Psychology

Aliyense ali ndi mnzake wosuliza yemwe amatsimikizira kuti dziko lapansi silinachite chilungamo, ndikupusa kuyembekezera mphotho yayikulu kwambiri kwa omwe akuzunzidwa. Koma kuchokera kumalingaliro a psychology, zonse sizili zophweka: kukhulupirira lamulo la kubwezera kungakhale kothandiza.

Anapita kukagwira ntchito ku kampani yomwe imalavulira chilengedwe kapena kugwiritsa ntchito zofooka zaumunthu - "karma yowonongeka." Anapanganso kuyimbira thandizo - gwirani "zabwino ku karma." Nthabwala pambali, koma lingaliro la mphotho yapadziko lonse lapansi kuchokera ku filosofi ya Buddhism ndi Chihindu limagwiranso iwo omwe samakhulupirira katundu wauzimu womwe uli nawo - kubadwanso kwina, samsara ndi nirvana.

Kumbali imodzi, karma m'lingaliro la tsiku ndi tsiku ndi chinthu chomwe timadalira. Imaletsa kuchita zinthu zosemphana ndi zofuna za ena, ngakhale ngati palibe amene akudziwa. Kumbali ina, limalonjeza chimwemwe—ngati ife enife tiri okonzeka kupereka chinachake mopanda dyera. Koma izi zonse ndi zongopeka. Ndi olungama bwanji?

Ndipereka kuti mupereke

Dziko lanyama limamvera lamulo la causality, ndipo timapeza mosavuta mawonetseredwe ake m'moyo watsiku ndi tsiku. Tinasambira ndi zilonda zapakhosi m'madzi oundana - m'mawa kutentha kunakwera. Munalowa masewera kwa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi - thupi lidayamba kumveka, munayamba kugona bwino ndikuchita zambiri. Ngakhale osadziwa mwatsatanetsatane momwe metabolism imagwirira ntchito, titha kunena kuti: kuyika ndalama paumoyo wanu ndikothandiza, koma kulavulira ndi kupusa.

Malamulo omwewo, malinga ndi ena, amagwira ntchito m’maubwenzi a anthu. Katswiri wa Ayurvedic Deepak Chopra akukhulupirira izi. Mu Malamulo Asanu ndi Awiri Auzimu Opambana, amatenga "lamulo la karma" kuchokera kwa lina, "lamulo la kupereka." Kuti tilandire chinachake, choyamba tiyenera kupereka. Chidwi, mphamvu, chikondi ndi ndalama zonse zomwe zingapindule. Musalole nthawi yomweyo, osati nthawi zonse mu mawonekedwe omwe malingaliro amakoka, koma zidzachitika.

Komanso, kusaona mtima, kudzikonda ndi chinyengo zimapanga chizungulire choyipa: timakopa anthu omwe amafunanso kudziwonetsera okha pa ndalama zathu, kutigwiritsa ntchito ndi kutinyenga.

Chopra akulangizani kuti mufikire mwachidziwitso chilichonse mwa zosankha zanu, kudzifunsa nokha: kodi izi ndi zomwe ndikufunadi? Kodi ndili ndi lingaliro? Ngati sitikukhutira ndi moyo - mwina chifukwa ife tokha tinadzinyenga tokha ndipo mosadziwa tinakana mwayi, sitinakhulupirire mphamvu zathu ndikuchoka ku chisangalalo.

NGATI PALIBE tanthawuzo, CHIYENERA KUPANGA

Vuto ndiloti zifukwa zenizeni ndi zotsatira za zochitika zambiri zimabisika kwa ife ndi khoma la phokoso lachidziwitso. Ngati, titatha kuyankhulana kopambana, tinakanidwa, pangakhale zifukwa chikwi za izi. Kusankhidwa kwathu kunali koyenera kukhala mtsogoleri, koma akuluakulu aboma sanakonde. Kapena mwina kuyankhulana sikunayende bwino, koma tinadzitsimikizira tokha, chifukwa tinkafunadi. Zomwe zidasewera gawo lalikulu, sitikudziwa.

Dziko lotizungulira nthawi zambiri silingathe kulamulira. Titha kungolingalira momwe zinthu zidzakhalire. Mwachitsanzo, timakonda kumwa khofi m'mawa m'chipinda chodyeramo. Dzulo anali m'malo, leronso - tikuyembekeza kuti mawa panjira yopita kuntchito tidzatha kudzipangira tokha chakumwa chonunkhira. Koma mwiniwakeyo akhoza kutseka kotulukira kapena kupita kumalo ena. Ndipo ngati mvula igwa tsiku limenelo, tingathe kusankha kuti chilengedwe chatinyamula zida, ndikuyamba kufunafuna zifukwa mwa ife tokha.

Tili ndi neural network yapadera yomwe ikugwira ntchito muubongo wathu, yomwe katswiri wazokhudza ubongo Michael Gazzaniga amatcha womasulira. Chisangalalo chake chomwe amachikonda ndikulumikiza zomwe zikubwera kukhala nkhani yolumikizana, pomwe mfundo za dziko lapansi zingatsatire. Tinatengera maukondewa kuchokera kwa makolo athu, omwe kunali kofunika kwambiri kuchitapo kanthu kuposa kusanthula. Zitsamba zikugwedezeka ndi mphepo kapena chilombo chobisala pamenepo - mtundu wachiwiri unali wofunika kwambiri kuti upulumuke. Ngakhale pa nkhani ya «alamu zabodza», ndi bwino kuthawa ndi kukwera mtengo kusiyana ndi kudyedwa.

Ulosi wodzikwaniritsa

Nchifukwa chiyani womasulirayo amalephera, ayambe kutidyetsa nkhani zomwe sitinalembedwe ntchito, chifukwa panjira sitinapereke mpando wathu pa metro kwa mayi wachikulire, sitinaupereke kwa wopemphapempha, tinakana pempho kuti bwenzi losadziwika?

Katswiri wa zamaganizo Rob Brotherton, m’buku lake lakuti Distrustful Minds, anasonyeza kuti chizoloŵezi chogwirizanitsa zochitika zosiyanasiyana zimene zimangotsatirana mwachisawawa n’chogwirizana ndi kulakwa kwa milingo ya zinthu: “Pamene chotulukapo cha chochitika chiri chofunika, choikidwiratu ndi chovuta kumvetsetsa, timakonda lingalirani kuti chifukwa chake chiyenera kukhala chofunikira, chatsoka, komanso chovuta kumvetsetsa. "

Mwanjira ina kapena imzake, timakhulupirira kuti dziko limazungulira ife ndipo chilichonse chomwe chimachitika chimakhala chofunikira pamoyo wathu.

Ngati munalibe mwayi ndi nyengo kumapeto kwa sabata, ichi ndi chilango chifukwa chosavomera kuthandiza makolo anu m'dzikolo, koma kuganiza kuti mukhale ndi nthawi yanu. N’zoona kuti mamiliyoni a anthu amenenso anavutika ndi zimenezi ayenera kuti anachimwa m’njira inayake. Apo ayi, kuwalanga pamodzi ndi ife, chilengedwe chimakhala ngati nkhumba.

Akatswiri a zamaganizo Michael Lupfer ndi Elisabeth Layman asonyeza kuti kukhulupirira tsogolo, karma, ndi kupereka kwa Mulungu kapena milungu ndi zotsatira za mantha aakulu omwe alipo. Sitingathe kulamulira zochitika, zomwe zotsatira zake zidzasintha miyoyo yathu, koma sitikufuna kumverera ngati chidole m'manja mwa mphamvu zosadziwika.

Choncho, timalingalira kuti gwero la mavuto athu onse, komanso zipambano, ndi ife eni. Ndipo nkhawa yathu ikakhala yamphamvu, m'pamenenso timakhala ndi kukayikakayika kozama kuti dziko lapansi limakonzedwa mwanzeru komanso momveka bwino, m'pamenenso timayamba kuyang'ana zizindikiro mwachangu.

Kudzinyenga kothandiza

Kodi kuli koyenera kuyesa kuletsa iwo amene amakhulupirira kugwirizana kwa zochitika zosagwirizana? Kodi chikhulupiriro m’choikidwiratu n’chopanda pake ndiponso n’chosathandiza, chimene chimalanga umbombo, njiru ndi kaduka, ndiponso chimafupa kuwolowa manja ndi kukoma mtima?

Chikhulupiriro mu mphotho yomaliza chimalimbitsa anthu ambiri. Apa ndipamene mphamvu ya placebo imayamba kugwira ntchito: ngakhale mankhwala sangagwire ntchito pawokha, amalimbikitsa thupi kusonkhanitsa zothandizira. Ngati karma kulibe, ndiye kuti ndibwino kuyiyambitsa.

Malinga ndi kunena kwa katswiri wa zamaganizo wa gulu Adam Grant, kukhalapo kwenikweni kwa chitaganya kuli kotheka chifukwa chakuti timakhulupirira mkombero wa zabwino ndi zoipa. Popanda zochita zathu zopanda dyera, zomwe, kwenikweni, zikutanthauza kusinthana ndi chilengedwe, anthu sakanapulumuka.

M'maseŵera amaganizo pa kugawa kwa ubwino wamba, ndi khalidwe lachitukuko (lopindulitsa kwa ena) lomwe limatsimikizira kupambana. Ngati aliyense adzigwetsera bulangeti, "chitumbuwa" chophatikizana chimasungunuka mwachangu, kaya phindu, zachilengedwe, kapena zinthu zina monga kudalira.

Karma singakhalepo monga chilungamo chophatikizidwa chomwe chimabweretsa kulinganizika kwa chilengedwe, koma kukhulupirira mwa izo sikuvulaza aliyense, malinga ngati tikuwona ngati lamulo la makhalidwe abwino: "Ndimachita zabwino, chifukwa izi zimapangitsa dziko kukhala malo abwinopo. »

Siyani Mumakonda