Psychology

Mayesero oti ndidzipereke ndekha, kusiya moyo wanga ndikuyang'ana mwansanje za wina nthawi zina zimabwera kwa ine mosayembekezereka. Kundipereka kumatanthauza kuona zomwe zimandichitikira ngati zosafunikira kwenikweni.

Muyenera kusiya chilichonse - ndikukhala kwinakwake m'moyo wamunthu wina. Tiyenera kuyamba moyo wina mwachangu. Ndi iti yomwe sichidziwika bwino, koma osati yomwe mukukhala pano, ngakhale ola limodzi kapena awiri apitawo mudakhutitsidwa ndi inu nokha (osachepera) ndi momwe mukukhala tsopano.

Koma kwenikweni, pali malo ambiri kapena zochitika zomwe anthu ena amamva bwino komanso osangalala ngakhale popanda ine - ndipo izi sizikutanthauza kuti amakhumudwa ndi ine. Pali malo ndi zochitika zambiri zomwe ena amamva bwino, chifukwa ine kulibe. Pali malo omwe sandikumbukira nkomwe, ngakhale akudziwa. Pali nsonga zomwe sindingathe kuzifikira chifukwa ndidasankha kukwera ena - ndipo wina adafika pomwe ine, mwa kusankha kwanga, sindidzadzipeza ndekha kapena ndidzawuka, koma pambuyo pake. Ndiyeno chiyesochi chimabwera - kuchoka ku moyo wanu, kuti mudziwe zomwe zikukuchitikirani tsopano monga zosafunikira, koma zomwe zikuchitika popanda inu - monga chinthu chokhacho chofunikira, ndikuchilakalaka, ndikusiya kuona zomwe zikuzungulirani.

Mukhoza kulemba ndi magazi a mtima wanu - ndiyeno wanga «buku» akhoza kutenga malo pakati ankakonda ntchito za munthu wabwino.

Nchiyani chimathandizira kukumana ndi chiyeso ichi ndikubwerera kwa wekha, osalakalaka kosatha komwe sindiri, ndipo mwina sindingakhale? Ndi chiyani chomwe chimakulolani kuti mukhale wofanana ndi inu nokha, osadumpha pakhungu lanu ndipo musayese kukoka munthu wina? Zaka zingapo zapitazo, ndidadzipezera ndekha mawu amatsenga, omwe ndagawana nawo kale - koma sizingakhale zovuta kuwabwereza. Awa ndi mawu a John Tolkien, omwe adalemba kwa wofalitsa wake, atatopa ndi zokambirana zokhazikika ngati zingatheke kufalitsa buku "lolakwika" ngati Lord of the Rings, ndikuti mwina liyenera kusinthidwa, kudula kwinakwake. mu theka ... kapena ngakhale lembaninso. “Buku ili lalembedwa m’mwazi wanga, wonenepa kapena woonda, kaya ndi chiyani. sindingathe kuchita zambiri. ”

Moyo uwu walembedwa ndi magazi anga, wandiweyani kapena amadzimadzi - kaya ndi chiyani. Sindingathe kuchita zambiri, ndipo ndilibe magazi ena. Ndipo chifukwa chake, zoyesayesa zonse zodzikhetsa magazi mwa kufuna kwanu koopsa "Nditsanulireni wina!" zilibe ntchito! ndi "kudula zala izi chifukwa chosowa" ...

Mukhoza kulemba ndi magazi a mtima wanu - ndiyeno wanga «buku» akhoza kutenga malo pakati ankakonda ntchito za munthu wabwino. Ndipo ikhoza kuyima pafupi ndi, pa alumali yomweyi, ndi bukhu la munthu amene ndinkamuchitira nsanje kwambiri komanso amene ndinkafuna kukhala mu nsapato zake. Chodabwitsa n'chakuti akhoza kukhala amtengo wapatali mofanana, ngakhale kuti olembawo ndi osiyana kwambiri. Zinanditengera zaka zingapo kuti ndizindikire mfundo imeneyi.

Siyani Mumakonda