Kutanthauzira chikhulupiriro choyipa, masukulu awiri amasemphana:

• Mosiyana ndi chikhulupiriro chabwino (kukhala wotsimikiza za kuwona kwa zomwe munthu akunena), chikhulupiriro cholakwika chingakhale machitidwe kudziwa kuti wina akunena zolakwika, mu Luso lokhala wolondola nthawi zonse, Schopenhauer akufotokoza za 38 tricks kuti apambane kusonyeza "kuti wina ali wolondola pamene akudziwa kuti wina akulakwitsa".
• Kwa wolemba Jean-Paul Sartre, chikhulupiriro choyipa sichimazindikira. ” Sitinama zomwe sitidziwa, sitinama tikafalitsa cholakwika kuti ife tokha tapusitsidwa, sitinama tikalakwitsa. “. Mwanjira ina, chikhulupiriro choyipa chingakhale kusowa kwanzeru ...

Matanthauzo onsewa ali ndi zolakwika. Chikhulupiriro choipa nthawi zina si bodza: ​​zimachitika choncho zonse zomwe zikunenedwa kuti ndi zoona, chofunika ndi kukhala kusiyana pakati pa zomwe zanenedwa ndi zomwe zimaganiziridwa, kuti kunyenga wina. Ndipo kaŵirikaŵiri cholinga cha munthu wachikhulupiriro choipa chimabisika. Mu Anthu awa omwe nthawi zonse amakhala olondola: Kapena momwe angaletsere misampha ya chikhulupiriro choyipa, Hervé Magnin amalankhula za " chinthu chaubale chomwe chimaphatikizapo kunamiza ena mwadala za zolinga zawo kuti aziwazindikira bwino. “. Ananenanso kuti, mwa chikhulupiriro cholakwika, " pali chonamizira chodziwika bwino ndi cholinga chamatsenga ".

Chikhulupiriro choipa nthawi zambiri chimatenga mawonekedwe a chikhalidwe cha anthu, chodziwika ndi ulemu wokhazikika kapena wokokomeza.

Kuseri kwa chikhulupiriro choyipa pali nthawi zonse a chidziwitso cholimbikitsa.

Munthu amene amachita zinthu mwachikhulupiriro choipa amachita chilichonse kuti asapitirire kwa munthu wachikhulupiriro choipa. Motero amadera nkhaŵa mopambanitsa ndi chifaniziro chake, ngakhale atakwaniritsa cholinga chake.

Zimatengera cholinga choyambirira ndi ntchito osakhulupirika.

Ndizodziwika bwino kuti malo ochezera zibwenzi ndi malo okayikitsa. Aliyense atha kuyika zomwe akufuna (popanda kuganiziridwa kuti akunama), cholinga chake ndikulankhula zambiri za iwo eni, kuwulula zomwe amafotokoza kudzera pamenyu. Tsoka ilo, palibe amene ali ndi njira yachindunji yotsimikizira zomwe zikunenedwa pamenepo. Chifukwa chake, ogwiritsa ntchito onse akukayikira kuti ali ndi chikhulupiriro choyipa. 

Pa funso " Kodi kukhulupirira zoipa za ena kumabweretsa nkhawa kwa inu? »

40% amanena kuti chikhulupiliro choipa cha ena chimayambitsa "kupsyinjika" kwambiri, kwa 10% ya omwe anafunsidwa, amawadetsa nkhawa "zambiri".

30% amati chikhulupiriro choyipa chimawakwiyitsa, 25% chimawakwiyitsa ndipo 20% ya omwe adayankha, chimawapangitsa kukhala achiwawa.

Poganizira ziwerengerozi, zikuoneka kuti kukhulupirirana ndi vuto lomwe limayambitsa mikangano yambiri. Komabe chikhulupiriro choipa chiri nthawi zonse za ena : 70% ya omwe adafunsidwa akuti samachita kapena samachita zinthu molakwika. 

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