"Chabwino, ndi keke bwanji ndi chithunzi chanu", "muli ndi masaya ngati hamster", "mukadakhala wamtali ...". Kwa makolo ambiri, mawu oterowo okhudza maonekedwe a ana awo aakazi amaoneka ngati osalakwa, chifukwa “ndi ndaninso amene angauze mwanayo zoona, ngati si mayi wachikondi.” Koma ndi mawu ndi zochita zawo, iwo anagona mu maganizo a mwana kudzikayikira, zovuta ndi mantha. Mndandanda watsopano wamalonda udzakuthandizani kudziyang'ana nokha kuchokera kunja.
Zodzikongoletsera mtundu Nkhunda anapezerapo mndandanda wa mavidiyo ochezera "M'banja mulibe phunziro" - ntchito imene presenters Tatyana Lazareva ndi Mikhail Shats, pogwiritsa ntchito chitsanzo cha zochitika zenizeni za moyo, modabwitsa, kulankhula za chisonkhezero cha makolo pa kudzidalira kwa ana awo aakazi. Cholinga cha polojekitiyi ndikukopa chidwi cha akuluakulu momwe iwowo amathandizira mosadziwa pakukula kwa zovuta za ana.
Okonza adalimbikitsidwa kuti apange ntchitoyi ndi kafukufuku wopangidwa pamodzi ndi All-Russian Center for Public Opinion. Zotsatira zake zidawonetsa ziwerengero zomvetsa chisoni pankhani yodzidalira pakati pa achichepere: unyinji wa atsikana azaka zapakati pa 14-17 sakhutira ndi mawonekedwe awo. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, makolo 38 pa XNUMX alionse ananena kuti angafune kusintha kaonekedwe ka mwana wawo wamkazi.
Mavidiyo a polojekitiyi amaperekedwa ngati njira yowonetsera nkhani, yomwe imagwira ntchito pa mfundo ya uphungu woipa. Kusindikiza kulikonse kwa pulogalamu yopeka kumayendetsedwa ndi mawu akuti "Kuwombera kumayambira kunyumba": mkati mwa dongosolo lake, makolo angaphunzire momwe angawononge kudzidalira kwa ana "molondola".
M'magazini yoyamba, makolo a Lena wamng'ono adzaphunzira momwe angagwiritsire ntchito "mosasamala" kwa mwana wawo wamkazi kuti, ndi maonekedwe ake, ndi bwino kuti ajambule tsitsi lake pansi.
M'magazini yachiwiri, amayi ndi agogo ake a Oksana amalandira malingaliro a momwe angaletsere mtsikana pang'onopang'ono kugula jeans yapamwamba yomwe siingavekedwe mwanjira iliyonse ndi khungu lake. Nkhaniyi imaphatikizaponso "katswiri wa nyenyezi" - woimba Lolita, yemwe amatsimikizira "kuchita bwino" kwa njira iyi ndikukumbukira momwe, ndi chithandizo chake, amayi ake kamodzi anatsitsa kudzidalira kwa munthu wamtsogolo.
M'nkhani yachitatu, malangizo amalandiridwa ndi abambo a Angelina ndi mchimwene wake, omwe angakonde kwambiri kuchenjeza mtsikanayo za zofooka za chiwerengerocho. Kuyenda kokongola tsiku ndi tsiku ndizomwe mukufuna!
Makolo ambiri amatsimikiza kuti amafunira ana awo zabwino zokhazokha. Koma nthawi zina mawonetseredwe ena a chikondi ndi chisamaliro amakhala ndi zotsatira zoipa. Ndipo ngati ife enife sitingathe kuvomereza mwanayo mmene alili, n’zokayikitsa kuti iyeyo angathe kuchita zimenezi. Ndipotu, muubwana, maonekedwe ake amapangidwa ndi maganizo a ena: zonse zomwe akuluakulu amanena za iye zimakumbukiridwa ndipo zimakhala mbali ya kudzidalira kwake.
Ndikufuna kukhulupirira kuti makolo amene anadzizindikira m’mavidiyowa aganizira zimene amafuna kwa ana awo. Muubwana, ambiri a ife sitinalandire kuunika koyenera kuchokera kwa akuluakulu, koma tsopano tili ndi mwayi wopewa izi mu maubwenzi athu ndi ana athu. Inde, tili ndi zokumana nazo zambiri pamoyo, ndife okalamba, koma tiyeni tiyang'ane nazo: tidakali ndi zambiri zoti tiphunzire. Ndipo ngati maphunziro odabwitsa ngati amenewa apangitsa munthu kuganiziranso maganizo ake pa nkhani ya kulera ana, nzabwino kwambiri.
* https://wciom.ru/analytical-reviews/analiticheskii-obzor/indeks-podrostkovoi-samoocenki-brenda-dove