Psychology

Pambuyo pa kubadwa kwa mwana wanga woyamba, loya anabwera kudzandithokoza kuti: “Munathandiza mkazi wanga kwambiri. Ndife okondwa kuti tili ndi mwana wamwamuna. Koma chinachake chikundidetsa nkhawa. Pamene agogo anga aamuna anali msinkhu wanga, anadwala matenda a msana ndipo anadwala kwambiri ndipo anawavutitsa kwambiri. Pamsinkhu womwewo, mchimwene wake anadwala matenda ofanana. Zomwezo zinachitikanso kwa bambo anga, amamva kuwawa kwa msana kosalekeza, ndipo izi zimasokoneza ntchito yawo. Matenda omwewo anaonekeranso mwa mchimwene wanga wamkulu, pamene anali wokalamba monga ine tsopano. Ndipo tsopano ndayamba kumva zowawa zimenezo.”

“Zonse zamveka,” ndinayankha. “Ndizisamalira. Pita mu masomphenya. " Pamene analoŵa m’maganizo, ndinati: “Palibe mawu anga amene angathandize ngati matenda anuwo anachokera ku organic kapena pali kusintha kwa msana. Koma ngati ichi ndi chitsanzo chamaganizo, cha psychosomatic chomwe munalandira kuchokera kwa agogo anu, amalume, abambo ndi mchimwene wanu, ndiye kuti muyenera kudziwa kuti ululu woterewu siwofunika kwenikweni kwa inu. Ndi machitidwe a psychosomatic."

Loya uja anabwera kwa ine patapita zaka zisanu ndi zinayi. “Mukukumbukira mmene munandichitira ndi ululu wamsana? Kuyambira pamenepo, ndinayiwala za izo, koma masabata angapo apitawo panali mtundu wina wosasangalatsa zomverera mu msana, osati wamphamvu kwambiri komabe. Koma ndinada nkhaŵa, pokumbukira agogo anga aamuna ndi aasuweni, atate ndi mchimwene wanga.”

Ndinayankha kuti, “Zaka zisanu ndi zinayi ndi nthawi yaitali. Muyenera kukayezetsa X-ray ndi chipatala. Sindichita izi, ndiye ndikutumizani kwa mnzanga yemwe ndimamudziwa, ndipo adzandipatsa zotsatira za mayeso ndi malingaliro ake. ”

Mnzanga Frank anauza loya kuti, “Iwe umachita zamalamulo, umakhala pa desiki yako tsiku lonse ndipo susuntha kwambiri. Ndikupangira zolimbitsa thupi zingapo zomwe muyenera kuchita tsiku lililonse ngati mukufuna kuti msana wanu ukhale wopanda ululu komanso kuti mukhale ndi thanzi labwino. ”

Loyayo adandipatsa mawu a Frank, ndidamuyika m'maganizo ndikunena kuti: "Tsopano uchita masewera olimbitsa thupi ndikusinthana bwino ntchito ndikupumula."

Iye anandiimbira foni patapita chaka n’kunena kuti: “Mukudziwa, ndimadzimva kuti ndine wamng’ono komanso wathanzi kuposa chaka chapitacho. Ndikuwoneka kuti ndataya zaka zingapo, ndipo msana wanga supweteka chifukwa cha masewerawa. ”

Siyani Mumakonda