"Pitilizani, kondani ndikuchita bizinesi"
Mwachidule, mawu omwe ali pamwambawa ndi okwanira kudziwa umunthu. Katswiri ayenera kuweruzidwa ndi ntchito.
Ndipo ngati mu dongosolo…
Ndili ndi zaka 20, ndinamaliza maphunziro anga pa yunivesite yapamwamba kwambiri ya zachuma m’dzikolo, ndinayamba kugwira ntchito m’makampani abwino kwambiri.
Ndiyeno panali ukwati ndi kubadwa kwa mwana woyamba. Zochitika izi sizinali nthawi zosangalatsa kwambiri za moyo wanga, koma kufotokozera moyo womwewu. Posakhalitsa, m’banja mwathu munaonekera mwana wamwamuna wachiŵiri ndi mwana wamkazi wamng’ono. Kwa zaka khumi tsopano ndakhala ndi ana ndi ana, m’banja langa ndi kuntchito kwanga. Kwa zaka khumi tsopano ndakhala, kuphunzira ndi kugwira ntchito, kukumbukira ndi kuphunzira dziko lodabwitsa la ubwana, ndikuyang'ana m'dziko lino. Mabuku ambiri, maphunziro, alangizi. Ndipo - kuganiza, kuganiza, kuganiza ... “Ndikufuna kuti mumvetse kuti palibe buku, palibe dokotala amene angalowe m’malo mwa maganizo anuanu, maganizo anuanu. (…) Mu kusungulumwa kwanzeru - khalani maso ”(J. Korchak). Kupanga kwenikweni kunayamba, komwe palibe ntchito ina ndi ntchito zomwe zingafanane ndi ine.
Nthaŵi ina yabwino, ndinazindikira kuti ndikhoza kugwira ntchito ndi ana ena—ndili ndi chinachake choti ndigawireko, ndili ndi chopereka. Ndimakonda ana, ndimamvetsetsa, ndimalemekezana, ndipo izi ndizogwirizana. Ndiye makalasi anayamba - choyamba bwalo sayansi, ndiyeno wathu likulu la chitukuko cha ana. “Kudziŵa sikokwanira, phunzitsani mwana kulingalira,” ndinatero. Chifukwa ichi ndiye chinthu chofunikira kwambiri pamaphunziro. Ndipo m'moyo. Ndipo ndikofunikiranso kuphunzira ndi chidwi, kukhala olimba komanso osangalatsa, kupanga mabwenzi ndikusewera. Zonsezi timachita mu Club ya Sayansi ya Ana. Ana ndi ine timakondana. Amayi ndi abambo ndi abwino chifukwa ana ndi abwino. Timapeza zotsatira, timakula ndikusintha. Ndimadziŵa zambiri za ana, ndipo sinditopa ndi kutulukira zinthu zatsopano.
Ntchito ina yayikulu yanga ndi Stupenki coaching system ya makolo. Lingaliro la "yunivesite ya makolo" linabadwa m'kati mwa uphungu wa mabanja a ophunzira anga. Nthaŵi ndi nthaŵi, ndaona kuti makolo, makolo abwino, achikondi, alibe chidziŵitso ndi njira zina zimene zingawapangitse kukhala aphunzitsi abwino. Timadziwa bwino izi ndi njira pa «yunivesite ya makolo», pa «Masitepe». Mwa njira, ndikufuna kuthokoza Alexey Melnikov, mkulu wa Counselling and Coaching Center, ndi mlangizi wanga wolemekezeka Nikolai Ivanovich Kozlov, ndi thandizo lake "Steps" linayambitsidwa (ndipo likugwira ntchito mwakhama).
Kodi ndikukhalanso chiyani pano? Ndimaphunzira ku University of Practical Psychology. Pulogalamu yapadera ya yunivesiteyi ndi yakuti ophunzira amalandira chidziwitso chaukadaulo, komanso amagwira ntchito pakukula kwawo. Tikupita patsogolo mbali zonse.
Panopa ndimaona kuti ndine munthu wosangalala. Ndili ndi Banja, Bizinesi ndi Chitukuko - kwa ine izi ndi zomwe zimatchedwa mgwirizano. "Pitilizani, kondani ndikuchita bizinesi, osadzisiya nokha." Zikomo kwambiri chifukwa cha kumverera kogwirizana uku - kwa mwamuna kapena mkazi wanga, yemwe amandithandiza nthawi zonse komanso m'zonse. Kwa ine, mkazi yemwe mtengo wake waukulu ndi banja, palibe chofunika kwambiri kuposa chithandizo ichi ndi kumvetsetsa.
Mutu wanga waukulu ndi momwe mungamvetsetse ana ndi zomwe mungachite nazo pambuyo pake, momwe mungakhalire mosangalala ndi ana. Komanso - maphunziro ndi chitukuko cha chisanadze unyamata ana. Ndipotu, kulera ndi maphunziro ndizogwirizana kwambiri: mwa kuphunzitsa - timaphunzitsa nthawi zonse, pophunzitsa - timaphunzitsa.
M'mitu imeneyi ndimapanga mapulogalamu a ana, komanso maphunziro - maphunziro - kukambirana kwa akuluakulu.
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