Paternity leave: amayi akuchitira umboni

” Tsoka ilo, bambo sanathe kuchoka abambo pazifukwa zaukadaulo. Kampani yake ikadachotsa mabonasi ake akadachoka. Ndalamazo zinali zofunika kwambiri, choncho tinaganiza zodikira kwa miyezi ingapo. Koma poyamba zinali zovuta kukhala ndekha ndi mwanayo. ”

Elodie, Facebook Parents.fr

“Tinali ndi mwayi wokhala ndi mwana wagolide. Ankagona nthawi zonse, ankangopempha chakudya chimodzi kapena ziwiri usiku uliwonse, ndipo pa mwezi umodzi wokha, anali kugona usiku wonse. Mwadzidzidzi, mwamuna wanga anadikirira miyezi 4 kuti atenge tchuthi chake cha abambo chomwe chidagwa mu Meyi. Tinatha kusangalala ndi masiku okongola komanso mwana. Mwamuna wanga adawerengera kusuntha kwake bwino, ndi milatho ya mwezi wa Meyi, adatha kupindula ndi masiku 19 kuphatikiza masiku ake 11 a tchuthi cha abambo. ”

Céline, Facebook Makolo.fr

“Mnzanga anatenga milungu 6 kwa ana athu awiri. Kuyambira pamene anabadwa, iye ankasamalira mwanayo, anamusintha matewera, anadzuka usiku n’kumupatsa botololo. Anasangalala kwambiri ndi kugona ndi mwana wathu woyamba! Kwachiwiri, anachitanso chimodzimodzi. Ndi chisangalalo chotani nanga! ”

Lyly, Facebook Parents.fr

Muvidiyo: Kodi mnzanga ayenera kutenga tchuthi cha abambo?

“Kumbali yanga, atatewo anatenga tchuthi chawo chautate pamene ndinachoka m’chipinda cha amayi oyembekezera, ndipo ndimakumbukira bwino! Kwa nthawi yoyamba, tinalipo atatu kunyumba, monga chikwa chathu ... Mwamuna wanga anali wabwino chifukwa, potuluka m'mimba yovuta, ndinali mumkhalidwe wotopa kwambiri. Tinatha kupita ku msonkhano woyamba ndi dokotala wa ana pamodzi, tinadzikonzera tokha usiku, ulendo woyamba ndi mwana, ndi zina zotero. Tonse tili ndi zikumbukiro zabwino kwambiri! »

Lilokoze, Forum Parents.fr

"Kwa mwana wanga wamkazi wachiwiri, abambo adangotenga tchuthi cha abambo. Zinali zazifupi kwambiri, chifukwa sizinali zophweka kuyang'anira wamng'ono wokhala ndi nkhawa zambiri za thanzi komanso chiyambi chovuta cha kuyamwitsa. Pamapeto pake, adatenga masiku 15 m'miyezi iwiri ya kamtsikana, zomwe zidatichitira zabwino tonse. Ine ndikuganiza izo masiku khumi ndi asanu a tchuthi cha abambo sikokwanira. »

Alizeadoree, Forum Parents.fr

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Siyani Mumakonda