Kugonana kwa atsikana mopitirira muyeso, kupembedza zolaula pakati pa anyamata, kulolera makhalidwe kumene makolo awo amasonyeza ... Kodi si vuto la Freud? Kodi sanali woyamba kulengeza kuti mphamvu yoyendetsa ya «Ine» ndi yosadziwa ndi zilakolako zonse zonyansa ndi zongopeka zobisika mmenemo? Kusinkhasinkha kwa psychoanalyst Catherine Chabert.
Kodi Freud sanali woyamba kunena kuti ana onse popanda kusiyanitsa ndi «polymorphically opotozedwa»?1 "Inde, ali ndi nkhawa!" ena amati.
Zokambirana zilizonse zomwe zakhala zikuchitika kuzungulira psychoanalysis kuyambira chiyambi chake, mkangano waukulu wa otsutsa pabedi zaka zonsezi sunasinthe: ngati mutu wa kugonana ndi «alpha ndi omega» wa lingaliro la psychoanalytic, munthu sangawone bwanji " nkhawa» mmenemo?
Komabe, okhawo omwe sadziwa kwenikweni mutuwo - kapena odziwa theka chabe - angapitirize kutsutsa mouma khosi Freud chifukwa cha "pansexualism". Apo ayi, munganene bwanji zimenezo? Zoonadi, Freud anagogomezera kufunikira kwa gawo logonana laumunthu ndipo adanenanso kuti limayambitsa ma neuroses onse. Koma kuyambira 1916, sanatope kubwereza: "Psychoanalysis siyinayiwale kuti pali zokonda zosagonana, zimadalira kulekanitsa bwino kwa zokonda zogonana ndi zoyendetsa za "I"2.
Ndiye ndi chiyani m'mawu ake chomwe chidakhala chovuta kwambiri kotero kuti mikangano yokhudza momwe ayenera kumvetsetsedwa sinathere kwa zaka zana? Chifukwa chake ndi lingaliro la Freudian la kugonana, lomwe si aliyense amatanthauzira molondola.
Freud samayimba konse kuti: "Ngati mukufuna kukhala bwino - gonana!"
Kuyika kugonana pakati pa kusowa chidziwitso ndi psyche yonse, Freud samalankhula za maliseche komanso kuzindikira za kugonana. Pakumvetsetsa kwake za psychosexuality, zikhumbo zathu sizochepa konse ku libido, zomwe zimafuna kukhutira pakugonana kopambana. Ndi mphamvu yomwe imayendetsa moyo wokha, ndipo imakhala ndi mitundu yosiyanasiyana, yolunjika ku zolinga zina, monga, mwachitsanzo, kukwaniritsa chisangalalo ndi kupambana mu ntchito kapena kuzindikira kulenga.
Chifukwa cha ichi, mu moyo wa aliyense wa ife pali mikangano ya m'maganizo momwe zikhumbo zogonana nthawi yomweyo ndi zosowa za "I", zilakolako ndi zoletsedwa zimawombana.
Freud samayimba konse kuti: "Ngati mukufuna kukhala bwino - gonana!" Ayi, kugonana sikuli kophweka kumasula, kosavuta kukhutiritsa kwathunthu: kumayambira kuyambira masiku oyambirira a moyo ndipo kungakhale gwero la kuvutika ndi chisangalalo, zomwe mbuye wa psychoanalysis amatiuza. Njira yake imathandiza aliyense kuti azitha kukambirana ndi chikumbumtima chawo, kuthetsa mikangano yozama ndipo potero amapeza ufulu wamkati.
1 Onani "Nkhani Zitatu Zokhudza Chiphunzitso cha Kugonana" mu Z. Freud's Essays pa Theory of Sexuality (AST, 2008).
2 Z. Freud "Chiyambi cha Psychoanalysis" (AST, 2016).