Psychology

Ndimakonda mantra iyi ya okayikira akale: pa mkangano uliwonse, malingaliro amatha kupereka zotsutsana. Komanso, mawonekedwe a wokayikira ndi osavuta kuphatikiza ndi zosangalatsa zokongola. Mfundo yakuti chowonadi sichingapezeke sichimatilepheretsa m'njira iriyonse kuyang'ana mawonekedwe ake….

Poyang’anizana ndi malo odabwitsa, tingadzifunse ngati ilo likunena za kukhalapo kwa Mulungu mlengi. Koma sitifunika kuyankha ngakhale pang’ono kuti tipitirize kusangalala ndi kuwala kowala mu thambo la mitambo.

Chikondi changa cha kukayikira chimakulitsidwa ndi kuwona kokhumudwitsa kwa njonda zopusa zimenezi, zomata ku zikhulupiriro zawo, monga amuna ansanje, amene amasanduka aukali kukhala aukali chifukwa cha mantha.. Zimawaphimba chikhulupiliro chikafika pachimake chomwe sagawana nawo. Kodi zaukali zimenezi sizikusonyeza kukhalapo kwa kukaikira kosakondweretsa kumene nkhaniyo safuna kuilingalira? Apo ayi, bwanji kukuwa chonchi? Mosiyana ndi zimenezo, kukonda lingaliro mwinamwake kumatanthauza panthaŵi yomweyo kumvetsa kuti lingathe kukaikira.

Zindikirani kutsimikizika kwa kukaikira ndi mu mtima wa kuzindikira uku kupitiriza «kukhulupirira», sungani nokha mu kukhudzika, koma mu kukhudzika kotero kuti palibe chowawa mmenemo; m’chikhulupiriro chodzizindikiritsa chokha monga chikhulupiriro ndi kusiya kusanganikirana ndi chidziwitso.

Kukhulupirira ufulu wolankhula sikumakulepheretsani kudabwa ngati chilichonse chingafotokozedwe

Kukhulupirira mwa Mulungu kumatanthauza mu nkhani iyi kukhulupirira Mulungu komanso nthawi yomweyo kukayikira iye, ndipo ngakhale Mlongo Emmanuelle1, kapena Abbé Pierre2 sakanakhoza kutsutsa izo. Kukhulupirira malingaliro amisala ngati Mulungu, osamva kukayika konse: mungawone bwanji china chilichonse kupatula misala mu izi?? Kukhulupirira muulamuliro wa Republican sikutanthauza kusazindikira malire a chitsanzo ichi. Kukhulupirira ufulu wa kulankhula sikumatilepheretsa kudabwa ngati chilichonse chingafotokozedwe. Kukhulupirira mwa inu nokha sikutanthauza kuika pambali kukayikira za chikhalidwe cha «kudzikonda». Kufunsa zikhulupiriro zathu: bwanji ngati uwu ndi utumiki waukulu kwambiri umene tingawachitire? Osachepera, uwu ndi mtundu wa inshuwaransi womwe ungakuloleni kuti mulowe mumalingaliro.

Momwe mungatetezere chitsanzo cha Republican mu nthawi yomwe conservatism ya mikwingwirima yonse ikukula? Osati kungoyika zikhulupiriro zanu za Republican motsutsana ndi wotsatira (zimene zingatanthauze kukhala ngati iye), koma kuwonjezera kusiyana kwina pa kutsutsa kwachindunji kumeneku: osati "Ndine Republican ndipo simuli", koma "Ndikukayikira kuti ndani ndine, ndipo inu ndinu Ayi”.

Ndikudziwa mukuganiza kuti kukayikako kumandifooketsa. Nthawi zina ndimaopa kuti mukulondola. Koma ine sindimakhulupirira zimenezo. Kukayika kwanga sikuchepetsa kukhudzika kwanga: kumakulitsa ndikupangitsa kukhala kwamunthu. Amasintha malingaliro okhwima kukhala abwino omwe amatanthauzira khalidwe. Kukayikira sikunalepheretse Mlongo Emmanuelle kumenyera nkhondo osauka, ndikumenya nkhondo m'dzina la Mulungu. Tisaiwalenso kuti Socrates anali wankhondo wopambana; koma adakayikira chilichonse, ndipo adadziwa chinthu chimodzi chokha - kuti sanadziwe kanthu.


1 Mlongo Emmanuelle, padziko lapansi Madeleine Senken (Madeleine Cinquin, 1908-2008) ndi sisitere waku Belgian, mphunzitsi komanso wolemba. Kwa French - chizindikiro cha kulimbana kusintha mkhalidwe wa ovutika.

2 Abbé Pierre, padziko lonse lapansi Henri Antoine Grouès (1912-2007) ndi wansembe wotchuka wa Katolika waku France yemwe adayambitsa bungwe lachifundo lapadziko lonse la Emmaus.

Siyani Mumakonda