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Lerolino, Egor, mwana wanga wamwamuna wa zaka 5 kwa nthawi yoyamba, anadzisankhira yekha maseŵero a bolodi ndi kudzigulira, koma ndinkangogwira ntchito yonyamula katundu. Masewera a "King of Tokyo" amawononga 1600r, ndipo adapeza moona mtima kupita ku "ntchito".

Kuyesera uku kuli kale zaka 1,5. Zinayamba ndi chakuti mwanayo anali kudwala kwambiri, ndipo sakanatha kuzolowera sukulu ya mkaka. Ife, monga akulu awiri, tinapangana naye mgwirizano: chifukwa tsiku lililonse akamapita ku sukulu ya mkaka mokondwera ndi nyimbo, amayesa kusewera ndi ana ena kumeneko, ndipo aphunzitsi samadandaula za iye, amalandira malipiro a 100. rubles! Komanso, ndizoyenera ndi bilu imodzi (iye samawerengera ndalama, koma zidutswa). Ndi yake ndi ndalama zake zokha, ndipo akhoza kuchita chilichonse chimene akufuna ndi izo.

Nthawi zambiri, ndithudi, amafuna zoseweretsa. Ndiyeno ntchito inachitika, izo zinafotokozedwa kuti pali zidole «ntchito, amene anagulidwa ndi mayi kapena bambo» ndi zidole «zanu, amene anagula nokha.

a) Zoseweretsa zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito "monga Yegor": amatha kusewera nazo, koma panthawi imodzimodziyo, makolo ake amamudzudzula ngati ayesa kuziwononga mwadala, kapena kuzinyamula kupita nazo kumalo ochitira masewera ndi kuzisiya osayang'aniridwa, kapena kusintha. zosapindulitsa kwambiri. Makolo angafunse kuti “mukufuna chiyani”, kapena sangafunse, angagule zimene mwana wasankha, kapena angagule zimene akuona kuti n’zolondola.

b) Zoseweretsa "Ndinagula ndekha." Makolo amangoonetsetsa kuti chinthucho sichivulaza mwanayo. Mukufuna zinyalala zandalama zambiri zomwe zidzathyole tsiku limodzi? Ali ndi ufulu! Kodi mukufuna kugula zodabwitsa 30 za kinder? Ali ndi ufulu! Mukufuna kuthyola chidole, kutaya, kusinthana? Uwu ndi ufulu wake! Chinthu chokhacho ndi chakuti Yegor ali ndi ndalama kunyumba, mumtsuko, ndipo sadzagula chilichonse mwachisawawa. Muyenera kupita kunyumba, kutenga ndalama, ndiyeno pokhapo kupita kukagula.

Chinthucho chinagwira ntchito. Mwanayo adaphunzira mwachangu kuti chidole champhamvu chimakhala chopindulitsa kuposa chopepuka, koma chotsika mtengo. Sagula zodabwitsa za Kinder ndipo satifunsanso, chifukwa ndalama zake zidawoneka ngati zopanda phindu kwa iye. Ndalama zimasonkhanitsidwa kwa nthawi yayitali ndipo zimangogwiritsidwa ntchito. Poyamba ankagula mitundu yonse ya madinosaur ndi makina, ndipo tsopano wakhwima maganizo n’kukhala sewero lamasewera limene ankaliona ali ndi anzake.

Mwa njira, kwinakwake chaka chatsopano chisanafike, adazindikira kale kuti kunali kopindulitsa kufunsa abambo kapena amayi kuti ayang'ane masewera pa Avito kapena Ali-express ndikudikirira milungu iwiri kusiyana ndi kufuula "Ndikufuna chidole ichi nthawi yomweyo" ndi kunjenjemera m'mawu anga. Izi ndizotsika mtengo ka 1,5, ndipo zikakhala ndalama ZAKE, amayamikira kwambiri.

Panali botolo, apa ndi pamene anayamba kuyamikira ndalama mwazokha, kudziunjikira mosalekeza. Koma tinkagwira naye ntchito, tinasintha mfundo yosonkhana, ndipo tsopano amayamikira ufulu umene ndalama ndi mwayi zimamupatsa, osati mwa iwo okha.

Anayambanso kukonda mphatso. Nthawi zina amanena kuti akufuna «kuchitira ndi pomelo» (chipatso). Agwira agogo ake kapena abambo ndi dzanja, amawatsogolera asanu, amasankha ndodo, amalipira yekha, amamukokera kunyumba, amapempha thandizo la kudula, ndiyeno, ndi ulemu wosaneneka, amagawira kwa ndani. . Zowona, amasiya 60 peresenti kwa iye, koma 40% yotsalayo imagwira ntchito momveka bwino molingana ndi "mphatso" yachikondi.

Anaphunziranso kuti ndalama ndi moyo. Apa ndi pamene amayi anadwala, tinapita limodzi ku pharmacy, ndipo ine ndinagula mankhwala. Adandiona ndikulipira ndikufunsa zomwe tagula. Ndinanena kuti ndinawononga ndalama zogulira mayi anga mankhwala kuti achire. Tinagula, ndipo tsopano amayi amva bwino. Yegor anasintha nkhope yake ndipo ananena kuti ngati mankhwala akadafunikabe, angapereke ndalama zonse zomwe anali nazo kuti amayi ake achire. Ndipo kuyambira pamenepo, iye anayamba kuyamikira kwambiri ndalama, chifukwa tsopano si mtundu wa zidole, kapena ulendo Divo Island, kapena chakudya - uwu ndi MOYO WA MAYI! Ndipo kwa mwana, mayi ndiye chilengedwe chonse.

Mwa njira, tsopano zakhala zosavuta kuthana ndi hooliganism wake. Ngati kukopa sikuthandiza, ndiye kuti ndikwanira kunena "Egor, kukonza kudzakhala pamtengo wanu." Kawirikawiri izi ndi zokwanira kuti masewera ake asawononge kwambiri mipando ndi makoma. Koma nthawi zina mumapeza yankho "Ndikufunadi, ndidzalipira." Ndiyeno palibe chochita, ife, zikuoneka, tapanga mgwirizano wapakamwa, ndipo ali ndi ufulu wowononga zomwe akufuna pa ndalama zake.

Tsopano tiyeni tipitirire ku gawo la bonasi yamalipiro. Yegor anapanga roketi ozizira apa, amene analandira satifiketi mu sukulu ya mkaka, ndipo kunyumba anali kuyembekezera bonasi + 200 rubles. Tsopano akulingalira kuti m'malo mongopita kukagwira ntchito, mutha kuchita china chake WOW ndikupeza kuwirikiza katatu kuposa momwe mumachitira tsiku limodzi.

Siyani Mumakonda