Ndimadana ndi kukhala ndi pakati

Kodi ndizotheka kukhala ndi pakati ndikudana nazo?

Mosiyana ndi zomwe munthu angamve, mimba imadzutsa malingaliro otsutsana. Ndi mayeso, mtundu wavuto la chidziwitso. Mwadzidzidzi, mayi woyembekezera ayenera kuyiwala za thupi lake lachinyamata ndipo zovuta za kusintha nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kupirira. Azimayi akuyenera kuvomereza kuti sakulamuliranso. Ena amachita mantha kuona matupi awo akusintha motere.

Amayi oyembekezera amatayanso ufulu wina. Mu trimester yachitatu, zimakhala zovuta kuyenda. Angakhale osamasuka m’thupi mwawo. Choyipa kwambiri ndichakuti sayerekeza kulankhula za izi, ali ndi manyazi.

N’chifukwa chiyani nkhani imeneyi ndi yosavomerezeka?

Tikukhala m'dera limene anthu amapembedza thupi, kuonda ndi kulamulira kuli ponseponse. Nkhani zofalitsa nkhani za umayi zimasonyeza zinthu zabwino zokha za mimba. Izi ziyenera kuchitika ngati paradaiso. Timaika zopinga zazikulu ndi zoletsa kwa amayi apakati: tisamwe, kusuta kapena kudya zomwe tikufuna. Akazi amafunsidwa kuti akhale amayi angwiro kale. "Chitsanzo pamapepala" ndi kutali kwambiri ndi zenizeni. Mimba ndizochitika zosokoneza komanso zachilendo.

Kodi ndizovuta chabe pothana ndi zizindikiro za mimba zomwe zingakhale zotsatira za chikhalidwe ichi, kapena zingakhale zamaganizo?

Zofooka zonse zamatsenga zomwe amayi ali nazo mwa iwo, kutanthauza kuti anali mwana, chitsanzo cha amayi awo omwe ... timatengera zonsezi kumaso. Ndimatcha a "Psychic tidal wave", zonse zomwe zinatayika mu chikomokere zimayambiranso panthawi yomwe ali ndi pakati. Izi ndi zomwe nthawi zina zimatsogolera ku ma blues otchuka. Pambuyo pobereka, amayi amapatsidwa mankhwala odzola, koma palibe nthawi yokambirana ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo. Palibe malo osakwanira olankhulira za zovuta zonse izi.

Kodi zotsatira za malingaliro otere pa mimba yake zingakhale zotani?

Pali palibe zotsatira zenizeni. Malingaliro awa amagawidwa ndi amayi onse, kokha, kwa ena, ndi chiwawa kwambiri. Muyenera kupanga kusiyana pakati pa kusakonda kukhala ndi pakati, ndi chikondi chimene mkazi angakhale nacho pa mwana wake. Palibe palibe kugwirizana pakati pa mimba ndi kukhala mayi wabwino. Mayi akhoza kukhala ndi malingaliro oipa kwambiri panthawi yomwe ali ndi pakati ndikukhala mayi wachikondi.

Kodi mungakonde bwanji kukhala ndi ana koma osakonda kukhala ndi pakati?

Ili ndi funso lomwe limakhudza chithunzi cha thupi. Komabe, mimba ndizochitika zomwe zimatipangitsa kuthawa ulamuliro wonse wa thupi. M'dera lathu, ukadaulo uwu ndiwofunika, wodziwika ngati chigonjetso. Ichi ndichifukwa chake amayi apakati amakhala chiyeso cha kutaya.

Palinso mayendedwe ochulukirachulukira pakati pa abambo ndi amai. Ena angafune kuti zikhale mwamuna kapena mkazi wawo atanyamula mwanayo. Komanso, amuna ena amadandaula kuti sangakwanitse.

Kodi mantha ndi mafunso omwe amabwerezedwa mobwerezabwereza pakati pa amayiwa ndi ati?

“Ndimaopa kukhala ndi pakati” “Ndikuopa kubereka mwana m’mimba, ngati mlendo” “Ndikuopa kuti thupi langa lidzakhala lopunduka chifukwa cha mimba”. Iwo ali, nthawi zambiri, kuopa kulandidwa mkati ndi kusakhoza kuchita kalikonse. Mimba imadziwika ngati kuukira kwamkati. Komanso, amayiwa amavutika maganizo chifukwa amakumana ndi zopinga zambiri chifukwa cha ungwiro wa amayi.