Kugonana ndi mimba: amayi akuchitira umboni

Ayi, sindinawone kuphulika kwa 2 trimester ...

Marie anayembekezera mwachabe kukwera kwa chikhumbo: “Ndinachenjezedwa kuti m’mitatu yoyambirira ya mimba, ndinadziika pangozi ya kugona pang’ono. Ndinali kuyembekezera zina zonse, ndinali nditamva zambiri za "chisangalalo chowonjezeka" ichi ... Ndinalira chifukwa chonyansidwa ndi kugonana ".

Ndizodabwitsa! Pachisokonezo chachikulu chomwe chiri mimba, tinkayembekezera chirichonse kupatulapo: palibenso chikhumbo! Tikudziwa kuti mu trimester yoyamba, nkhawa zazing'ono za mimba nthawi zambiri zimakhala bwino pa libido yathu. Kumbali ina, "munalonjezedwa" pachimake cha chikhumbo - moyo wautali wa mahomoni - kuchokera ku 2 trimester. Ndipo mumadzipeza kuti mulibe chochita kuti musamve china chilichonse. Choyipa kwambiri! Kukhala wofunikira kwambiri kuposa kale. Zimachitika! Chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndi kusunga ubwenzi wanu ndi mnzanuyo ndi caress, masewera zolaula, njira zonse zomwe zimakupatsani mwayi wolumikizana.

Thandizo, libido yanga yafika pachimake!

Geraldine anafotokoza kuti: “Kukhala ndi pakati kunandithandiza kuzindikira zinthu zina zimene ndinkachita nazo kale. Ndimakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi ma caress ena, ndi manja ena ... ndipo ndimaona kuti ndi bwino "kuzindikiranso" thupi langa ... "Amayi oyembekezera ena amadabwa ndi chilakolako chawo chatsopano. Ndizowona kuti pansi pa mphamvu ya progesterone (hormone yosangalatsa) kukhudzika kwa khungu, mawere ndi clitoris zimachulukirachulukira ndipo kukhudzidwa kwa ukazi kumakhala koopsa kwambiri. Kwa Hélène, zomverera zatsopanozi zimakhala zachiwawa kwambiri: "Kuyambira masabata oyambirira a mimba mpaka kumapeto, ndinali ndi libido yoyenera filimu ya X, yomwe siili konse m'zochita zanga. Ndinkafunika kukhala ndi moyo wogonana wokondwa tsiku lililonse, kugonana kwathu kunali koopsa ndipo ndimayenera kuukometsera ndi zowonjezera. “

Mwamuna wanga amakana kundipanga zibwenzi

Agathe ali ndi nkhawa: "Sandigwiranso, ngakhale kundikumbatira, palibe kanthu kwakanthawi, bwana akugona!" Zimandikhumudwitsa kwambiri, ndimamva chisoni m'mutu komanso m'thupi langa… Sindikudziwa ngati akuzindikira, koma ndikukhumudwa. “

Nthawi zambiri amuna amadabwitsidwa ndi udindo wanu watsopano monga "wobereka moyo". Poyamba, munali mkazi wake ndi wokondedwa wake ndipo tsopano ndinu mayi wa mwana wake. Nthawi zina sizitenga zambiri kuti zipangitse kutsekeka pang'ono. Kuphatikiza apo, thupi lanu limasintha, nthawi zina modabwitsa, zomwe zimatha kulimbikitsa malo ena, ngakhale kubweza. Sayesanso kukugwirani, akuwopa kukupwetekani (inu ndi mwana wosabadwayo) kapena sakukopeka ndi thupi latsopanoli. Osachita mantha, zonse zimachitika mwachangu kwambiri! Nthawi zina zimangotenga nthawi pang'ono, nthawi zina kukoma mtima ndi kukumbatirana kumakupangitsani kukhala oleza mtima mpaka mutabadwa.

Mwamuna wanga amadabwa ndi chilakolako changa chogonana

"M'miyezi iwiri yoyambirira, pakati pa kutopa ndi nseru, kunali bata, koma izi ndizowopsa, ndili ndi malingaliro odabwitsa! Wokondedwa wanga adakhala chidole chomwe ndimakonda kwambiri chogonana ndipo ndikuwona kuti chimamuvutitsa pang'ono ”, akudabwa Estelle. N'zosadabwitsa: wachiwiri trimester nthawi zambiri wosangalatsa kwambiri nthawi ya mimba. Mayi wapakati amadzimva kukhala wofunidwa komanso wachigololo, mabere ake akula koma sanalemedwe kwambiri ndipo amamva kutopa kwambiri ... ndi chilakolako chanu chatsopano. Mutsimikizireni, ingofotokozani kuti zonsezi nzabwinobwino ... komanso mahomoni. Ndibwino kubetcha kuti nonse awiri mudzasangalala ndi chisangalalo ichi.

Ndine wamanyazi ndi maloto olaula omwe ndili nawo

"Pafupifupi miyezi itatu ndili ndi pakati ndidayamba kukhala ndi maloto osasangalatsa. Nthawi zambiri sindikhala ndi pakati, kapena sindikhala ndi mwamuna wanga. Komabe moyo wathu wogonana ndi wosangalatsa kwambiri. "Geraldine ali ndi nkhawa: "Nthawi zina ndimadzipeza ndili ndi mkazi, kapena amuna angapo. Mulimonse mmene zingakhalire, nthawi zambiri ndimakhala wodzudzula ndipo zimenezi zimandichititsa mantha. Kodi ichi ndi chikhalidwe changa chenicheni? ” Mimba ndi nthawi yokonzanso malingaliro anu pomwe chidziwitso chanu chidzagwira ntchito kwambiri. Onjezani kuti mahomoni anu omwe amachulukitsa libido yanu kakhumi (ndi omwe samayimitsa usiku), mumakhala ndi maloto odzutsa kwambiri kuposa enawo ndipo mumadzuka m'malo odzuka omwe ndi ovuta kuwawongolera. Kaya ndi abwino kapena otukwana, ngakhale onyozeka, musade nkhawa, maloto si enieni. Ndipo mutengerepo mwayi chifukwa sichidziwika ngati mudzapitirizabe mutabadwa.

Ndimaona kuti ndi zosayenera kupanga chikondi mpaka tsiku lomaliza

Estelle akufotokoza kuti: “Sindinathe kupanga chikondi pamene ndinali ndi pakati, akufotokoza motero Estelle, ndipo pambali pa mwamuna wanga anachitanso manyazi. Zinkawoneka ngati zosayenera kwa ife kotero tidawona mwanayo ”. Ndizowona kuti pakati pa mimba yanu yayikulu ndi mayeso onse, makamaka ma ultrasound omwe amapereka chithunzi cholondola kwambiri, mumamaliza "kumuwona" mwana wanu. Koma musaope, iye samakuonani! Zimatetezedwa bwino m'chiberekero ndiyeno m'thumba la amniotic. Palibe chiopsezo. Malingana ngati palibe zotsutsana ndi mankhwala, mukhoza kugonana ... ngakhale mpaka tsiku lomaliza. Zachidziwikire, muyenera kusintha machitidwe anu kuti agwirizane ndi mawonekedwe anu atsopano, omwe angakuthandizeninso kupanga zatsopano!

Pomaliza, kuposa galasi, kupanga chikondi kungathandize kuyambitsa kubereka. Choyamba, chifukwa umuna umakhala ndi prostaglandin, yomwe imathandizira kukhwima kwa khomo lachiberekero komanso chifukwa chakuti panthawi ya orgasm, mumatulutsa oxytocin, timadzi timene timatulutsa timadzi timene timabala.

Ndinazindikira machitidwe atsopano ogonana

 Hélène anasangalala kwambiri ponena za kugonana kwake kuti: “Mwamsanga ndinamva chikhumbo chofuna kudziŵa zinthu zatsopano ndi mwamuna wanga. Anandipatsa mphete yonjenjemera ndipo tidasanthula zatsopano zambiri ”. Mimba, ndi kuphulika kwake kodziwika kwa libido (pamene ifika), ndi mwayi wopeza machitidwe atsopano. Mutha kulipira chilichonse, modekha! Zoseweretsa zogonana mwachitsanzo sizotsutsana konse, ndipo ngati mukumva - nthawi zina kwa nthawi yayitali - mutha kuchita sodomy!

Chofunika kwambiri ndikuti musataye ndi "khungu" ndi mnzanuyo. Choncho ngakhale chilakolako palibe, musalowe muubwenzi wosagonana. Kukhudzana ndi thupi kutha kuchitidwa mosiyana, kudzera mumasewera, kusisita pakamwa,… Osazengereza!