"Mapu Osangalatsa": fufuzani thupi lanu kuti mubweretse chisangalalo kwa inu nokha ndi mnzanu

Kukhudza

Chidwi pa thupi, choyamba pa ife tokha ndipo pambuyo pake cha munthu wina, chimayamba mwa ife tisanadziwe mmene anyamata amasiyanirana ndi atsikana. Mwa kukhudza khungu lake ndikuphunzira maonekedwe a thupi, mwanayo amamanga fano la iyemwini - amapeza madera ovuta kwambiri ndipo amaphunzira kukhudza komwe kumakhala kosangalatsa kwambiri.

Izi ndizochitika mwachibadwa komanso zofunikira: "Kusowa kwa phunziroli kungayambitse mavuto aakulu m'tsogolomu," akuchenjeza za kugonana Elena Korzhenek. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mwana ankavala matewera kwa nthawi yaitali ndipo analibe mwayi kuti adziŵe maliseche ake, ndiye kuti dera limeneli amaona ngati "malo oyera" pa thupi - mbali izi zimataya tilinazo ndipo sizikugwirizana. mu chithunzi chamaganizo cha thupi lawo lomwe.

Koma nkhaniyi si yopanda chiyembekezo - pambuyo pake titha kuyipeza. Titapanga mapu a thupi lathu, timayamba kukhala ndi chidwi ndi matupi a ena. Pofika zaka zitatu, timapeza kuti anthu onse ozungulira agawidwa m'magulu awiri: omwe amatha kulemba ataimirira, ndi omwe amawavuta. Kapena, monga imatchedwanso, pa amuna ndi akazi.

Kuwona zosangalatsa

Pambuyo pake, pamene tikupitiriza kudziwa thupi lathu, timapeza komwe madera a erogenous ali, ndipo tikhoza kudzutsa chidwi m'malo omwe analibe: kulimbikitsa mfundo pa thupi kumawonjezera kutengeka kwawo. Thupi limakhalapo osati mwakuthupi, komanso liripo m'malingaliro athu: pamenepo tikhoza kusintha makhalidwe ake, kukhala amphamvu kapena okongola kwambiri.

"M'malingaliro, timadzilingalira tokha mu gawo lofunika kwambiri, kaya ndi ngwazi, ozimitsa moto kapena namwino," akutero Svetlana Nechitailo, katswiri wa zamaganizo. Nthawi zambiri, maudindowa amakhala kutali ndi zomwe timachita zenizeni: yemwe amagwira ntchito pamoto savala chisoti pochita chiwerewere.

“Chovala choyera chimandikwanira kuntchito,” akuvomereza motero namwino wazaka 32 Irina, “anthu odwala, makamaka amuna achire, nthaŵi zambiri amandikopana, koma ichi ndi chizindikiro chabe chakuti nyonga yawo yabwerera kwa iwo. Ndipo m'malingaliro anga achiwerewere, ndimadziyerekezera ndekha Cleopatra kapena Madame de Montespan, wokondedwa wa mfumu ya ku France.

Muzongopeka, timadziwona tokha ngati omwe, m'malingaliro athu, ali otsimikizika okopa chidwi ndi ena. Ndipo, ndithudi, timaphatikizapo zotsirizirazo mu masewerawo. "Zongopeka, kuphatikizapo kugonana, ndi zithunzi zomwe zakhala zikuchiritsidwa kwa ife, zomwe zimathandiza kuthana ndi kuvulala monga kusowa chidwi kapena kukhudzana," akutsindika Elena Korzhenek. Koma amayi ndi abambo ali ndi njira zosiyana pazochitika zogonana.

Erotica Martian ndi Venusian

Kupanga mafilimu kumaganizira za kusiyana kwa zokonda: akazi amakopeka kwambiri ndi chibwenzi, kunyengerera ndi chikondi, pamene amuna nthawi zambiri amadumpha kukambirana ndikuyang'ana pazochitikazo. Chifukwa cha izi, erotica yamphongo ili pafupi ndi zolaula ndipo imasonyeza matupi amaliseche a ochita masewera, kuchepetsa chiwembucho kukhala chochepa. Ndipo mkaziyo, m'malo mwake, amafuna kuti afotokoze momwe aliyense adakhalira pabedi.

Svetlana Nechitailo anati: “Pamene kuyesera kupanga zolaula kwa omvera aakazi, njira ziŵiri zinagwiritsiridwa ntchito, m’buku loyamba, olembawo anasamala kwambiri za chiyambi ndi chiwembu, ndipo chachiwiri anayesera kuyang’ana pa akazi. zosangalatsa, koma osati mwachindunji, ndi pafupi-mmwamba pa ziwalo zogonana, ndipo mosapita m'mbali, mwa malangizo, phokoso, nkhope.

Chotsatiracho sichinakwaniritse zoyembekeza: zosankha zonse ziwirizi sizinabweretse chisangalalo chachikulu pakati pa omvera achikazi. Kusiyana maganizo a eroticism akuganiziridwa mu maanja mankhwala. Onse awiri akulangizidwa kuti aphatikizepo m'malingaliro awo gawo lomwe nthawi zambiri amaphonya - zachikondi kwa abambo komanso kugonana kwa akazi.

Iyi si ntchito yophweka, makamaka kwa amayi, omwe kugonana kwawo kwakhala kosavomerezeka kwa zaka mazana ambiri, ndipo thupi lawo liyenera kukhala lobisika m'zikhalidwe zina. Kukana zonyansazi kumathandiza kumvetsetsa bwino mnzanuyo ndikukhazikitsa kukhudzana.

Magalasi ndi mikondo

M'chilengedwe, udindo wa wonyengerera nthawi zambiri umaperekedwa kwa mwamuna: ndiye amene ali ndi nthenga zowala, nyimbo zomveka za chibwenzi ndi nthambi za chisa. Mkaziyo amasankha modekha zabwino zomwe akukambirana. M’chitaganya cha anthu, mwamwambo, mwamuna nayenso amachita mbali yokangalika, kukopa mkazi ndi kutsimikizira umuna wake nthaŵi iriyonse.

Koma iyi si njira yokhayo yomwe ingatheke paubwenzi. Kupatula apo, ife, mosiyana ndi nyama zambiri, timagonana osati chifukwa chobereka, komanso kungosangalala. Ndipo chisangalalo sichingalandire kokha, komanso kuperekedwa. Kodi maudindo a wolandira ndi wopereka amatsatiridwa ndi jenda, kapena akhoza kukhala osiyana ndi ovomerezeka?

“Othandizana nawo agawikadi kukhala olandira ndi opereka, koma osati molingana ndi kapangidwe ka maliseche, koma pamaziko a kukula kwawo pakugonana. Nthawi zambiri, gawolo limatsimikiziridwa ndi chidziwitso choyamba chogonana, "akutero Elena Korzhenek. Ofufuza za kugonana amakhulupirira kuti ndizosatheka kusintha zomwe mumakonda m'derali, koma mutha kukambirana ndikuchita nawo ntchito zachilendo.

kulankhula kosayenera

Kale tisanakumane ndi kugonana, timayesetsa kusonyeza wokondedwa wathu kuti timamukonda ndipo tikufuna kupanga ubwenzi ndi ubale. Kodi pali njira zodziwira ngati malingaliro athu ali oyenera?

Elena Korzhenek ananena kuti: “Tikakhala paubwenzi kwa nthawi yaitali, timadziwa kuti munthu woti azigonana naye kapena kuti azimukonda, amaona kuti akufunafuna munthu wotani. , pamenepa, kutopa kodziŵika bwino pambuyo pogwira ntchito.”

Komabe, mu magawo oyambirira, manyazi ndi zotheka. Zolinga zotanthauziridwa molakwika nthawi zambiri zimayambitsa mikangano, "choncho apa muyenera kutsatira lamulo losavuta: ngati mukukayikira, funsani," Svetlana Nechitailo akulangiza. "Wokondedwayo sayenera kungoganizira zofuna zanu." Ngakhale titakhala otsimikiza za yankho labwino, m'pofunika kutsimikizira.

Komanso, luso lolankhula mosapita m’mbali za zilakolako zanu, kuphatikizapo zilakolako za thupi, lidzakhala lothandiza m’tsogolo. Mu maubwenzi apamtima ndi apamtima, ndife omasuka momwe tingathere. Nthawi zina izi zimayambitsa manyazi, manyazi ndi chisangalalo, zofanana ndi zomwe timakumana nazo pa siteji, ngakhale omvera athu onse ndi okondedwa, koma maganizo ake ndi ofunika kwambiri.

Komabe, kulola kudzichepetsa ndi manyazi zisatilepheretse kukambitsirana zokhumba za wina ndi mnzake. Ndiponsotu, kukana kukambitsirana koteroko, kuyesa kutsatira zikhalidwe zovomerezedwa ndi anthu ambiri, kumatanthauza kudzimana kusangalala. Kuwonjezera apo, “aliyense ali ndi lingaliro lake la malamulo aulemu, ndipo kuyesa kutsatira anthu osawadziŵa kuli ntchito yopanda chiyembekezo,” akugogomezera psychoanalyst.

Thupi ndilotithandizira kuti tikwaniritse zosangalatsa, zomwe zimakhalapo nthawi zonse komanso zokonzeka kulankhula nafe. Imatithandiza kutsatira zokhumba zathu ndi kufunafuna munthu amene tingam’kwaniritse.