Kulankhula (kulankhula moona mtima) sikumangomasulira lingaliro lathunthu m’mawu. Kumatanthauza kudziponya m'madzi, kupita kukafunafuna tanthauzo, kuyamba ulendo.
Koposa zonse ndimakonda kukhala pansi ndisanamvetsetse mfundo yanga. Ndikudziwa kuti mawuwo adzandithandiza ndikunditsogolera kwa ine ndekha: ndimawadalira. Ndimakonda ophunzira omwe funso lililonse limakhala ngati vuto, omwe amamveketsa malingaliro awo momwe akufotokozedwera.
Ndimakonda mawu akamatuluka pabedi la psychoanalyst, zimene zimatipangitsa kusiya kudzinamiza. Ndimakonda pamene mawu satimvera, amagwedeza ndi kuthamangitsana wina ndi mzake ndikuthamangira mumtsinje wakulankhula, ataledzera ndi tanthauzo lomwe likubadwa pakali pano. Choncho tisachite mantha! Tisadikire mpaka titamvetsetsa zomwe tikufuna kunena kuti tiyambe kulankhula. Apo ayi, sitidzanena kalikonse.
M'malo mwake, tiyeni tiwonetsere bwino kukhudzika kwa mawu ndikulola kuti atikhudze - atha, ndipo motani!
“M’mawu ndi m’mene lingaliro limapeza tanthauzo,” analemba motero Hegel, akutsutsa Descartes ndi zonena zake zimene lingaliro limatsogolera kulankhula. Lero tikudziwa kuti izi siziri choncho: palibe lingaliro lotsogolera mawu. Ndipo izi ziyenera kutimasula, zikhale kutiitanira ife kuti titenge pansi.
Kulankhula ndiko kupanga chochitika chomwe tanthauzo lingathe kubadwa.
Mutha kutenga mawu ngakhale muli nokha, kunyumba kapena mumsewu, mutha kulankhula nokha kuti mufufuze malingaliro anu. Mulimonsemo, ngakhale mutakhala chete, mumapanga malingaliro anu kudzera mukulankhula kwamkati. Lingaliro, Plato anati, ndi "kukambitsirana kwa moyo ndi iwo wokha." Musadikire kuti mulankhule ndi ena. Dziwani kuti powauza zomwe mukuganiza, mudzadziwa ngati mukuganizadi. Nthawi zambiri, kukambirana sikungokhala kulankhulana.
Kulankhulana ndi pamene timanena zomwe timadziwa kale. Kumatanthauza kufotokoza chinthu ndi cholinga m’maganizo. Tumizani uthenga kwa wolandira. Andale omwe amatenga mawu okonzekera m'matumba awo samalankhula, amalumikizana. Oyankhula omwe amawerenga makhadi awo mmodzi pambuyo pa mzake sakuyankhula - akuwulutsa malingaliro awo. Kulankhula ndiko kupanga chochitika chomwe tanthauzo lingathe kubadwa. Kulankhula ndiko kuika moyo pachiswe: moyo wopanda kupangidwa sungakhale moyo wa munthu. Nyama zimalankhulana, ndipo ngakhale kulankhulana bwino kwambiri. Ali ndi njira zoyankhulirana zapamwamba kwambiri. Koma samalankhula.