Zamkatimu
Tonsefe timakumana ndi kusungulumwa mosiyanasiyana. Ena amasangalala ndi ufulu komanso amakopeka ndi ena. Ena saganizira n’komwe za zimenezi ndipo amakhala moyo wawo wodzipatula. Komabe, ambiri amazindikira momvetsa chisoni kusakhalapo kwa mnzawo. Maganizo amenewa akhoza kuwonjezereka pa tchuthi chomwe chimalemekeza chikondi, mgwirizano, banja - paukwati wa abwenzi.
Chilimwe ndi nyengo yowotchera dzuwa, maphwando am'mphepete mwa nyanja, ma cocktails a steamy ndi maukwati. Miyambo yokongola, malo odyera ndi zakudya zokoma ndi kuvina mpaka mutagwa. Timakhala mboni za nthawi zosangalatsa komanso zosaiŵalika izi m'moyo wa okwatirana kumene ndipo tikhoza kusangalala nazo. Ngati sitili tokha.
Apo ayi, ife, ndithudi, tikhoza kusangalala ndi mkwati ndi mkwatibwi, koma n'zokayikitsa kusangalala ndi zomwe zikuchitika. Pali maanja okondwa kulikonse komwe mumayang'ana. Chilichonse chokhudza tchuthichi chimatikumbutsa zachisoni chathu, ndipo zikuwoneka kuti ndife tokha omwe tilibe mnzako wamakilomita ambiri ...
Kodi n’chiyani chingakuthandizeni kupewa kuvutika maganizo? Madzulo ku bar kufunafuna ulendo? Kubwerera ku Tinder? Koma bwanji ngati simukufuna chibwenzi, koma panthawi imodzimodziyo mukuponderezedwa ndi kusungulumwa? Nazi njira zitatu zopulumutsira osakwatiwa panthawi yaukwati.
1. Bwerezerani nokha: "Si bwino kukhala wekha."
Simukuyenera kukhala ndi aliyense. Ngati mulibe chosowa chimenecho, koma mukuganiza kuti «muyenera» kupeza munthu, mwayi ndi wabwino kuti mudzakhala pagulu la munthu amene samakusamalani, mutakhala pachibwenzi chomwe sichingabweretse chisangalalo. .
Kukhala wekha kuli ndi ubwino wake. Simuyenera kumangoganizira zofuna za munthu wina nthawi zonse. Ndinu omasuka kutsatira maloto anu ndikuwapangitsa kuti akwaniritsidwe. Izi zikugwira ntchito pa chisankho cha chakudya, ndi maulendo opita ku zikondwerero - inde, chirichonse!
2. Chitani sitepe yoyamba
Mwina ukwati wa abwenzi udzasintha maganizo anu, ndipo mudzaganiza kuti mwatopa ndi kusungulumwa ndipo mukufuna ubale. Chabwino, zabwino! Mwina pafupi nanu pali kale wina amene amakumverani chifundo. Ndi nthawi yoti muyesere ndikumufunsa pa chibwenzi.
Ngati munthu woteroyo kulibe, yesani mitundu yatsopano ya zibwenzi: masamba, "chibwenzi chothamanga". Yesetsani kukhala omasuka, kulankhulana kwambiri ndi ena - pamaso panu komanso pa intaneti. Simudziwa komwe chikondi chingakhale.
3. Sinthani chidwi ndikuchita zomwe mumakonda
Ngati muli ndi nthawi yambiri yaulere, mutha kudziponyera muzinthu zomwe mumakonda - mwachitsanzo, bwererani kuzinthu zosangalatsa. Simunaphunzire kuyimba nyimbo zovuta pagitala? Nthawi zonse ndimalakalaka kuyesa kuthawa? Pezani zomwe mumakonda zomwe zingakupangitseni kuiwala kusungulumwa kwamuyaya kapena mpaka ukwati wotsatira wa anzanu.