Mchitidwe umenewu umatsimikiziridwa ndi akatswiri ofufuza za kugonana, ndipo kalekale pamaso pawo mwambi wonena za "mabulosi a mkazi" unawonekeranso. Kodi ndizowona kuti mkazi wamkulu akukhala, momwe zimakhalira zowoneka bwino zogonana?
Kwa zaka zambiri, pamene nkhawa za amayi zimabwerera m'mbuyo, ndipo nkhawa za achinyamata ndi zovuta zimasinthidwa ndi chidziwitso ndi chidaliro, amayi amamasuka, omasuka komanso ... inde, okongola.
Kuphulika kumeneku kumabwera chifukwa cha kuwonjezereka kwakukulu kwa kupanga mahomoni ogonana achikazi asanayambe kusamba. Koma mchitidwewu umapitilira nthawi iyi: kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti azimayi azaka zapakati pa 30 ndi 40 amagonana kwambiri kuposa momwe amachitira zaka za m'ma 20. XNUMXs amapezanso chisangalalo chambiri ndipo amakhala ndi mwayi wokhala ndi ma orgasms angapo.
“Kukhwima kumapereka mipata yabwino kwambiri yosangalatsa ya kugonana. Koma sindikanatha kulumikiza chisangalalo mwachindunji ndi kuthekera kokhala ndi orgasm, - ndemanga sexologist Yuri Prokopenko. - Ndizothekanso kukhala ndi kugonana pafupipafupi ndikukhala ndi chilakolako champhamvu, koma osamva chifukwa cha chisangalalo. Chisangalalo ndi kutengeka kosangalatsa komwe timakhala nako ndi momwe thupi lathu limakhudzira.
Kumene, mphamvu ya chilakolako kugonana, excitability, tilinazo caress ndi osiyana aliyense. Koma mawonekedwe a thupi samasokoneza luso lathu losangalala monga momwe timakhalira pogonana komanso momwe timamvera.
Luso ndi chidziwitso chaumwini zimakuladi m'zaka zapitazi, koma nthawi siwongolera maganizo ozama.
Kaya tili ndi zaka zingati, chisangalalo chingalephereke chifukwa chodziletsa komanso kudziganizira molakwika. Zidzazimitsidwa nthawi zonse ndi kudziimba mlandu, nkhawa, kukayikira, manyazi. Poyesera kukwaniritsa zoyembekeza za anthu («ndi nthawi yokhala ndi wokonda wamng'ono!»), Mkazi akhoza kusonyeza moyo wogonana wokangalika, koma kwenikweni sangakhutire ndi chiyanjano.
"Kwa akazi, omangidwa ndi tsankho ndi mantha, kusagwirizana pakati pa malingaliro ndi malingaliro, malingaliro ndi kugonana kawirikawiri kumawonjezeka ndi zaka," akutsindika Yuri Prokopenko. - Ndipo mosemphanitsa, mwa amayi omwe ali omasuka ku chisangalalo, chiyembekezo, monga lamulo, mlingo ndi kuchuluka kwa chisangalalo kumawonjezeka ndi zaka. Iwo amazoloŵera kusintha mosavuta—makhalidwe, maganizo, ndi thupi.”
Inde, zochitika zambiri panjira ya moyo - imfa ya okondedwa, matenda, kusintha kwa msinkhu pakhungu ndi thupi - kuchepetsa ufulu wopeza chisangalalo chogonana. Koma pambuyo pa zonse, achinyamata amakhalanso ndi zinthu zambiri zowalepheretsa: nkhawa zokhudzana ndi maubwenzi, kudalira ndalama, kusatsimikizika zamtsogolo ...
Pamapeto pake, chisangalalo chimafika pachimake tikamalumikizana ndi ife tokha komanso matupi athu, tili ndi chidaliro pakufunika kwathu, komanso kukhala ndi chidwi ndi maubwenzi pakadali pano.