Psychology

Tsiku lina banja lina linandiyandikira: iye anali dokotala ndipo mkazi wake anali namwino. Iwo ankada nkhawa kwambiri ndi mwana wawo wamwamuna wa zaka XNUMX, yemwe ankakonda kuyamwa chala chachikulu.

Akasiya chala chake, anayamba kuluma zikhadabo zake. Makolo ake anam’langa, kum’kwapula, kum’kwapula, kum’siya wopanda chakudya, sanamulole kudzuka pampando pamene mlongo wake akusewera. Kenako anaopseza kuti aitana dokotala wochiritsa anthu amisala.

Nditafika pa call, Jackie anandilandira ndi maso akuthwanima komanso kundigwadira. Ndinamuuza kuti: “Jackie, bambo ndi mayi ako akukupempha kuti uchiritse kuti usayamwe chala chachikulu komanso kuluma zikhadabo. Bambo ndi amayi anu akufuna kuti ndikhale dokotala wanu. Tsopano ndikuwona kuti simukufuna izi, koma mverani zomwe ndikuwuza makolo anu. Mvetserani mosamala.

Ndinatembenukira kwa dokotalayo ndi mkazi wake namwino, ndinati, “Makolo ena samamvetsetsa zimene ana amafunikira. Mwana wazaka zisanu ndi chimodzi aliyense ayenera kuyamwa chala chake chachikulu ndikuluma misomali yake. Chifukwa chake, Jackie, yamwa chala chachikulu ndikuluma misomali yako mokhutitsidwa ndi mtima wako. Ndipo makolo anu sayenera kukuchitirani nkhanza. Bambo anu ndi dokotala ndipo amadziwa kuti madokotala sasokoneza chithandizo cha odwala a anthu ena. Tsopano ndinu wodwala wanga, ndipo sangandiletse kukuchitirani mwa njira yanga. Namwino sayenera kukangana ndi dokotala. Nde osadandaula Jackie. Yamwani chala chanu ndikuluma misomali ngati ana onse. Inde, mukakhala mnyamata wamkulu, pafupifupi zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri, ndiye kuti kuyamwa chala chachikulu ndi kuluma zikhadabo kudzakhala kochititsa manyazi kwa inu, osati msinkhu umenewo.

Ndipo m'miyezi iwiri, Jackie amayenera kukhala ndi tsiku lobadwa. Kwa mwana wazaka zisanu ndi chimodzi, miyezi iwiri ndi yamuyaya. Kodi tsiku lobadwa lidzakhala liti, choncho Jackie adagwirizana nane. Komabe, mwana aliyense wazaka zisanu ndi chimodzi amafuna kukhala wamkulu wamkulu wazaka zisanu ndi ziwiri. Ndipo patatsala milungu iwiri kuti tsiku lake lobadwa lifike, Jackie anasiya kuyamwa chala chachikulu komanso kuluma misomali. Ndinangowakopa m’maganizo mwake, koma pamlingo wa kamwana.

Siyani Mumakonda