, amakhala wotsimikiza kuti mwana wake sangathe kudzisamalira yekha.

Zotsatira zake kwa mwanayo zingakhale zoopsa Mayi wothena adzapitiriza kufuna kulamulira moyo wachikulire wa mwana wake, adzapereka maganizo ake pa anthu omwe amawawona. Wolamulira, wolowerera, amalowerera m'malo obisika a ana ake. Poyang'anizana ndi kukana kotheka, iye adzakwiya. Mnyamata amene sangathe kulimbana ndi amayi ake adzakhala ndi vuto lodziimba mlandu, kusadzidalira ndipo pambuyo pake akhoza kukhala mwamuna yemwe sangakhale womasuka ndi akazi. Amakhalanso pachiwopsezo chofuna bwenzi lachifaniziro cha amayi ake kuti ayesenso ubale womwe umakhala wovuta kwambiri, womwe udzakhala ubale woyipa. Ponena za mwana wamkaziyo, ali pachiwopsezo chotengera chitsanzo cha amayi ake othena. Zingakhale zofunikira kuti panthawi ina m'moyo wawo wachikulire, ana adziyike mtunda wina pakati pa iwo ndi amayi awo omwe ali ndi poizoni.

Poyang'anizana ndi munthu wotereyu yemwe akufuna kulamulira chilichonse, yemwe samaganizira zofuna za wina, kaya ndi bwenzi, mwana, bwenzi, kusapeza kumayamba mofulumira. Kusasamala kwa mkazi wofunkha, chikhumbo chake chofuna kulamulira anthu pawokha chimazimitsa mwamsanga joie de vivre wa iwo omwe ali pafupi naye kuti apereke malo amdima ndi okwiyitsa komanso mphamvu yofunikira yomwe imakhala ndi vampirized. Zikakhudzana nazo, palibe chomwe chimapita, malo athu amphamvu amakhala otsekedwa, kutopa, kusakhazikika, malingaliro olakwika komanso malingaliro oyipa atha ... , kuzindikira ndi kudziimira paokha. Zowonadi, kumangiriza kudalira ndi umunthu wofowoka ndi chinthu choyipa kwambiri chomwe munthu ayenera kuchita ngati amalemekeza moyo, thanzi lake, ufulu wake.