Psychology
Mufilimuyi "Peaceful Wankhondo"

“Ulendo, osati kopita, ndi umene umatisangalatsa!” - slogan ya ozindikira purosesa.

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Mufilimuyi "The Young Dona-wamphawi"

Mtsikana akakhala wokonda kwambiri, nthawi zina zimakwiyitsa kwambiri. Mwakutero, mukafuna chotsatira, chotsatira.

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Process worker ndi munthu amene amatsogoleredwa ndi ndondomekoyi. Ogwira ntchito yokonza ndi anthu osiyana kwambiri, ena omwe mungawasiire, nthawi zambiri mumafuna kuwamvera chisoni. Mitundu yayikulu:

Wogwira ntchito mopanda nzeru amakhala molingana ndi mfundo yakuti "Chifukwa", osati "Chifukwa chiyani", amangolowetsamo ndikuyiwala nthawi yomweyo za cholingacho. Sadziwa kusunga cholinga, ngakhale atadziikira yekha - amangosokonezedwa. Munthu ndi chamoyo, munthu ndi mwana.

Mubizinesi, wogwira ntchito mosaganizira amagwira ntchito ngati wosewera: ali wokonzeka kukumba kuchokera pano mpaka nthawi ya nkhomaliro. Mukukumba kuti, chifukwa chiyani mukukumba? “Sindikudziwa. Adati - ndiye ndikukumba ... "Kwa iye, chilichonse ndi chosavuta: momwe zimakhalira, zimatero.

Mosiyana ndi munthu wochita zinthu mopanda nzeru, munthu wozolowera kuchita zinthu mopitirira muyeso amadziwa kuganiza, nthawi zina amatembenuza mutu wake, koma mutu wake umakhala wogonjera kwathunthu ku malingaliro ake. Akhoza kukhala wosaganizira, akhoza kukhala ozindikira, chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti sakonda kudzikakamiza, akuyang'ana chilakolako kapena chitonthozo pa zomwe zikuchitika ndikutsatira ndondomeko yomwe imamutengera. Ndikofunikira kwa iye kuti ndondomekoyi ikhale yosangalatsa komanso yosangalatsa osati kupsinjika, osati kutsutsana ndi zilakolako za thupi. Zochita zake ndi zochita zake zimayendetsedwa ndi chikhalidwe chake, kapena m'malo mwake njira yosinthira malingaliro ake ndi thupi.

Choncho wachinyamata safuna kukhala pa maphunziro ("Wotopetsa!") Ndipo mokondwera amathamangira pabwalo ("Tiyeni tiyendetse!"), Ngakhale kuti ayenera kukonzekera mayeso. Zaka makumi atatu pambuyo pake, adakhala pampando, ngakhale kuti akufunika kusamuka ndikupita kukakhala olimba ("O, ndalemedwa!")

Kuganizira za phindu, za zotsatira za nthawi yaitali za zochita zake - ayi, izi siziri pafupi. Kulankhula za kufunika kokhazikitsa cholinga ndi kumamatira ku dongosolo kumamupangitsa kuti azitsutsa. Kuyang'ana moyo wake wosalongosoka, amamvetsetsa kuti amafunikira kasamalidwe ka nthawi, koma mkati mwake amakana. Angathe kuchita ntchito yoti agwire ntchitoyo kenako n’kuigwira kwa mlungu umodzi, osachita kalikonse (“palibe cholimbikitsa”).

Wotopa ndi moyo wosasinthika, wogwira ntchito movutikira nthawi zambiri amasandulika kukhala waulesi - mtundu wa umunthu pamene ndondomekoyo ilibe chidwi ("Sindikufuna kalikonse!"), Njirayi simakondweretsa ("Boring!"), Ndipo zotsatira zake zimakhala zopanda chidwi kwambiri ("Ah pa mkuyu?»).

Moyo wa wogwira ntchito, yemwe, chifukwa cha zochitika za moyo, amakakamizika kukhala wogwira ntchito, ndi wotsutsana. Kuti mosasamala kukwera galimoto yapamwamba, choyamba muyenera kupeza ndalama kwa izo. Kuti mukhale ndi nthawi yabwino ku disco, muyenera kudzikonzekera nokha ndipo, mwinamwake, mtsikanayo ayenera kupita kwa wometa tsitsi. Ndipo zonsezi ndi bizinesi, nthawi zina bizinesi yambiri, ndipo munthu yemwe amangokonda zosangalatsa mu moyo wake amaphunzira kukhala opindulitsa ndipo, nthawi zina, pang'onopang'ono azolowere njira iyi ya moyo.

Aluso kwambiri komanso anzeru mwa ochita ziwonetsero amakwera mpaka kufika pagulu lozindikira. Uyu ndi munthu yemwe amakhala ndi moyo wosangalatsa kwa iye, osadzivutitsa yekha ndi zolinga zakunja. Akhoza kusokonezedwa panjira, koma osasokonezedwa ndi chinthu chachikulu kwa iye - kuchokera ku chisangalalo cha moyo. Zikuwoneka kuti munthu woteroyo sangatchulidwe kuti ndi wogwira ntchito mu mawonekedwe ake oyera, uwu ndi mtundu wa kaphatikizidwe wa wogwira ntchito ndi zotsatira zake: ngati chifukwa chakuti chikhalidwe cha chimwemwe chosasamala ndi ntchito yofunika kwambiri. nthawi ndi khama zimaperekedwa. Kuyenda, kusinkhasinkha, njira yapadera ya moyo - zonsezi ndi zinthu zovuta, zoperekedwa ku ntchito yaikulu ya moyo: chisangalalo chosasamala.

Iwo omwe sanadziwebe njira iyi ya moyo, koma akuyang'ana chikhalidwe ichi, amakhala ofunafuna chisangalalo. Kwa ofunafuna chisangalalo, zilibe kanthu kuti achite chiyani komanso chifukwa chiyani, chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti njira ya moyo imawapatsa chisangalalo, chidzalo, mphamvu ndi tanthauzo. Onerani kanema wa kanema "Wankhondo Wamtendere".

Chilimbikitso cha ogwira ntchito

Cholinga cha ndondomeko yokha si (yokwanira) yolimbikitsa. Kuyankhula za cholinga ndi zotsatira kungathe kulimbikitsa mapurosesa ngati awaika mu tcheru, ndipo akhoza kuwaopseza ndi kuwachedwetsa ngati awaika mu chikhalidwe chosiyana. Polimbikitsa ogwira ntchito, ndizomveka kulankhula nawo chinenero chimodzi. Mawu oti "zotsatira" kwa wogwira ntchito sikuli mawu kwa iye, osati pafupi, ali pafupi ndi mafotokozedwe a mayiko omwe amamukonda: mwachitsanzo, "Mkhalidwe wachangu", kapena "Kupanga chirichonse kukhala chamoyo ndi chosangalatsa" , kapena "Kuti kupsinjika kuchoke ndikukhala kosavuta".

Ndikofunika kuonetsetsa kuti ndondomekoyi ndi yosangalatsa kapena kuswa ndondomekoyi m'zigawo zing'onozing'ono, kumene cholinga chilichonse chotsatira chiri pafupi kwambiri. Izi ndizofunikira kwa aliyense, koma makamaka kwa purosesa.

Kodi mungasinthire bwanji nokha kuchoka pantchito kukhala wotsatira? Sizikuwonekeratu kuti mwadzipangira nokha ntchito yotere. Koma ngati mwadzidzidzi munazindikira kuti mwatopa ndikukhala wogwira ntchito basi ndipo mwaganiza zophunzira kukhala wotsatira, ndiye kuti mukhoza kuyamba ndi zotsatirazi.

Siyani Mumakonda