Kodi mwazengereza kufotokoza nkhani ya banja lanu?
Bukuli limapereka maumboni ochokera ku GPA. Sindikanatha kuyankhula popanda kunena za zomwe ndakumana nazo. Ndikanakonda, koma sizikanakhala bwino. Ndikudziwa kuti kuulula banja langa kumawapangitsa kukhala osatetezeka. Ndi nsembe imene ndavomera kuipereka. Tinakambirana zambiri zonse pamodzi ndipo palibe chomwe chinachitika popanda mgwirizano wa ana anga aakazi, ndimawauza zonse.
Kodi simukuwopa zomwe amadana ndi GPAs?
Mukudziwa, ngakhale kuti anthu amatsutsana kwambiri pawailesi yakanema, anthu amakhala achifundo. Kusukulu, m'misewu, amalonda ... kuyambira pomwe anthu amawona atsikana ang'onoang'ono okhazikika, amawonetsa kuti ndi achifundo. Moyo wathu watsiku ndi tsiku ndi wosangalatsa!
Munawauza bwanji ana anu aakazi nkhani yawo?
Sindikudziwa kuti anali ndi zaka zingati zomwe ankazimvetsa, koma ndakhala ndikuwauza za nkhaniyi kuyambira pamene ndinabadwa. Atangokhala ndi mphindi zochepa, ndinawafotokozera kuti anafika m'banja la abambo awiri, ndipo Michelle, yemwe adawalola kuti abadwe, adalandira kambewu kakang'ono ka abambo kuti akule. m'mimba mwake. Pang'ono ndi pang'ono, tinasintha mawu athu malinga ndi msinkhu wawo, ndipo lero, ndi nkhani yawo, amalankhula za izo mosavuta.
Ndinu bambo otani?
Ine, ndine bambo wolekerera, pamene François amakhazikitsa malamulo. Komabe, ndikadaganiza zosiyana ... Ndine wamkulu kuposa iye ndipo koposa zonse,
iye ndi wozizira kuposa ine m'moyo. Koma pamapeto pake, ine ndi amene ndimatonthoza komanso iye amene amakhazikitsa mafelemu. Mwachitsanzo, sabata ino ndili patchuthi ndekha ndi atsikana, ndipo zasokoneza!
Kodi Michelle, woberekera, akutanthauza chiyani kwa banja lanu?
Ku United States, mayi woberekera akakusankhani, timakumana ndi ana ake, mwamuna wake… Timathera nthawi yochuluka pamodzi ndipo mgwirizano wamphamvu umakhazikika. Sangathe kupatukana pambuyo pa kubadwa kwa mwanayo, m'malo mwake, amakhala amphamvu. Choncho chaka chilichonse pambuyo pa Khrisimasi, timachita lendi nyumba ndipo tonse timasonkhana kuti tikhale kumeneko kwa masiku angapo. Michelle ndi bwenzi lathu lenileni, ndipo amanyadira kuti watithandiza kuyambitsa banja. Ndinganene kuti pamapeto pake amakhala ndi ubale wochuluka ndi ife kuposa ndi atsikana.
Ndi mfundo ziti zomwe mukufuna kupatsa ana anu aakazi?
Ndimayesetsa kugwiritsa ntchito maphunziro osamala, koma osatopa. Ndadzipereka kukulitsa mbali yawo yojambula, yomwe ndinalibe. Osawona chilichonse mwanjira yokhazikika. Anachita sukulu yawo ya mkaka kusukulu ya Montessori kumene, ngakhale pali malamulo, timamvetseranso kwambiri kwa mwanayo ndi luso lake. Wang'onoyo wapanganso chidwi chojambula, kalembedwe ... Palibe chilichonse m'moyo wanga chimandipangitsa kukhala wonyada kuposa ana anga aakazi!
M’buku lake * lakuti, “What is she
kwa banja langa ", Mabaibulo a Grasset, Marc-Olivier amabweretsa umboni wake ndi kuti
ambiri mwa mabanja ena pa surrogacy.