Achinyamata amayesetsa kuti akule mwamsanga, kuti adziwe mbali yoletsedwa ya moyo, koma samamvetsetsa kuti pali nthawi ya chirichonse. Nkhani ya Lolita ikadali yofunikira masiku ano, chifukwa malo enieni amapereka mwayi waukulu woponderezedwa ndi akuluakulu.
Kodi msungwana wamng'ono amataya ungwiro pa nthawi iti? Ndi liti pamene amazindikira kuti thupi lake laling'ono ndi chinthu chokhumba? Pamene iye anachezeredwa ndi kumverera kosangalatsa mphamvu pa dziko mwamuna? Kapena panthawi ya kugonana koyamba? Dolores Haze amataya kusalakwa kwake akazindikira kuti wamkulu angagwiritse ntchito ndikupereka.
Pafupifupi mwana, samazindikira momwe achikulire angakhale achinyengo. Kukopa kwake ndi masewera, ali ndi zaka 12 zokha, sali okhwima mokwanira komanso wanzeru kuti amvetsetse zotsatira za masewera otere. Zonse zomwe ankawona monga chitsanzo cha ubale anali amayi ake, omwe amavutika ndi kusungulumwa, ndiyeno kunyengerera mosasamala.
Dolores ali ndi zongopeka zodzutsa chilakolako cha kugonana, ndipo ndani yemwe sanakhudzidwe nazo pa msinkhu wake? Amafuna kuwoneka wokhwima, wodziwa zambiri, mwina kuti agonjetse amayi ake pampikisano wazaka zakale uno. Amaseŵera ndi mwamuna amene anakhala bambo ake omupeza. Ndipo amaluza. Chifukwa chakuti wachinyamata aliyense, mosasamala kanthu kuti ali wofunitsitsa motani kunyengerera munthu wamkulu, amafuna kumva “ayi” ndi mbali ina ya iye mwini.
“Ndiwe wokongola, ndipo achinyamata mazanamazana adzakondwera kukutcha mkwatibwi. Koma sindidzakhala ine (ndidzakhala mtundu wina wa chitsiru chachichepere), "kawirikawiri amuna achikulire abwino, osakhutitsidwa ndi zilakolako zapathengo, nthawi zambiri amanong'oneza motaya mtima, makamaka abambo opeza kapena abambo.
Chizoloŵezi cha dziko la anthu akuluakulu ndi "ayi" olimba ku zoyesayesa zilizonse zokopa mwana. Ndipo kuletsa kwathunthu kudzinyengerera tokha, kupanga maloto, nymphet, Lolita yemwe amamulakalaka kuchokera kwa Dolores wosadziwa, kulungamitsa kukhudzika kwake ndi kukopa kwake kwauchiwanda.
Tsoka la Dolores Haze ndiloti sanathe kukula bwino pansi pa chitetezo cha banja lake. Kupyolera mu zochitika zachilengedwe zokhumudwitsa achinyamata chifukwa chosatha kupeza zomwe mukufuna nthawi yomweyo, kudzidziwa nokha, dziko lapansi ndi anthu ena, zisanachitike komanso, mwa iye, zochitika zowononga za moyo wa "wamkulu" sizimawonongeratu ubwana. , ubwino ndi moyo.
lolita pakati pathu
Kuyesera kwa achinyamata kuti ayambe kukula mwamsanga, momwe angathere chilichonse, si zachilendo. Kuwoloka malire osaonekawa, makamaka mothandizidwa ndi akuluakulu okopa, kumalepheretsa psyche yokhwima ya mwanayo. Izi zitha, mwachitsanzo, mosavuta pa Webusaiti.
Malo owoneka bwino amapanga mikhalidwe yochitira ma pathologies, ndipo asungwana achichepere omwe amakulira mukusowa kwa chidwi chachikulu, omwe amawerenga pang'ono ndikudziwa pang'ono za momwe dziko lapansi limagwirira ntchito, amatha kugwa mosavuta ndikugwiritsa ntchito, kuwasokoneza chifukwa cha chidwi chenicheni ndi chikondi. .