Ngati simukwiyitsa aliyense, mwina simukuchita chilichonse chofunikira.

Chilichonse chomwe mungachite, zochita zanu ziyenera kukwiyitsa wina.

Kodi mukuonda? “Sipakanakhala chisangalalo m’thupi lako!”

Kupulumutsa ana ku Africa? "Ndikanakonda kupulumutsa dziko langa!"

Mukulimbana ndi khansa? "Chifukwa chiyani?!"

Koma si nthaŵi zonse pamene kutsutsa koipa sikumasonyeza kuti pali chinachake choipa. Tiyeni tiwone chomwe chili chabwino kukhala "wamba" wokhumudwitsa nthawi ndi nthawi.

Lamulo 1: Pali zinthu zofunika kwambiri kuposa momwe anthu ena amamvera.

Anthu ochita bwino nthawi zina amatha kuchita zinthu ngati zinyalala. Chifukwa chimodzi chimene amachitira zimenezi n’chakuti amadziwa kuti padzikoli pali zinthu zofunika kwambiri kuposa mmene anthu ena amamvera.

Ndipo ichi ndi Choonadi chowawa. Timaphunzitsidwa kuyambira ubwana kukhala okoma mtima, chifukwa pazifukwa zomveka ndizotetezeka. Munthu wokoma mtima amapewa kuchita zinthu zimene zingakhumudwitse ena.

Zofanana ulemu umapha ku zinthu zofunika kwambiri.

Ngati cholinga chanu m'moyo ndi kutsogolera, kulenga, kapena kupanga dziko lapansi kukhala malo abwinoko, simuyenera kuda nkhawa kwambiri ndi kukhumudwitsa malingaliro a anthu ena: zimangokumangani ndikukuwonongani. Atsogoleri omwe sangathe kupanga zisankho zolimba sangatsogolere. Wojambula yemwe amawopa kukhumudwitsa wina sadzachititsa chidwi kwa aliyense.

Sindikunena kuti uyenera kukhala wachipongwe kuti ukhale wopambana. Koma kusafuna kuti nthawi zina kukhala mmodzi kungayambitse kulephera.

Lamulo 2: Chidani ndi zotsatira za chikoka

Mukamakhudza anthu ambiri ndi zochita zanu, anthuwo sangakumvetseni.

Tangoganizani kukambirana maso ndi maso motere:

Pamene ukufalikira, uthenga wosavutawu umatengera kutanthauzira kwatsopano:

Ndipo potsiriza, kusokoneza kwathunthu kwa tanthauzo la uthenga woyambirira:

Izi zimachitika ngakhale anthu akawerenga mawu omwewo pazenera. Umu ndi mmene ubongo wathu umagwirira ntchito.

Kuti muthamangitse "foni yosweka", mumangofunika chiwerengero chokwanira cha otenga nawo mbali pa unyolo. Ngati mwanjira ina zimakhudza zokonda za anthu angapo, tanthauzo la mawu anu lidzasokonezedwa mopanda kuzindikira mumphindikati.

Zonsezi zitha kupewedwa pokhapokha ngati palibe chomwe chachitika.. Simudzakhala ndi vuto ndi zomwe ena amachita ngati palibe zisankho zofunika kwambiri pamoyo wanu kuposa zomwe mungasankhire pakompyuta yanu. Koma ngati mukulemba wogulitsa kwambiri, kapena kumenyana ndi umphawi wapadziko lonse, kapena kusintha dziko mwanjira ina, mukuyenera kuthana ndi anthu okwiya.

Lamulo lachitatu: Amene wakwiyitsidwa sikuyenera kukhala wolondola

Ganizirani za nthawi yomwe munapsa mtima: mwachitsanzo, pamene wina akudulani panjira. Munali wanzeru bwanji panthawiyo?

Mkwiyo ndi kuyankha mwamalingaliro. Komanso, mwapadera opusa anachita. Ikhoza kuyaka mopanda nzeru. Ndichikoka chaching'ono - monga kukonda munthu yemwe simukumudziwa, kapena kukonda mtundu wina ndi kusakonda wina.

Izi zitha kuchitika chifukwa cholumikizana ndi chinthu chosasangalatsa.Ena amadana ndi Apple, ena amadana ndi Google. Anthu angakhale ndi maganizo otsutsana pa ndale. Nenani zabwino za gulu limodzi ndipo mudzayambitsa mkwiyo mwa ena. N’zomvetsa chisoni kuti pafupifupi anthu onse amachita zinthu zofanana ndi zimenezi.

Chifukwa chake chomaliza chachikulu: kutengera mkwiyo wa anthu ena kumatanthauza kugonjera ku gawo lopusa kwambiri la chikhalidwe chawo.

Choncho, musamachite chilichonse chofunikira ndipo simudzakhumudwitsa aliyense. Kaya mukufuna kapena ayi, kusankha kwanu kudzatsimikizira komwe mukupita pamlingo wa "kukwiyitsa".

Ambiri a ife timaopa kukhumudwitsa ena. Tikakhumudwitsa munthu, tiyenera kupeza chowiringula. Timayesetsa kugonjetsa anthu opanda nzeru. Tikuyembekezera chivomerezo chapadziko lonse lapansi, ndipo ngakhale mawu amodzi otsutsa adzakumbukiridwa kwambiri kuposa mayamiko zana.

Ndipo ichi ndi chizindikiro chabwino: kwenikweni, sindiwe wonyansa. Osachita mantha kuti "zoyipa" zikafunika.