M’moyo wathu wonse, kaŵirikaŵiri timakhala ozunzidwa ndi malingaliro amalingaliro okhudzana ndi zaka. Nthawi zina aang'ono kwambiri, nthawi zina okhwima… Koposa zonse, tsankho lotere limakhudza thanzi la okalamba. Chifukwa cha ukalamba, zimakhala zovuta kuti adzizindikire okha, ndipo ziweruzo za anthu ena zimachepetsa kuyankhulana. Koma pambuyo pa zonse, tonsefe posachedwapa timakalamba ...
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“Ndataya katundu wanga. Yakwana nthawi yopangira opaleshoni ya pulasitiki, "mnzanga adandiuza ndikumwetulira kwachisoni. Vlada ndi 50, ndipo iye, m'mawu ake, "ntchito ndi nkhope yake." M'malo mwake, amapanga maphunziro kwa ogwira ntchito m'makampani akuluakulu. Ali ndi maphunziro awiri apamwamba, mawonekedwe otambalala, zokumana nazo zambiri komanso mphatso yogwira ntchito ndi anthu. Koma alinso ndi makwinya otsanzira kumaso ndi imvi mu tsitsi lake lometedwa bwino.
Atsogoleri amakhulupirira kuti iye, monga mphunzitsi, ayenera kukhala wamng'ono komanso wokongola, apo ayi omvera "sadzamuganizira." Vlada amakonda ntchito yake ndipo akuwopa kuti adzasiyidwa opanda ndalama, choncho ali wokonzeka, motsutsana ndi zofuna zake, kupita pansi pa mpeni, kuti asataye "chiwonetsero" chake.
Ichi ndi chitsanzo cha ukalamba - tsankho potengera zaka. Kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti ndizofala kwambiri kuposa kusankhana mitundu komanso kusankhana mitundu. Ngati mukuyang'ana mwayi wotsegulira ntchito, mudzawona kuti, monga lamulo, makampani akuyang'ana antchito osapitirira zaka 45.
"Kuganiza mozama kumathandiza kupeputsa chithunzi cha dziko. Koma nthawi zambiri tsankho limasokoneza malingaliro oyenera a anthu ena. Mwachitsanzo, mabwana ambiri amasonyeza zaka zoletsedwa pa ntchito chifukwa cha kusaphunzira bwino pambuyo pa zaka 45, "anathirira ndemanga katswiri wa gerontology ndi geriatrics, Pulofesa Andrey Ilnitsky.
Chifukwa cha chikoka cha ukalamba, madokotala ena sapereka odwala okalamba kuti alandire chithandizo, kugwirizanitsa matendawa ndi zaka. Ndipo matenda monga dementia amaganiziridwa molakwika kuti ndi zotsatira za ukalamba wabwinobwino, katswiriyo akutero.
Posatulukira?
“Chithunzi cha unyamata wamuyaya chimakulitsidwa pakati pa anthu. Makhalidwe a kukhwima, monga imvi ndi makwinya, nthawi zambiri zimabisika. Tsankho lathu limakhudzidwanso ndi malingaliro olakwika okhudza zaka zopuma pantchito. Malingana ndi kafukufuku, anthu a ku Russia amagwirizanitsa ukalamba ndi umphawi, matenda ndi kusungulumwa.
Kotero ife tiri kumapeto. Kumbali ina, anthu okalamba sakhala ndi moyo wokwanira chifukwa cha malingaliro a tsankho kwa iwo. Komano, maganizo stereotypical anthu anthu amalimbikitsidwa chifukwa chakuti anthu ambiri amasiya kukhala ndi moyo yogwira chikhalidwe ndi zaka, "anatero Andrey Ilnitsky.
Chifukwa chabwino chomenyera ukalamba
Moyo ndi wopanda malire. Elixir ya unyamata wamuyaya sichinapangidwebe. Ndipo onse omwe lero amawotcha antchito 50+, amawatcha opuma pantchito kuti "ndalama", amawamvetsera mwaulemu, kapena amalankhulana ngati ana opanda nzeru ("Chabwino, boomer!"), Patapita kanthawi, iwonso adzalowa m'badwo uno.
Kodi adzafuna kuti anthu "ayiwale" za zomwe adakumana nazo, luso lawo ndi makhalidwe auzimu, kuona imvi ndi makwinya? Kodi angakonde ngati iwo eniwo ayamba kukhala opereŵera, osaphatikizidwa m’mayanjano, kapena kuwonedwa ngati ofooka ndi osakhoza?
“Kulera ana okalamba kumachepetsa kudzidalira. Izi zimawonjezera chiopsezo cha kukhumudwa komanso kudzipatula. Zotsatira zake, opuma pantchito amagwirizana ndi zomwe anthu amaziwona ndipo amadziona monga momwe anthu amawaonera. Anthu okalamba amene amaona kuti kukalamba kwawo moipa amachira msanga chifukwa cha kulumala ndipo, pafupifupi, amakhala ndi moyo zaka zisanu ndi ziŵiri zocheperapo kusiyana ndi anthu amene amaona kuti zaka zawo n’zabwino,” akutero Andrey Ilnitsky.
Mwina ageism ndi mtundu wokha wa tsankho limene «wozunza» ndi wotsimikiza kukhala «wozunzidwa» (ngati amakhala ku ukalamba). Izi zikutanthauza kuti omwe tsopano ali ndi zaka 20 ndi 30 ayenera kukhala okhudzidwa kwambiri polimbana ndi ukalamba. Ndiyeno, mwina, pafupi ndi 50, sadzakhalanso ndi nkhawa ndi "chiwonetsero".
Kuthana ndi tsankho lozikika mozama nokha ndizovuta kwambiri, katswiriyo akukhulupirira. Kuti tithane ndi vuto la ukalamba, tiyenera kuganiziranso za ukalamba. M'mayiko omwe akupita patsogolo, gulu lotsutsana ndi zaka likulimbikitsidwa, kutsimikizira kuti ukalamba si nthawi yowopsya m'moyo.
Malinga ndi zoneneratu za UN, m’zaka makumi atatu pa dziko lapansi padzakhala anthu ochuluka kuŵirikiza kaŵiri kuŵirikiza zaka zoposa 60 kuposa mmene alili tsopano. Ndipo awa adzakhala okhawo omwe lero ali ndi mwayi wosintha malingaliro a anthu - ndikuwongolera tsogolo lawo.