Chikondi ndi kukhulupirika mu dziko nyama

Ndi ndani mwa oimira nyama omwe angadzitamande ndi mabanja olimba? Choyamba, maswans. Ndi nyimbo zingati ndi nthano zopekedwa zokhuza mabanja a chinsalu! Iwo amakhala okhulupirika kwa wina ndi mnzake “kufikira imfa idzatilekanitsa.” Mbalamezi zimalera limodzi anapiye omwe sachoka pachisa cha makolo awo kwa nthawi yaitali. Ndipo, chochititsa chidwi, okwatirana a swan samakangana, samamenyana ndi chakudya, musayese kugawana mphamvu m'banja. Pali wina wotengera chitsanzo kwa anthu.

Osachepera swans, nkhunda zimatchuka chifukwa cha luso la chikondi - chizindikiro cha mtendere ndi chifundo. Iwo ndi osasinthika okondana. Mavinidwe awo aukwati okhudza mtima ndi okopa bwanji. Ndipo pambuyo pa zonse, nkhunda ndizomwe zimayimilira zinyama zomwe zimadziwa kupsompsona. Nkhunda zimagawaniza ntchito zonse zapakhomo pakati, kumanga chisa pamodzi, kuswa mazira motsatizana. Zoona, zisa za nkhunda zimakhala zosasamala komanso zosalimba, koma kodi chikondi chenicheni sichokwera kuposa moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku?

Akhwangwala amapanganso awiriawiri. Mwamuna akamwalira, mkazi wake sadzadziphatikanso ndi ubale wa banja ndi munthu wina. Akwangwala amatha kupanga mabanja enieni achibale. Ana okulirapo amakhala ndi makolo awo ndikuthandizira kulera m'badwo wotsatira wa anapiye. Mabanja a khwangwala wotere amatha kuwerengera anthu 15-20.

Pakati pa zinyama zoyamwitsa, ubale wosangalatsa umapezeka mu mimbulu. Nkhandwe ndiye mutu wa banja! Koma ngati adwala, kufa, kapena, pazifukwa zina, asiya paketiyo, mkaziyo amachotsa lumbiro lake la kukhulupirika. Pamenepa, tikukamba za serial monogamy. Koma pamene kuli kwakuti mwamuna ali m’gulu, ali ndi udindo wonse wosamalira banja. Mmbulu ukhoza kukhalabe ndi njala, koma udzagawaniza nyamayo pakati pa mkazi, ana ndi achibale akuluakulu. Nkhandwe zimakhala zansanje kwambiri ndipo nthawi yokwerera zimakhala zaukali kwa zazikazi zina, motero zimateteza “ufulu wawo wa amayi”.

Kodi mwachibadwa munthu amakhala ndi mkazi mmodzi? Pali maganizo osiyanasiyana pa nkhaniyi. Koma monga anthu oganiza bwino, timatha kusankha kukhala mkazi mmodzi. Kotero kuti palibe mitima yosweka, kotero kuti palibe ana kusiyidwa, kotero kuti dzanja m'manja mpaka ukalamba. Kukhala ngati swans, kuwuluka pa mapiko a chikondi kupyolera mu zovuta - ichi sichisangalalo chenicheni.

Siyani Mumakonda