Mwana wanga wamwamuna wakhala akuchita mantha ndi ntchentche masiku ano. Marichi si nthawi "yowuluka" kwambiri, m'chilimwe sindingathe kulingalira momwe tikanapulumukira masiku ano. Ntchentche zimawoneka kwa iye kulikonse komanso kulikonse. Lero iye anakana kudya zikondamoyo kwa agogo ake, chifukwa izo zinkawoneka kwa iye kuti midge yalowa pakati pa zikondamoyo. Dzulo mu cafe analankhula mokwiya: “Amayi, kodi kulibe ntchentche kuno? Amayi, tiyeni tipite kwathu mwachangu kuchokera pano! Ngakhale kuti nthawi zambiri zimakhala zosatheka kuti achoke mu cafe osachepera chinachake chosadyedwa. Kodi mungayankhe bwanji mukakwiya? Zoyankha mafunso? Kupatula apo, sindingakhale wotsimikiza 100% kuti ku cafe mulibe ntchentche ... Kodi ndizabwinobwino kuti mwana wazaka zitatu azikhala ndi mantha otere, sizikudziwika komwe adachokera?
Ndiyamba ndi funso lomaliza. Kawirikawiri, kwa mwana wazaka zitatu, entomophobia (mantha a tizilombo tosiyanasiyana) si chinthu chodziwika bwino. Ana osakwana zaka zisanu amakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi zamoyo zonse, osanyansidwa kapena mantha, makamaka ngati palibe wamkulu aliyense amene amaika maganizo amenewa. Choncho, ngati mwana wamng'ono akukumana ndi mantha okhudzana ndi tizilombo, ndiye kuti tikukamba za phobia yomwe imayambitsidwa ndi mmodzi mwa akuluakulu. Aliyense wa m’banjamo ali ndi mantha oterowo ndipo mosonyeza kuti ali ndi mwana amawopa tizilombo, kapenanso mosonyeza kuti amamenyana ndi tizilombo: “Mphepete! Perekani izo! Perekani izo! Kuwulukira! Mumenyeni!»
Chomwe chimayambitsa njuga yotereyi ya munthu wamkulu ndi yoopsa kwambiri - mwana akhoza kufika pamapeto otere, akuyamba kuopa zolengedwa zazing'ono, koma zowopsya. M'maso mwathu aumunthu, ngakhale tizilombo tokongola komanso zokongola monga agulugufe, tikayang'anitsitsa, zimakhala zosaoneka bwino komanso zochititsa mantha.
Palinso njira ina, mwatsoka, yodziwika bwino yopezera phobia yoteroyo: pamene wina wamkulu kuposa khanda, osati wamkulu, akuwopsyeza mwadala mwana wamng'ono: "Ngati simusonkhanitsa zoseweretsa, Cockroach idzabwera, idzakuba idya iwe!” Musadabwe kuti pambuyo pobwerezabwereza mawu otere, mwanayo amayamba kuchita mantha ndi mphemvu.
Inde, simuyenera kunyenga mwanayo, kumuuza kuti palibe tizilombo pafupi. Ngati tizilombo ting'onoting'ono tadziwikabe, padzakhala kupsa mtima, mosakayika, ndipo chidaliro mwa kholo lomwe linanyenga pa nkhani yofunika yotero chidzachepa. Ndi bwino kuika maganizo a mwanayo pa mfundo yakuti kholo likhoza kuteteza mwanayo: «Ndikhoza kukutetezani.
Mungayambe ndi mawu ofanana ndi amenewa kuti mwanayo akhale wodekha potetezedwa ndi munthu wamkulu. Panthawi ya mantha, iye mwini samamva kuti angathe kudziimira yekha pamaso pa nyama yowopsya. Kudalira mphamvu za munthu wamkulu kumachepetsa mwanayo. Kenako mutha kupitilira mawu ngati: "Tikakhala limodzi, titha kuthana ndi tizilombo." Pankhaniyi, mwanayo, monga munthu wamkulu, wapatsidwa mphamvu ndi chidaliro kuti athane ndi vutoli, ngakhale kuti sali yekha, koma mu gulu ndi kholo, koma uwu ndi mwayi womuthandiza kumverera. mosiyana poyang'anizana ndi zoopsa zomwe zingatheke. Ichi ndi sitepe wapakatikati pa njira: «Mungathe kuchita izo - simukuopa tizilombo!».
Ngati mwanayo akupitirizabe kudandaula pambuyo pa mawu odekha a munthu wamkulu, mukhoza kutenga dzanja lake ndikuzungulira chipinda pamodzi kuti muwone momwe zinthu zikuyendera ndi tizilombo ndikuonetsetsa kuti palibe chomwe chikuwopsyeza. Ichi si chikhumbo cha mwana; m’chenicheni, kuchita koteroko kudzam’thandiza kupeza mtendere.
Ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu, monga lamulo, kuopa zomwe sakuzimvetsa, kapena zomwe amadziwa pang'ono. Choncho, ngati mumaganizira ndi mwana wanu maatlasi kapena encyclopedia yoyenera kwa zaka, zigawo za tizilombo, mukhoza kupeza chithandizo chabwino chamankhwala. Mwanayo amadziwa bwino ntchentche, amawona momwe zimagwirira ntchito, zomwe zimadya, momwe zimakhalira - ntchentche imakhala yoyandikana komanso yomveka, imataya halo yowopsya yachinsinsi ndi kukayikira, mwanayo amakhala pansi.
Ndi bwino kuwerenga nthano ndi mwana wanu, kumene otchulidwa zabwino ndi tizilombo. Chodziwika kwambiri, ndithudi, ndi nkhani ya "Fly-Tsokotukha", koma pambali pake, V. Suteev ali ndi nkhani zambiri ndi mafanizo ake odabwitsa. Mwinamwake poyamba mwanayo amangomvetsera nthano, osafuna kuyang'ana zithunzi, kapena kukana kumvetsera konse. Palibe vuto, mutha kubweranso kuzinthu izi nthawi ina.
Mwana akamamvetsera nthano za tizilombo popanda mantha, mukhoza kumupempha kuti aumbe zomwe ankakonda kuchokera ku plasticine. Ndi bwino ngati munthu wamkulu nawonso atenga nawo mbali muzojambula, osati kungoyang'ana. Pamene chiwerengero chokwanira cha ngwazi za pulasitiki zasonkhanitsidwa, n'zotheka kukonza bwalo la zisudzo la plasticine, momwe puppeteer wamkulu, yemwe amalamulira nyama zomwe zinkawopsya poyamba, adzakhala mwana yekhayo, osawaopa konse.
Kulingalira pang'ono ndi chidwi cholenga zidzathandiza munthu wamkulu kuthetsa nkhawa ndi mantha okhudzana ndi tizilombo.