Kodi selfie craze ingavulaze ana athu? Chifukwa chiyani zomwe zimatchedwa "selfie syndrome" ndizowopsa? Wofalitsa nkhani Michel Borba ali wotsimikiza kuti kutengeka mtima kwa anthu ndi kudzijambula kungakhale ndi zotsatira zosayembekezereka kwa mbadwo watsopano.
Zaka zingapo zapitazo, nkhani yabodza idawonekera pa intaneti ndipo nthawi yomweyo idakhala yowopsa kuti bungwe la American Psychological Association (APA) lodziwika bwino komanso lovomerezeka la American Psychological Association (APA) lidawonjezeranso kuti limadziwika kuti "selfitis" - "chilakolako chokakamiza chojambula zithunzi za anthu. wekha ndikuyika zithunzi izi pama social network. Nkhaniyo ndiye takambirana moseketsa magawo osiyanasiyana a «selfitis»: «borderline», «achimake» ndi «osatha».1.
Kutchuka kwa «utkis» za «selfitis» kunalemba momveka bwino nkhawa za anthu za misala yodzijambula. Masiku ano, akatswiri a zamaganizo amakono amagwiritsa ntchito kale lingaliro la "selfie syndrome" pochita zawo. Katswiri wa zamaganizo Michel Borba amakhulupirira kuti chomwe chimayambitsa matendawa, kapena kuumirira kuzindikirika kudzera pazithunzi zotumizidwa pa intaneti, makamaka kumangodziganizira nokha ndikunyalanyaza zosowa za ena.
Michel Borba anati: “Mwanayo amatamandidwa nthawi zonse, amadzipachika yekha n’kuiwala kuti padzikoli pali anthu ena. - Kuwonjezera apo, ana amakono amadalira kwambiri makolo awo. Timalamulira mphindi iliyonse ya nthawi yawo, komabe sitiwaphunzitsa maluso omwe amafunikira kuti akule. "
Kudziletsa ndi nthaka yachonde ya narcissism, yomwe imapha chifundo. Chisoni chimagawana malingaliro, ndi "ife" osati "ine". Michel Borba akufuna kukonza kamvedwe kathu kakupambana kwa ana, osachepetsa mpaka mayeso apamwamba. Chinthu chofanana ndi luso la mwanayo lakumva mozama.
Zolemba zakale sizimangowonjezera luso lanzeru la mwana, komanso zimamuphunzitsa chifundo, kukoma mtima ndi ulemu.
Popeza "Selfie Syndrome" imazindikira kufunika kodziwika ndi kuvomerezedwa ndi ena, ndikofunikira kumuphunzitsa kuzindikira kufunika kwake ndikuthana ndi zovuta za moyo. Psychological malangizo kuyamika mwanayo pazifukwa zilizonse, amene analowa chikhalidwe otchuka mu 80s, zinachititsa zikamera wa m'badwo wonse ndi egos kufufuma ndi zofuna kufufuma.
Michel Borba analemba kuti: “Makolo ayenera kulimbikitsa mwana aliyense kuti azitha kukambirana. "Ndipo kulolerana kungapezeke: pamapeto pake, ana amatha kulankhulana mu FaceTime kapena Skype."
Kodi n’chiyani chingatithandize kumvera ena chisoni? Mwachitsanzo, kusewera chess, kuwerenga zachikale, kuonera mafilimu, kupuma. Chess imapanga kuganiza mwanzeru, kusokonezanso malingaliro amunthu wake.
Akatswiri a zamaganizo David Kidd ndi Emanuele Castano a New School for Social Research ku New York2 adachita kafukufuku wokhudza momwe kuwerenga kumakhudzira chikhalidwe cha anthu. Zinasonyeza kuti mabuku apamwamba monga Kupha a Mockingbird samangowonjezera luntha la mwana, komanso amamuphunzitsa kukoma mtima ndi ulemu. Komabe, kuti mumvetsetse anthu ena ndikuwerenga malingaliro awo, mabuku okhawo sali okwanira, mukufunikira chidziwitso cha kulankhulana kwamoyo.
Ngati wachinyamata amathera pafupifupi maola 7,5 patsiku ndi zida zamagetsi, ndipo wophunzira wachichepere - maola 6 (apa Michel Borba akutanthauza zambiri za kampani yaku America Common Sense Media3), alibe mwayi wolankhulana ndi munthu "moyo", osati pa macheza.
1 B. Michele "UnSelfie: Chifukwa Chake Ana Achifundo Amapambana M'dziko Lathu Lonse Lokhudza Ine", Simon ndi Schuster, 2016.
2 K. David, E. Castano «Kuwerenga Zopeka Zopeka Kumakulitsa Chiphunzitso cha Mind», Sayansi, 2013, №342.
3 "Common Sense Census: Media Use by Tweens and Teens" (Common Sense Inc, 2015).