Psychology

Chaka chino pali mafilimu asanu ndi kutenga nawo mbali. Koma palinso zisudzo, ntchito yachifundo maziko «Artist» ndi kukonza m'nyumba ya dziko, zimene zimafunika khama. Madzulo a filimuyo "Biliyoni", yomwe idzachitike pa April 18, tinakumana ndi woimba wa maudindo, Ammayi Maria Mironova, yemwe amayendetsa chirichonse - ndipo nthawi yomweyo amathera nthawi yochuluka kuposa kale ndi okondedwa ake ndi iyemwini.

Mercedes wa Maria afika pa nthawi yake kuwombera. Amadziyendetsa yekha: tsitsi lake mu bun, osati zodzoladzola, jekete yowala, jeans. M'moyo watsiku ndi tsiku, wojambula wa Lenkom amakonda chithunzi chosakhala nyenyezi. Ndipo asanalowe mu chimango, Mironova akuvomereza kuti: "Sindimakonda kuvala ndi kudzoza. Kwa ine, iyi ndi "nkhani ya nthawi yotayika." Zovala zomwe mumakonda ndi T-shirts ndi jeans. Mwina chifukwa samamuletsa kusuntha ndikumulola kuti azithamanga mwachangu, kuthamanga kulikonse komwe akufuna ...

Psychology: Maria, ndimaganiza kuti umakonda kuvala. Pa Instagram (bungwe lochita zinthu monyanyira loletsedwa ku Russia), nthawi zonse mumakhala "popanda".

Maria Mironova: Ndikufuna Instagram (bungwe lochita zinthu monyanyira loletsedwa ku Russia) kuti ndikagwire ntchito. Mmenemo, ndimalankhula za ma premieres anga, zoyambira za mwana wanga wamwamuna, ndikulengeza zochitika za Artist Foundation yathu. Ndipo pambali, ndikufufuza. Zinali zosangalatsa kwambiri kwa ine kudziwa zomwe zimapangitsa anthu masauzande ambiri, monga ku Dom-2, kuwonetsa china chake kwa ena mphindi 20 zilizonse. Pambuyo pake, kumbuyo kwa izi ndi kutaya chidziwitso chenicheni, kulankhulana. Ndidawona masamba omwe ali ndi mamiliyoni olembetsa - omwe adawalenga ali ndi moyo woti agulitse, ndipo palibe nthawi ya zomwe zimatchedwa moyo. Ndidafikanso pazinthu monga ziwerengero, chibwenzi, pomwe zolemba zanu zimasanjidwa malinga ndi kuchuluka kwa anthu omwe mwakopeka nawo, m'modzi kapena miliyoni ...

Ndipo mwapeza chiyani? Ndi zithunzi ziti muzovala zosambira zomwe zimakopa kwambiri kuposa ena?

Chabwino, zimapita popanda kunena. Kapena kucheza ndi omvera. Koma ndi chinthu chimodzi kudzipezera nokha njirazi, ndi zinanso kuzigwiritsa ntchito. Ndipo chifukwa mwina sindisonkhanitsa olembetsa miliyoni. Ndikhoza kugawana, mwachitsanzo, chithunzi chochokera ku Brazil - ndili patchuthi, ndipo ndi chokongola kwambiri kumeneko kotero kuti chimakuchotsani mpweya wanu. Koma kudzijambula nokha pagalasi, makutu onse ooneka ngati mtima… (Akuseka.) Ayi, si anga. Ndipo Facebook (bungwe lochita zinthu monyanyira loletsedwa ku Russia) nalonso: kuganiza zambiri, anthu amakhala pampando ndikusankha tsogolo la dzikolo. Ngakhale pali zinthu zambiri m'moyo zomwe mungathe kuchita! Pachifukwa ichi, ndimakonda Instagram (bungwe lochita zinthu monyanyira loletsedwa ku Russia) kwambiri, chifukwa "O, ndiwe wokongola bwanji!" - ndi duwa.

Samangotumiza maluwa. Pali amuna amene amaulula chikondi chawo kwa inu ndikufunsa mwansanje kuti: “Mudzakwatiwa ndi ine liti? Ndipo pali ena omwe amatsutsa - mwachitsanzo, chifukwa mudatumiza amayi anu, wojambula wotchuka Ekaterina Gradova, ku pulogalamu ya Perfect Repair, ngakhale kuti mwina munakonza nokha nyumba yake.

Sindimayankha mauthenga ochokera kwa okonda nsanje, chifukwa ndakhala m'banja mosangalala kwa nthawi yaitali. Kalekale. Kungoti sindimalengeza: pali madera omwe amandikonda kwambiri ndipo sindikufuna kuti anthu akunja alowe. Ponena za “Kukonza Kwabwino Kwambiri” … Mukuwona, za pulogalamu iliyonse yotere amalemba kuti: “Sakanakwanitsa…” Iwo akanatha. Siziri za izo. Amayi ndi munthu wodzichepetsa kwambiri, kwa zaka zambiri sanawonekere m'manyuzipepala kapena pawindo. Ndinasangalala kuti anatengamo mbali m’programu. Ndipo adakondwera kuti gulu la Ideal Renovation likufuna kumuchitira zinazake. Koposa zonse, ankakonda mipando yokhala ndi zilembo zoyambira - izi ndizosowa m'banja lathu. Kukonza m'gawo lake la nyumba kunandithandiza, kumanga ndi bizinesi yodula kwambiri.

Chabwino ndiye. Kodi zokometsera zamakanema zamakanema sizimakukhudzani? Chitsanzo chaposachedwa ndi mndandanda wa mphete ya Garden yomwe muli nanu pamutu. Zambiri zalembedwa za iye - zabwino ndi zoipa. Kuti pali scoundrels onse, kuti izi sizingasonyezedwe pa chapakati chapakati ...

Ngakhale pamene ndinali kujambula, ndinazindikira kuti zingayambitse mkuntho wa maganizo. Chifukwa mu "Garden mphete" aliyense sali chabe bastards ndi scoundrels, koma anthu omwe psyche yawo yasokonezeka kuyambira ali mwana. Ndipo ngati kukanakhala kotheka kufufuza onse okhala m'dziko lathu ndi psychotherapists, ndiye kuti ambiri a iwo - ndi kuvulala ndi kupatuka, ndi zovuta ndi kulephera kukonda. Ndicho chifukwa chake mndandandawu ndi wokopa kwambiri. Oonerera anakhudzidwa mtima kwambiri.

Heroine wanu, katswiri wa zamaganizo, anakhala kwa nthawi yaitali mu magalasi amtundu wa rosa, ndi mwamuna wolemera. Koma mwana wake akasowa, amayenera kudutsa seweroli, kuyang'ana mwatsopano okondedwa ake, moyo womwe sanakhale nawo, koma adakhalapo, ndikuphunzira chowonadi choyipa chokhudza iye - kuti sakudziwa momwe angachitire. chikondi. Kodi zinali zovuta kuti muzisewera?

Inde. Sindinakhalepo ndi kutopa kotereku kuchokera pandandanda (tinawombera m'magulu akuluakulu, mwamsanga, kwa miyezi itatu), kuchokera ku mphamvu ya zilakolako. Ndipo kuchokera izi zomwe zinangochitika kwa ine. Mwachitsanzo, ndinatuluka pakhomo lagalasi lotsekedwa pamene tinali kujambula m’nyumba ya ngwazi yanga. Pansanja yachiwiri panali bafa ndi galasi chitseko, ndipo ine «analowa» izo, kumenya mphumi molimba. Ndipo zingakhale bwino kamodzi - katatu motsatizana!

Kenaka, panthawi yopuma, wotsogolera chithunzicho (Alexey Smirnov. - Mkonzi.) Tinakambirana za chinachake mwachidwi. Pamkanganowo, ndinathawa ndipo ndinaganiza zokhala pansi - ndinali wotsimikiza kuti panali mpando pakona. Ndipo kotero, kupitiriza kukambirana chinachake ndi Alexei, mwadzidzidzi - kudumpha! - Ndimagwa pansi. Munayenera kuwona mawonekedwe ake! Izi sizinachitikepo kwa ine. Ndipo sizikadachitika - koma ndi heroine wanga zikadatha kuchitika. Chabwino, pamene, malinga ndi script, adziwa za kutha kwa mwana wake wamwamuna, ndinadwala, ndinayenera kuyimbira ambulansi.

Mufilimuyi, anthu onse amapita ku mayesero, koma khalidwe lanu lokha limasintha. Chifukwa chiyani?

Ndi chinyengo chachikulu kuti mayesero ayenera kusintha munthu. Iwo akhoza kusintha kapena ayi. Kapena sipangakhale zochitika zovuta, monga heroine wanga, koma munthuyo akufunabe kukhala wosiyana, amamva kufunika kwake. Monga zinaliri, mwachitsanzo, ndi ine. Nthawi ina tinakambirana ndi bwenzi - iye ndi mkazi wopambana, iye ali ndi bizinesi yaikulu - ndipo iye anati: "Ndizosavuta kwa ine kuthetsa zopinga zonse panjira ndi kudutsa zopinga zonse kuposa kuvomereza kuti ine ndiri. kupita njira yolakwika. ” Izi nthawi zonse zakhala zovuta kwambiri kwa inenso. Ndidawona cholingacho, ndidapitako, koma nditapita theka, sindingathe kuvomereza kuti sichinali cholinga, sindikanatha kusiya zomwe zidachitikazo.

Nanga chinakuthandizani n’chiyani?

Chikhumbo changa cha filosofi, chomwe chinakula kukhala chilakolako cha psychology. Koma ngati filosofi ndi sayansi yakufa, imangokulitsa luntha, ndiye kuti psychology ndi yamoyo, ndizokhudza momwe timapangidwira komanso momwe tonsefe tingakhalire osangalala. Ndine wotsimikiza kuti iyenera kuphunzitsidwa kusukulu. Kotero kuti kale ali mwana munthu amadzipezera yekha malamulo omwe tonsefe timagwirizanitsa, kuti pambuyo pake asakumane ndi masewero a moyo, mikangano yosasunthika. Kuti asachite mantha kutembenukira kwa katswiri wa zamaganizo - pambuyo pake, m'dziko lathu, ambiri akukhulupirirabe kuti uwu ndi mtundu wina wa zofuna, zofuna za anthu olemera. Ngati mutapeza katswiri, mudzatha kuchotsa maganizo olakwika, mudzatha kusintha moyo wanu - chifukwa mudzayamba kuyang'ana zomwe zikuchitika mosiyana, mbaliyo idzasintha.

Ndi chiyani chinasintha maganizo anu pa dziko?

Nditapatsidwa "Buku No. 1 lonena za chisangalalo" ndi Kline Carol ndi Shimoff Marcy - iyi ndi mtundu wina wa mabuku a ana, McDonald's kwa owerenga, kumene chirichonse chiri chomveka komanso chotheka. Panali galasi pachikuto, ndipo ndinakonda chithunzichi kwambiri! Moyo wathu wonse uli ngati chithunzithunzi cha munthu amene amayang’ana pagalasi. Ndipo ndi momwe amawonekera kumeneko, moyo uno udzakhala wotero. Bukhuli ndi losavuta, monga chirichonse chanzeru, limapereka kufotokozera kwa lamulo lofunikira la moyo: inu nokha mungathe kusintha dziko lanu, tsogolo lanu. Palibe chifukwa chovutika, kuyesa kukopa mwana, mnzanu, makolo, ena. Mutha kusintha nokha.

Kodi mwagwirapo ntchito ndi psychotherapist?

Inde. Zinali zovuta kwambiri kuti tisiye zinthuzo. Ndipo ndinayesera kulamulira chirichonse ndi aliyense. Ntchito, mwana ... Ine kawirikawiri ndinali mochedwa chinachake, ine masamu onse nuances. Sindinkakonda kukwera ndi dalaivala, ndinakhala kumbuyo kwa gudumu ndekha - kotero chinyengo chinawoneka kuti chirichonse chinali pansi pa ulamuliro wanga. Koma nditalowa m'malo omwe palibe chomwe chidandidalira - mwachitsanzo, ndinakwera ndege - ndinayamba kuchita mantha. Aliyense amene anakwera nane ndege ankangoseka mpaka kalekale. Pasha Kaplevich (wojambula ndi wopanga. - Mkonzi.) adanenapo nthawi ina kuti: "Mukamauluka ndi Masha Mironova, zikuwoneka kuti iye, monga Atlas, pamapewa ake, akugwira ndege yonse. Akuganiza kuti akasiya kumugwira, akomoka.” (Akuseka.) Panthawi ina, ndinasiyiratu ulendo wa pandege. Koma pamapeto pake, mantha awa adandithandiza - popanda izo, sindikanamvetsetsa chifukwa chake ndipo sindikanayamba kuchotsa chizolowezi chowongolera ichi. Zomwe, mwa njira, zidadya nthawi yambiri ndi khama.

Ndipo anthu mamiliyoni ambiri sachita chilichonse chokhudza mantha awo. Khalani nawo, zowawa, zokumana nazo.

Kuyambira ndili mwana, ndakhala ndikudziŵa bwino za mawu akuti memento mori (“kumbukirani kuti ndinu munthu wofa”). Ndipo ndizodabwitsa kwa ine kuti anthu ambiri amakhala ngati akulemba, ngati kuti chilichonse chikhoza kulembedwanso nthawi iliyonse. Ndipo nthawi yomweyo iwo amangodandaula nthawi zonse, kuweruza, miseche. Anthu awa ali ndi chirichonse - moyo, mwayi, mikono, miyendo, koma iwo - mukumvetsa? - osakhutira! Inde, kusakhutira kwathu konseku ndi konyansa (ndikupemphani kuti musiye mawu awa) ndi kusayamika kwa anthu omwe akumana ndi zovuta zenizeni - nkhondo, njala, matenda! Mwa njira, Artist Foundation yathu idandithandiza kuzindikira izi.

Pamodzi ndi Yevgeny Mironov ndi Igor Vernik, mumathandizira ojambula olemekezeka, omenyera nkhondo, ambiri a iwo m'mikhalidwe yovuta. N’chiyani chimakulimbikitsani kuchita zimenezi?

Ngati mulibe mkati mwa dongosolo la "kuchoka m'nyumba - kulowa m'galimoto - kupita kuntchito - kunabwera kunyumba", koma kuyang'ana mozungulira pang'ono, ndiye kuti simungathe kuwona kuti ndi angati opemphapempha akuvutika. Ndipo simungachitire mwina koma kufuna kuwathandiza. Ndipo izi - chithandizo - zimapereka mtundu wina wa kumverera kosagwirizana ndi moyo. Mukumvetsa chifukwa chake muyenera kudzuka m'mawa ndikupita kwinakwake. Zili ngati ndi masewera olimbitsa thupi - ndizovuta, zonyinyirika, koma mumapita ndikuyamba kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi. Ndipo - oops! - mwadzidzidzi mumawona kuti msana wanu wadutsa kale, ndipo kuwala kwawonekera m'thupi lanu, ndipo maganizo anu akuyenda bwino. Mumapanga ndandanda, kuthamanga kwinakwake, kukaonana ndi wakale wakale kwa ola limodzi. Ndiyeno mumaona maso ake ndipo mumamvetsa kuti munthu ayenera kulankhula. Ndipo mumakhala naye kwa maola awiri, atatu - ndikuyiwala za dongosolo lanu lopusa. Ndipo mumachoka ndikumverera kuti tsikulo silinakhale pachabe.

Nthaŵi zonse zinkawoneka kwa ine kuti vuto la maziko alionse achifundo ndilo kudziŵa amene akufunikira thandizo kwambiri. Kodi muyezo ndi chiyani?

Thumba lathu linayamba ndi kabati yosungiramo nduna ya mkulu wa Nyumba ya Cinema, Margarita Alexandrovna Eskina, yemwe anali panjinga ya olumala kwa zaka zomaliza za moyo wake ndipo anapitirizabe kusonkhanitsa malamulo a asilikali ankhondo, anayesa kupeza kopecks osachepera atatu. ndipo adawathandiza, adawakonzera chakudya chamadzulo. Margarita Alexandrovna atamwalira, khadi limeneli linapita kwa ife. Lilibe chidziŵitso chouma chokhudza munthu — zonse zili mmenemo: kaya ndi mbeta kapena wachibale, zimene akudwala, ndi chithandizo chotani chimene chikufunika. Pang'ono ndi pang'ono, tinadutsa msewu wa Moscow Ring, ndikusamalira asilikali ankhondo m'matauni ang'onoang'ono 50 ... Ndikukumbukira kuti m'chaka chachiwiri cha ntchito, Jude Law anabwera ku malonda a zachifundo omwe adakonzedwa ndi Foundation yathu. Ndinayesa kufotokoza zonse kwa iye, koma sanamvetse - mukutolera ndalama kwa ndani? Zachiyani? Ku America, ngati mupanga filimu yosachepera imodzi, mudzalandira gawo la renti kwa moyo wanu wonse. Ndipo pali mabungwe ogwira ntchito omwe amathandiza. N’zosatheka kuganiza kuti, mwachitsanzo, Laurence Olivier anamwalira ali umphaŵi. M'dziko lathu, akatswiri ojambula bwino amachoka, osatha kugula ngakhale mankhwala.

Tsopano popeza mukukamba za akatswiri ojambula bwino, ndakhala ndikuganiza za amayi anu ndi abambo anu. Ndi uti mwa iwo amene inu muli ngati? Kodi ndinu Mironovskaya kapena Gradovskaya?

Mulungu ndi ine. (Ndikumwetulira.) M’banja lomwelo, ndimaona anthu osiyana kwambiri moti mumadabwa—kodi m’kupita kwanthawi uku kumachokera kuti? Ndipo uyu, ndi uyu? Mwachitsanzo, taganizirani mchimwene wanga wotengedwa - kunja sakuwoneka ngati aliyense wa ife, ndipo izi ndizomveka, koma mwachibadwa ndi athu, ngati kuti anakulira ndi ine kuyambira ukhanda! Ndimawoneka ngati ndani ... sindingathe kunena kuti mwana wanga amawoneka wotani, pali zinthu zambiri zosakanikirana mwa iye! (Akuseka.) Posachedwapa, tinalankhula naye, ndipo anavomereza kuti amakonda kulota. Ndipo ine ndikhoza kungolota kwa miniti ndi theka, ndiyeno ine ndimapita ndi kukachita chinachake. Sindimakonda maloto kapena zokumbukira, zonse ndimasewera otopetsa kwa ine. Moyo ndi womwe uli pano komanso pano. Ndipo pamene mufika pamfundo yosakumbukira ndi kusataya ziyembekezo za m’tsogolo, mumakhaladi osangalala.

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