Larisa Surkova, katswiri wochita masewera olimbitsa thupi, wofuna maphunziro amisala, mayi wa ana anayi komanso blogger wotchuka, adabweretsa vuto lomwe limakakamira aliyense.
Ganizirani mobwerezabwereza masiku anu kusukulu. Ndi chiyani chomwe chinali chinthu chosasangalatsa kwambiri? Chabwino, kupatula wamankhwala woyipa, kuyeretsa mkalasi, ndi kuyesa kwadzidzidzi? Mwina sitidzalakwitsa ngati titaganiza kuti awa anali maulendo opita kuchimbudzi. Pa nthawi yopuma, pamzere, pa phunzirolo, osati nthawi zonse aphunzitsi akalekerera, ndipo ngakhale mchimbudzi momwemo - vuto ndimavuto… Oda, omvetsa chisoni, opanda misasa - pafupifupi mabowo pansi, zitseko zotseguka, komanso opanda chimbudzi pepala, kumene. Ndipo kuyambira pamenepo, zinthu sizinasinthe kwambiri.
“Kodi mukudziwa komwe mungayambire maphunziro? Kuchokera kuchimbudzi kusukulu! ”- Larisa Surkova, katswiri wodziwika bwino wamaganizo, ananena motengeka mtima.
Malinga ndi katswiriyu, sipangakhale zokambirana zamaphunziro aliwonse abwino ndi chitukuko cha ana mpaka masukulu atakhala ndi zimbudzi zabwinobwino - ndi misasa, mapepala achimbudzi ndi zitini za zinyalala. Ndipo palibe mabuku azamagetsi ndi ma diaries, palibe ukadaulo womwe ungathetse vutoli. Akatswiri azamisala amathandizabe anthu ovulala kuchokera kuchimbudzi kusukulu.
“Mkazi wamkulu, wazaka pafupifupi 40. Takhala tikugwira ntchito kwa miyezi inayi. Mbiri ya moyo wopambana waumwini; Kulephera kupirira mimba komanso kudzipha angapo paunyamata (sindinakumbukire zifukwa, kukumbukira ndi chithandizo m'chipinda chamisala zonse zidatsekedwa), - Larisa Surkova amapereka chitsanzo. - Kodi mankhwalawa adatitsogolera? Kalasi lachisanu ndi chimodzi, chimbudzi cha sukulu, palibe nyumba yokhayokha komanso palibe zitini zonyansa. Ndipo msungwanayo adayamba kusamba. Anapempha abwenzi ake kuti ayang'ane, koma masiku ovutawo anali asanayambe ndipo sanadziwe kuti chinali chiyani. Iwo adaziwona ndipo adaziphwanya kwa aliyense. "
Ndipo musaganize kuti kulibe zovuta ngati izi tsopano. Mwa odwala zama psychologist, pali mwana wasukulu yemwe ali ndi vuto lakudzimbidwa - zonse chifukwa chimbudzi chonyansa osatha kutseka. Milandu yotere, malinga ndi Surkova, siyokha. Ndipo vutoli ndi lozama kuposa momwe likuwonekera. Pafupifupi zaka zitatu zapitazo, kafukufuku adachitika mdziko muno, malinga ndi momwe pafupifupi 85% ya ana asukulu adavomereza kuti samapita kuchimbudzi kusukulu konse. Ndipo pachifukwa ichi, amayesetsa kuti asadye chakudya cham'mawa, osamwa, komanso osapita kuchipinda chodyera. Koma amabwerera kunyumba - ndipo amabwera kukhitchini kwathunthu.
Pachitetezo cha ana, malire awo aphwanyidwa mwankhanza
“Mukuganiza kuti akuchira? Ndipo ngati tsiku lina sangazengereze ndipo osanena kunyumba? Zichitika ndi chiyani? Ulemerero uti? "- Larisa Surkova akufunsa funso. Katswiri wa zamaganizo amalangiza, posankha sukulu ya mwana, onetsetsani kuti mukuyang'ana kuchimbudzi. Ndipo ngati zili zoyipa, fufuzani sukulu ina. Kapenanso amasamutsira mwanayo kusukulu yakunyumba. Kupanda kutero, pali mwayi waukulu wokweza munthu yemwe ali ndi m'matumbo omwe ali ndi matenda amisala.
Pankhaniyi, oyang'anira masukulu amati zonse zimachitidwa kuti ana atetezeke: kuti asamachite zoipa, osasuta, kuti athe kutulutsa mwanayo pamalopo, ngati angatero. Komabe, wamaganizidwe otsimikiza: njira zotere zosuta sizinapulumutse aliyense panobe. Koma chiwonetsero cha kusalemekeza kwambiri umunthu wa mwanayo ndichodziwikiratu.
Mwa njira, owerenga blog ya Surkova adagwirizana naye mogwirizana. “Ndidawerenga izi ndikumvetsetsa chifukwa chomwe ndimayesera kuti ndisadye kapena kumwa panjira. Pofuna kuti musapite kuchimbudzi cha anthu onse, "m'modzi mwa owerenga alemba mu ndemanga. "Bwanji ngati ali komweko, kuseri kwa chitseko chokhoma, angakonze zodzipha, kapena kudwala matenda a mtima kapena matenda ashuga," ena amatero.
Mukuganiza bwanji, kodi mukusowa mahema okhala ndi zitseko pamakomo pasukulu?