Zamkatimu
N’cifukwa ciani timavala zovala zofanana kwa zaka zambili, koma mwa kulola zoculuka, timaona kuti tikusiya kucheza ndi banja lathu? Kodi mungafike bwanji pamlingo wina? Mphunzitsi wamabizinesi komanso wolankhula zolimbikitsa Veronika Agafonova akutero.
Chaka ndi chaka, timavala zovala zofanana, kupita ku ntchito zimene sitimakonda, sitingathe kusiyana ndi munthu amene sitimasuka naye, ndiponso kupirira malo oopsa. N’chifukwa chiyani zili zochititsa mantha kwambiri kusintha chinachake?
Timakonda kuganiza motengera zomwe zatichitikira. Nthawi zambiri timanena izi: "Inde, izi ndi zoyipa, koma zitha kukhala zoyipa kwambiri." Kapena sitidziyerekeza ndi opambana kwambiri, koma ndi omwe sanapambane: "Vasya adayesa kutsegula bizinesi ndipo adataya chirichonse."
Koma ngati muyang'ana pozungulira, mukhoza kuona, mwachitsanzo, amalonda ambiri omwe apambana. Chifukwa chiyani? Inde, chifukwa adayikadi ndalama, osati ndalama zokha, komanso nthawi, mphamvu, moyo. Adayambitsa bizinesiyo osati ndi ngongole yayikulu, koma poyesa malo omwe amabetcheranapo. Zonse zimatengera njira yoyenera, koma pamafunika khama. Ndikosavuta kudzitonthoza nokha kuti wina sanapambane. "Sitikukhala bwino, koma wina alibe nkomwe."
Anabadwa ku USSR
Mkhalidwe woti “kuima paokha ndi kudzipatula n’koopsa kwa moyo wonse” ndi cholowa cha nthawi imeneyo. Kwa zaka zambiri takhala tikuphunzitsidwa "kuyenda pamzere", kuyang'ana mofanana, kunena zomwezo. Freethinking analangidwa. M'badwo umene unachitira umboni izi ukadali ndi moyo, umakumbukira bwino ndipo umabalanso masiku ano. Mantha alembedwa mu DNA. Makolo mosazindikira amakhomerera izi mwa ana awo: "bwino titmouse m'manja kuposa chimphepo cham'mwamba", "ikani mutu wanu pansi, khalani ngati wina aliyense." Ndipo zonsezi chifukwa cha chitetezo. Mwa kuyimirira, mutha kukopa chidwi kwambiri kwa inu nokha, ndipo izi ndizowopsa.
Chizoloŵezi chathu chosaima, kukhala "mbewa yotuwira" imachokera ku ubwana, nthawi zambiri osati bwino kwambiri. M'badwo wathu unkavala m'misika, tinkatopetsa abale ndi alongo, tinalibe chilichonse chathuchathu. Ndipo inakhala njira ya moyo.
Ndipo ngakhale titayamba kupanga ndalama zabwino, zidakhala zovuta kuti tifike pamlingo watsopano: sinthani mawonekedwe, gulani zomwe mukufuna. Liwu lamkati limafuula, "O, izi siza ine!" Ndipo izi zitha kumveka: kwa zaka makumi awiri adakhala motere ... Kodi tsopano kuti mulowe m'dziko latsopano ndikudzilola nokha zomwe mukufuna?
Kuvala zodula - kusiya kucheza ndi banja?
Ambiri amakopeka ndi maganizo akuti: “Moyo wanga wonse ndakhala ndikuvala pamsika, kuvala zovala za ena. Timavomerezedwa kwambiri. Kulola zambiri ndiko kusokoneza ubwenzi ndi banja.” Zikuwoneka kuti pakadali pano tichoka m'banjamo, pomwe aliyense amavala thumba komanso zovala zotsika mtengo.
Koma, mwa kulola kugula zinthu zamtengo wapatali komanso zamtengo wapatali ndipo motero kufika pamlingo watsopano, zidzatheka "kukoka" banja lonse kumeneko, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti kugwirizana sikudzasokonezedwa. Koma muyenera kuyamba ndi inu nokha.
Kodi zovala zingasinthe bwanji moyo wanu?
Pali mawu abwino: "Yerekezerani mpaka mutachitadi." Popanga chithunzi chatsopano, njirayi ingathe ndipo iyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito.
Ngati mkazi akufuna kukhala mkazi wamalonda wopambana, koma akadali pa siteji ya kulota ndikusankha lingaliro la bizinesi, kuti akhale ndi chidaliro chochuluka, ndi bwino kupita ku zochitika zamalonda ndi misonkhano yachidule, kuvala ngati wofuna bizinesi ndi ang'onoang'ono. mwini bizinesi m'chifanizo chake. Tangoganizirani chithunzi cha tsogolo lofunidwa mwatsatanetsatane momwe mungathere ndikuyamba kusunthira, kuyambira pang'ono, mwachitsanzo, ndi zovala.
Komanso, ngati tigula zomwe timakonda kwambiri, kuchotseratu lingaliro lakuti thumba kapena nsapato sizingawononge ndalama zambiri (pambuyo pake, palibe m'banja la makolo amene adalandirapo zambiri), pakapita nthawi, ndalama "zidzagwira".
Kukumana pa zovala
Kodi n'zothekadi kukhala wopambana ngati mumagwiritsa ntchito maonekedwe ndi kalembedwe kanu? Ndipereka chitsanzo kuchokera muzochita. Ndinali ndi wophunzira. Ndinasanthula akaunti yake ya Instagram (bungwe lochita zinthu monyanyira loletsedwa ku Russia) ndikupereka mayankho. Anagwira nawo ntchito yokonza zopereka zachipatala ku Germany. Chithandizo ndi okwera mtengo - umafunika gawo. Izi: kufotokoza kwamayendedwe, malingaliro - ndi blog yake yaumwini idaperekedwa. Wothandizira wanga adagwiritsa ntchito zithunzi zake monga mafanizo. Iye mwini ndi mkazi wokongola, koma zithunzizo zinali zopanda khalidwe, ndipo chithunzicho chinasiya kukhumbitsidwa: makamaka madiresi aafupi amaluwa.
Poganizira chifaniziro chanu, ndikofunikira kupanga mayanjano ambiri ndi zomwe mumachita, zomwe mumapereka
Zoonadi, lero tonse timamvetsetsa kale kuti msonkhano ndi zovala siwolondola. Muyenera kuyang'ana pa munthuyo mwiniyo, pamlingo wa chidziwitso ndi chidziwitso chake. Koma, zilizonse zimene wina anganene, timachita zinthu zambiri mosazindikira. Ndipo tikawona mtsikana wovala maluwa akupereka chithandizo chamankhwala ku Ulaya kwa ndalama zambiri, timakhala ndi dissonance. Koma poyang'ana mkazi wovala suti, wokhala ndi makongoletsedwe abwino, amene amalankhula za kuthekera kwa kuthetsa mavuto a thanzi, timayamba kumukhulupirira.
Kotero ndinalangiza kasitomala kuti asinthe ku suti zamalonda zamitundu yowala (kugwirizana ndi ntchito zachipatala) - ndipo zinagwira ntchito. Poganizira chifaniziro chanu, ndikofunikira kupanga mayanjano ambiri ndi zomwe mumachita, zomwe mumapereka. Kumanga fano lanu ndi mtundu wanu ndi ndalama zomwe zidzapindule.