Momwe mungapezere malire oyenera pakati pa "zofuna" ndi "zosowa"? Ili ndi limodzi mwa mafunso omwe amafunsidwa kawirikawiri kwa katswiri wa zamaganizo, iyi ndi imodzi mwa nkhani zofunika kwambiri za pedagogy. M'munsimu ndikutsutsana ndi chitsanzo ... kuphunzira kukwera njinga. Za ana, koma makamaka akuluakulu.
Anaphunzitsa ana ake aang’ono kukwera njinga (mnyamata ali ndi zaka 7, mtsikana 5). Kwa nthawi yaitali anapempha njinga, ndipo pomalizira pake, makolowo analemekezedwa. Zinatengera 4 workouts wa 30 - 40 mphindi «woyera» skating, ndi nkhani yosavuta. Koma inali msonkhano wosangalatsa bwanji wamaganizidwe ndi maphunziro - kwenikweni, njira yonseyi inali kupeza malire pakati pa "Ndikufuna" ndi "Ndikufuna", malire omwe nthawi zambiri timasowa pokhudzana ndi ana okha, komanso kwa ife tokha. . Lipoti lokhala ndi “ndemanga za akatswiri a zamaganizo” ndi loti mumvetsere.
Kotero, ife tinatuluka. Kuthamanga pang'ono kokhotakhota - ana panjinga, ndipo kwa mwamuna wanga ndi ine, kuthamanga kokongola motere kuli pafupi. Amayiwala za ma pedals, kenako za chiwongolero, kenako amagwera kumanzere, kenako kumanja, chifukwa cha chizolowezi amakhala okhazikika "mpaka thukuta lachisanu ndi chiwiri." Zinthu zosangalatsa zikubwera posachedwa. "Ndikuchita mantha - ndinagwa - ndinakanda - zimapweteka - sindingathe ... sindingathe!" Amayi ndi abambo agwira mwamphamvu, tikuwonetsa "kumvetsetsa" ndi "pedagogism" mu mzimu wa "Kuleza mtima ndi ntchito zidzagaya zonse", "Yekhayo amene sachita kanthu salakwitsa", "Kupyolera mu minga kwa nyenyezi" ( chirichonse mu "chibwana" kusiyana, ndithudi), ndi zina zotero ndi zina zotero. Palibe chophimba, koma ana athu ndi anzeru, ndipo, ndithudi, adzapeza njira yowonjezereka yogwirizanitsa ntchitoyi. Nthawi ya chowonadi imabwera - "SINDIKUFUNA!" Siginecha "Sindikufuna!", M'mbuyomu, mphunzitsi aliyense wodzilemekeza waupangiri waumunthu adzayima modabwitsa. Kutsutsana ndi "Sindikufuna" ndi gu.ey force - "kupondereza umunthu wa mwanayo" ndi zotsatira zake, mantha-owopsya-oopsya. Mutha kunyengerera, mutha kulimbikitsa, mutha kubwereranso pansi, koma kukakamiza - ayi, ayi ...
Komabe, ine ndi mwamuna wanga, ndi umunthu wathu wonse, timatsutsana ndi umunthu wotero ukakhala “wopanda nzeru ndi wopanda chifundo.” Timadziwanso ana athu, ndipo timadziwa kuti ndi amphamvu, athanzi komanso oleredwa bwino. Sizingatheke kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu kwa iwo, koma ndikofunikira.
“Tsopano sindikusamala ngati ukufuna kuphunzira kukwera kukwera kapena ayi. Mukaphunzira kukwera bwino, simungathenso kukwera njinga m’moyo wanu. (Ndikunama, ndikudziwa kufunikira kwawo kuyenda - adzakwerabe.) Koma mpaka mutaphunzira, mudzaphunzitsa monga ndikunenera. Lero, sitidzapita kunyumba mpaka mutachoka pano mpaka pano - ndi chiwongolero chosalala, ndipo mudzatembenuza ma pedals monga momwe mukuyembekezera. (Zindikirani: Ndakhazikitsa ntchito yovuta koma yotheka, ndikudziwa makhalidwe awo a thupi ndi maganizo, ndikudziwa zomwe angathe kuchita. Kulakwitsa apa kungakhale kukokomeza luso la mwanayo "Iye ndi wanga wamphamvu, wochenjera komanso wanzeru kwambiri", ndi kupeputsa awo «Osauka, iye watopa»). Chifukwa chake, popeza mudzakwerabe mpaka mutamaliza ntchitoyi, ndikukulangizani kuti muzichita ndikumwetulira komanso nkhope yowala. (Nthawi ndi nthawi ndimakumbutsa mokweza kuti: "Zosangalatsa - nkhope - kumwetulira - mwachita bwino!")
Pano pali mawu otere - "ndiyenera" kutsutsana ndi "sindikufuna" mwana. Ndikudziwa kuti tsopano sakufuna skate (ndipo sakufuna kwenikweni), osati chifukwa chakuti nkhaniyi ndi yosasangalatsa kapena yosafunika kwa iwo, koma chifukwa chakuti sakufuna kugonjetsa zovuta, amasonyeza kufooka. Ngati mukakamiza mopepuka (kukakamiza) - sikudzakhala luso la kupalasa njinga (lomwe, kwenikweni, siliri lofunika kwambiri), padzakhala chitukuko china cha luso logonjetsa, kudzidalira, luso losapereka. ku zopinga. Ndiyeneranso kunena kuti sindingachite nkhanza kwambiri ndi mwana wosadziwika bwino. Choyamba, ndilibe kukhudzana, kukhulupirirana ndi mlendo, ndipo kachiwiri, sindikudziwa zomwe angathe kuchita, ndipo kwenikweni ndikhoza kufinya ndikuchepetsa. Iyi ndi mphindi yaikulu: ngati wosamalira (kholo) wa mwanayo amadziwa, amamvetsa, sakumva bwino, kapena ngati palibe kukhudzana kwabwino, ndi bwino kupeputsa kusiyana ndi kufinya. Za aphorism iyi: "Mulibe ufulu wolanga mpaka mutapambana mtima wa mwana. Koma ukaugonjetsa, ulibe mphamvu yakulanga.
Monga ndanenera kumayambiriro kwa nkhaniyi, ana anaphunzira kukwera kukwera. Popeza ine ndi mwamuna wanga mouma khosi "tinapinda mzere wathu" (ndipo popanda kukayikira mkati), mwamsanga anazindikira kuti kunali kopanda phindu kumenya mitu yathu kukhoma - ndikuyamba kuphunzitsa. Mwakhama, ndi nkhope yowala ndi kumwetulira, kudzipereka kwathunthu ku ndondomekoyi popanda kutsutsa mkati. Ndipo pamene china chake chinayamba kugwira ntchito - "kutengeka kwasintha." Tsopano amakwera.
Choncho, kukwera njinga ndikosavuta. Ndipo moyo ndi womwewo, njinga yokhayo imakhala yovuta kwambiri. Ntchitoyi ndi yofanana: osati kugubuduza kumanzere kapena kumanja, koma kusunga chiwongolero ngakhale ndi pedal monga momwe ziyenera kukhalira - kusunga "zofunikira" ndi "kufuna".
Liana Kim ndi mphunzitsi wanzeru komanso waluso, ndipo ndinganene Malamulo otsatirawa m'nkhani yake, ndendende pamaziko a zomwe adakumana nazo:
- Pophunzitsa, timayika ntchito zotheka zokha, koma timazindikira zotheka osati ndi kudandaula ndi kuzunzika kwa ana athu, koma kuchokera ku zochitika zenizeni.
- Ngati mwana wapatsidwa ntchito, iyenera kumalizidwa. Palibe kunyengerera ndi kukambirana: posachedwa kunena. Mpaka ntchitoyi itatha, mwanayo sadzakhala ndi zochitika zina, masewera ndi zosangalatsa.
- Mfundo yofunika kwambiri ndikutsatira mawonekedwe: kumwetulira, nkhope yachimwemwe ndi mawu a mwanayo. Sizingatheke kukwera (ngakhale mumayendedwe ophunzitsira) ndi nkhope yokhumudwa kapena yosasangalatsa, mawu omveka bwino. Kukwera kuyima. Koma kumbukirani kuti ntchitoyi iyenera kumalizidwa, ndipo sipangakhale masewera akunja ndi zosangalatsa.
- Ntchito zofunika kwambiri ziyenera kugulitsidwa kwambiri: ana ankafuna kukwera njinga, zimatengera makolo athu kuti tiwagulire njinga kapena ayi. Chotero, kunali koyenera kuvomereza pasadakhale, ndiko kuti, kuvomerezana pa kalembedwe. "Tikuvomereza kuti 1) Kukwera si ntchito yophweka, zimakhala zowawa kugwa ndikutopa ndi kupondaponda. Tikudziwa izi ndipo sitidandaula nazo. 2) Tikaphunzira kukwera timakhala ndi nkhope yosangalala ndi kumwetulira. Sipangakhale munthu wosakhutira ndi wosasangalala. 3) Timaphunzitsa kwa mphindi 30: osachepera, kuti tisawononge, ndipo palibenso, kuti ana kapena makolo asatope. 4) Ndipo ngati sindichita izi, sindidzakhala ndi chikhulupiriro chamtsogolo.
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