Ayi, awa si akupha omwe timakonda kuwona pazithunzi. Ndipo osati anthu omwe "timangofuna" omwe sitikufuna kugwira ntchito, kulumikizana kapena kukhala nawo. Tisanatchule aliyense motsatana, tiyeni tiwone tanthauzo lililonse mwamaganizidwewa.
Narcissists ndi psychopaths
Choyamba, psychopath iliyonse ili ndi makhalidwe oipa, koma si aliyense amene ali ndi psychopath. Ambiri ali ndi zizolowezi, koma omwe amapezeka kuti ali ndi vuto la umunthu wa narcissistic amadziwika ndi kusowa chifundo komanso kudzimva kuti ali ndi udindo waukulu. Ndipo anthu oterowo amafuna kutamandidwa mwamsanga ndi ena.
Kudzidalira kwa narcissists kumakhala kopunduka: pansi pamtima amamva kuti ali pachiopsezo, choncho ndikofunika kwambiri kwa iwo kuti anthu ozungulira nawonso anali osatetezeka. Kuchotsa ena onse pachopondapo ndikukwera kumbuyo kwawo ndi njira yawo yodzitetezera. Pamene narcissists achita chinthu choipa kwambiri, amadzuka ndi zizindikiro zochepa chabe za manyazi ndi kudziimba mlandu, pamene gwero la manyazi awo ndi maganizo a ena ponena za iwo, kuthekera kwa kutsutsidwa kumbali yawo.
Ndipo uku ndiko kusiyana kwawo kwakukulu ndi ma psychopaths - omwe samamva chisoni. Iwo alibe nazo ntchito ngati wina avulazidwa, sasamala za zotsatira za zochita zawo.
Kuphatikiza apo, anthuwa alibe kuthekera komvera chisoni, koma amawongolera ena mwanzeru (ndipo nthawi zambiri amawoneka okongola nthawi yomweyo), amawagwiritsa ntchito kuti apindule. Kuchenjera ndi dzina lawo lapakati.
Psychopaths ndi sociopaths
Pali zofanana zambiri pakati pa psychopaths ndi sociopaths - onsewa amapezeka kuti ali ndi vuto losagwirizana ndi umunthu. Kusiyana kwakukulu ndikuti psychopaths amabadwa, koma sociopaths amapangidwa. Otsatirawa ali pachiwopsezo chokhala ana ochokera m'mabanja osokonekera komanso omwe adakulira m'malo ovuta. Iwo sangakhale omasuka kuphwanya malamulo ndikutsutsana ndi malamulo monga psychopaths, koma akhala m'malo oterowo kwa nthawi yaitali ndipo ayamba kutenga malamulo awa a masewerawa mosasamala.
Psychopath imamanga ubale pogwiritsa ntchito winayo pazolinga zake - zachuma, kugonana kapena china chilichonse. Komabe, sociopath imatha kupanga maubwenzi apamtima, komabe, ngakhale muubwenzi wotere, azichita mozizira komanso mosasamala. Ma sociopaths ndi opupuluma, ndikosavuta kudzutsa chidwi mwa iwo.
Psychopaths ndi magazi ozizira komanso anzeru, dongosolo lawo la mitsempha nthawi zambiri limakhudzidwa ndi zokopa mosiyana ndi zathu: mwachitsanzo, pamene tikuchita mantha, mtima wathu umayamba kugunda kwambiri, ana amakula, thukuta limatuluka mumtsinje; tikukonzekera kuyankha nkhondo-kapena-kuthawa. Simungazindikire kuti psychopath ndi mantha. Ubongo wake umagwira ntchito mosiyana, ndipo sizikudziwikabe chomwe chimakhudzidwa kwambiri pano - chibadwa kapena chilengedwe.
Ambiri aife timakonda kupewa zinthu zimene zimatichititsa mantha. Psychopaths sachita mantha konse ndipo amangochita zomwe akufuna. Mwa njira, zikutheka kuti chikhumbo chofuna kumva china chake, mwinanso kumveka kwa chikhalidwe chodzutsa anthu ena, chimawapangitsa kuyesa dzanja lawo pazochitika zoopsa - kuphatikizapo masewera olimbitsa thupi ndi zochitika zomwe zili pafupi ndi chigawenga ndi nzeru. tanthauzo.
Chifukwa chiyani kuli kofunikira kuti timvetsetse kusiyana pakati pa narcissists, psychopaths ndi sociopaths? Choyamba, kuti musamachite aliyense ndi burashi yemweyo, osati kumamatira zilembo zomwezo pa anthu osiyanasiyana. Koma, mwinamwake, ndikofunika kwambiri kuti muphunzire kuzindikira zizindikiro zomwe zafotokozedwa pamwambapa mwa anthu omwe akuzungulirani - choyamba, kuti muwakankhire modekha kuti apeze thandizo la akatswiri, ndipo kachiwiri, kuti mukhale tcheru komanso musavutike.