Psychology

Tangoganizani kuti munali kale ndipo mwakumana ndi zaka 18. Kodi munganene chiyani kwa inu nokha kuchokera kutalika kwa zaka zapitazi? Amuna adayandikira kafukufuku wathu momveka bwino ndipo adangopereka malangizo othandiza: zaumoyo, zachuma, ntchito. Ndipo osati mawu okhudza chikondi.

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Kulephera pa chikondi pa msinkhu wanu ndi zachabechabe! Ndipo musaiwale za kulera!

"Maganizo a anthu" palibe. M'malo molimbana ndi chithunzicho, yesetsani kumanga maubwenzi ndi anthu enieni amoyo.

Osasokoneza zokonda ndi zopeza. Inde, ndikudziwa kuti tsopano ndizomveka kunena kuti "muyenera kuchita zomwe mumakonda", koma iyi ndi mafashoni chabe.

Zaka zisanu zikubwerazi zidzakhala zofunika kwambiri osati zomwe mumachita, koma momwe mumachitira. Khalani opambana pa zomwe mumachita bwino.

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Kumbukirani kuti palibe malamulo ndi miyezo! Inu nokha mumasankha nokha chimene chiri chabwino ndi chimene chiri chosayenera. Pangani zolakwika ndikupeza ziganizo (palibe njira ina yodziwira). Osamvera omwe akudziwa "momwe ziyenera kukhalira", ngati mutatsatira chitsogozo chawo, mudzadzuka pakati, ndipo mudzayenera kusankha nokha chilichonse, pokhapokha pakati pa matope omwe "akatswiri". ” zatsogolera.

Osataya nthawi kwa omwe samakukondani, osalemekeza, omwe sakusangalatsani. Osati miniti! Ngakhale anthu awa amasangalala ndi kutchuka kwakukulu pakati pa ena. Nthawi yanu ndi chida chosasinthika. Mudzakhala makumi awiri kamodzi m'moyo wanu.

Pitani ku masewera. Chiwerengero chokongola ndi thanzi labwino ndi zotsatira za zaka zambiri za zizolowezi zabwino ndi chilango. Palibe njira ina. Tengani mawu anga, thupi lanu silinapangidwe ndichitsulo ndipo silidzakhala lamphamvu komanso lolimba nthawi zonse.

Ngati mukuganiza kuti muyenera kupanga ndalama kugulitsa zovala zamkati poyamba ndiyeno kupanga mafilimu, mudzakhala kugulitsa zovala zamkati kwa moyo wanu wonse.

Ikani pambali 10% ya ndalama zomwe mumapeza mwezi uliwonse. Kuti muchite izi, tsegulani akaunti ina. Mudzadziwa nthawi yoti mugwiritse ntchito. Ndipo musatenge ngongole pazosowa zanu (ngongole yamabizinesi ndi nkhani yosiyana).

Kumbukirani kuti okondedwa anu ndi anthu okhawo amene amakusowani. Asamalireni ndikukhala nawo nthawi yochuluka momwe mungathere. Pachifukwa chomwecho, funso loti muyambe banja ndi lopusa. M'moyo, palibe amene amakufunani, kupatula banja lanu.

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Musaganize kuti dziko lili ndi ngongole kwa inu. Dziko lapansi limakonzedwa mwangozi, osati mwachilungamo komanso osamvetsetsa momwe. Choncho pangani zanu. Bwerani ndi malamulo mmenemo, tsatirani mosamalitsa, menyani entropy ndi chisokonezo.

Thamangani, nyuzipepala, chitani chilichonse. Zilibe kanthu «momwe zimawonekera», ziribe kanthu zomwe wina akuganiza, ziribe kanthu «momwe ziyenera kukhalira». Chofunika ndi pamene munatha kudziteteza.

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Dzikhulupirireni ndipo musamvere malangizo a akulu anu (kupatula ngati mukufuna kubwereza njira yawo).

Chitani zomwe mukufuna - pompano. Ngati mumalota kupanga filimu, yambani kupanga filimu, ndipo ngati mukuganiza kuti choyamba muyenera kupeza ndalama zogulitsa zovala zamkati, ndiyeno kupanga kanema, ndiye kuti mudzakhala mukugulitsa zovala zamkati moyo wanu wonse.

Yendani ndikukhala m'mizinda yosiyanasiyana - ku Russia, kunja. Mudzakula, ndipo kudzakhala mochedwa kuti muchite.

Phunzirani chinenero chachilendo, ndipo makamaka zilankhulo zingapo - izi (kupatula sayansi yeniyeni) ndi imodzi mwa maluso ochepa omwe angakhale ovuta kuwadziwa bwino pakukula.

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Kupereka malangizo kwa achinyamata ndi ntchito yosayamikira. Muunyamata, moyo suwoneka mofanana ndi pambuyo pa 40. Choncho, malangizo enieni amafunikira, malinga ndi momwe zinthu zilili. Pali maupangiri awiri okha wamba.

Mudzisunge.

Khalani momwe mukufunira.

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Khalani okoma mtima kwa ena.

Samalani ndi kukonda thupi lanu.

Phunzirani Chingerezi, zidzathandiza m'tsogolomu ndalama zambiri.

Lekani kuganiza za makumi atatu (ndi anthu okalamba) ngati kuti sangalole kudziwana. Iwo ali chimodzimodzi. Kungoti nthabwala zina n’zakale kwambiri moti sitiziseka.

Osamalimbana ndi makolo ako, ndi anthu okhawo amene angakuthandizeni moyo ukavuta.

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Cholinga cha ntchito sikupeza ndalama zambiri mwakuchita zochepa momwe mungathere, koma kupeza zambiri zothandiza momwe mungathere, kuti pambuyo pake mutha kudzigulitsa modula.

Lekani kutengera maganizo a ena.

Nthawi zonse sungani 10% ya zomwe mumapeza.

Kuyenda.

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Osasuta.

Thanzi. Ndiosavuta kumwa muunyamata, ndiye kuti ndiutali komanso wokwera mtengo kuubwezeretsa. Pezani masewera omwe mumakonda ndikuchita popanda kutengeka, pa makumi anayi thupi lanu lidzakuthokozani.

Kulumikizana. Pangani anzanu akusukulu ndikulumikizana. Ndani akudziwa, mwina izi «nerd» mu zaka 20 adzakhala akuluakulu boma, ndipo mabwenzi adzakhala zothandiza kwa inu.

Makolo. Osalimbana nawo, ndi anthu okhawo amene angakuthandizeni moyo ukakhala wovuta. Ndipo ndithudi akanikizire.

Banja. Kumbukirani, mavuto anu aakulu adzakhala ndi mkazi wanu. Conco, musanakwatile, muziganizila ngati mwakonzeka.

Bizinesi. Osawopa kusintha. Khalani akatswiri nthawi zonse. Chitanipo kanthu, koma osayang'ana zotsatira zake.

Siyani Mumakonda