Zamkatimu
Nkhani yanga ikupita kwa omwe ali ndi ana kale m'banja, kapena maonekedwe awo amayembekezeredwa. Ayi! Imvani, musamalere ana anu potengera chinyengo, osasewera zakukhosi kwawo! Ngati mukufuna kuti ana anu akule bwino m'maganizo, okwanira, ndi kudzidalira kwachibadwa komanso kuti asakhumudwe ndi inu kwa moyo wawo wonse, ndiye pezani njira yabwino yophunzitsira ndi kukulitsa umunthu.
Kuwongolera chakukhosi
Ngati mwana wanu sakufuna kuchita ntchito zake pakhomo, kapena, atasewera ndi zipangizo zamakono, sakufulumira kuchita homuweki, simuyenera kumuuza kuti samakukondani, kuti mudzafa chifukwa chogwira ntchito mopitirira muyeso. , koma sadzazindikira. Ndipo musanene kuti ndi malingaliro otere a moyo adzatuluka mwa iye: “wachifwamba, wakuba, wamisala kapena wakupha”. Ndi mawu awa, mumagona mosazindikira pulogalamu yoyipa ya moyo. "Zabwino kwambiri," wotayika wokhala ndi vuto lochepera amakula. Kuti izi zisachitike, yesani kuyambitsa mphotho yophiphiritsa pa ntchito iliyonse yomwe yamalizidwa pa nthawi yake. Tinene mphotho yandalama, kapena dongosolo la mfundo. Chifukwa chake, pantchito yosakwaniritsidwa, pali dongosolo lachilango, kuchotsa mfundo, kapena kwanthawi yayitali opanda zida. Payekha, lingaliro langa ndiloti sikuli bwino kuletsa mwana kuyenda ndi kulankhula ndi abwenzi, popeza kuyenda ndi mpweya wabwino womwe uli ndi thanzi labwino, ndipo kuyankhulana ndi abwenzi ndiko kukula kwa maganizo a mwana wanu ndi luso lake loyankhulana.
Kuopa makolo
Kuti timveke bwino, tiyeni tizidzikumbukira kuti ndife ang'onoang'ono kapena aunyamata. Inde, ife, ana omwe anakulira m'ma 90, tinalibe makompyuta, koma panali zotonthoza, monga. SEGA or DENDYmomwe tidasewera, kuyiwala chilichonse. Kapena, akuŵerenga bukhu lochititsa chidwi, anaiwala kutsuka mbale kapena kusesa pansi. Kenako mukumva chitseko chakutsogolo chikugwedezeka ndipo amayi anu amabwera kunyumba. Kodi kubwerera kwake kumadzutsa maganizo otani mwa inu? Mantha? Zowopsa? Kuyembekezera chipongwe chosapeŵeka? Ngati yankho lanu ndi: "Ndipo ndizo", ndiye ndikukuthokozani, tili ndi vuto lamaganizo la mwana.
M'mabanja omwe maubwenzi apakati amamangidwa molondola, mwanayo samaponyedwa mu thukuta lozizira ndikuwopa kuti makolo abwerera ndipo ntchito zapakhomo sizinakwaniritsidwe. Ndipo chomvetsa chisoni kwambiri n’chakuti inuyo mwina mumasokonezanso maganizo a ana anu. Ayi, simuli makolo owopsa, mumangokhala kale ndi kakhalidwe kake muzochitika zotere. Ndipo sitepe yoyamba yomanga ubale wabwino ndi ana ndikumvetsetsa kuti mukuphwanya psyche ya mwanayo ndi mawu ndi zochita zanu. Mukangomvetsetsa izi ndikuvomereza moona mtima kuti mwataya kumvetsetsana ndi ana, phunzirani kukambirana nawo. Zitsanzo za momwe zafotokozedwera kale m'nkhaniyi. Timamanganso ubale wabwino ndi ana, mpaka zonse zitayenda, koma timayesetsa kwambiri. Ndipo mudzapambana.
Kodi mumalera bwanji ana anu ndikuchita zinthu zosiyanasiyana? Gawani zomwe mwakumana nazo mu ndemanga.
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