Chimodzi mwa zovuta za maubwenzi amakono ndi kusatsimikizika. Timapita pamasiku ndipo tikufuna kukhala pafupi ndi osankhidwa, koma zochita zawo zikuwonetsa kuti chikhumbo ichi sichigwirizana. Timayesetsa kupeza chifukwa chomveka chimene munthu safuna kukhala nafe. Mtolankhani Heidi Prieb akupereka njira yothetsera vutoli.
Timagwedeza ubongo wathu, kuyesa kumvetsetsa chifukwa chake munthu wofunika kwa ife sanapange chisankho, amazengereza. Mwina adakumana ndi zowawa muubwenzi wakale? Kapena ali wokhumudwa osati kwa ife, koma m'chaka chikondi chanu chidzaphukanso?
Izi sizikugwirizana ndi umunthu wa wosankhidwayo, koma zikuwonetseratu kukayikira kwathu ndi mantha athu: kudzimva osatetezeka, kudziimba mlandu chifukwa cha kugwa kwa maubwenzi akale, kumvetsetsa kuti ubale watsopano ukhoza kusokoneza ntchito, kumverera komwe sitingathe kuiwala. mnzathu wakale…
Munthawi yomwe munthu amasowa nthawi ndi nthawi ndipo samayankha mauthenga, sipangakhale chowiringula. Chofunika chokha n’chakuti amene munam’patsa maganizo, amakuchitirani motere.
Ngati munthu akukayikira malingaliro ake, simungasangalale naye.
Mwagwa m’chikondi ndi munthu amene sakubwezera, ndipo kuyesa kupeza pansi pa zifukwa zakusakonda kungawononge kudzidalira kwanu. Munthu uyu si amene mukufuna pakali pano, sangathe kukupatsani chikondi chomwe mukuyenera. Ngati munthu akukayikira malingaliro ake, simungasangalale naye, kapena kunyengerera kapena kunyengerera sikungathandize pano.
Kuwona momwe ubale uliri wogwirizana ndi wosavuta: palibe chifukwa chotsata, kulungamitsa, kunyengerera, kupereka mwayi kapena kuyang'ana mafotokozedwe a zochita zomwe zimaswa mtima wanu. Munthu "yemweyo" poyamba amakuyamikirani, nthawi zonse mumakhala pamalo oyamba kwa iye, sangabwerere ku malingaliro ake.
Tiyeni tileke kuona kusayanjanitsika ngati chinsinsi chothetsedwa. Mutha kuganizira zifukwa zambiri zomwe munthu amawonekera ndikutha m'miyoyo yathu, koma zilibe kanthu. Simungasinthe chilichonse. Kukopeka kwanu mopambanitsa kumakuzindikiritsani, osati munthu uyu.
Nthawi ina mukadzamva ngati loya wa munthu wina, yesani kuvomereza chowonadi chowawa: mumadzikhululukira nokha.
Ndikofunikira kuphunzira kudzikonda nokha mokwanira kukana kulankhulana ndi omwe akukhumudwitsani. Ngati udindo wanu ndi kukopa, kugonja, yesani kuvomerezana ndi inu nokha: “ndi bwino kukhala wekha kuposa kukhala ndi aliyense.”
Kukopa ozunza ndi «mizimu» zikusonyeza kuti simulemekeza zilakolako ndi zosowa zanu, kunyalanyaza malingaliro anu za munthu amene ayenera kukhala pamenepo, kumwaza pa tinthu tating'ono ndi kutembenuza mwayi wa chisangalalo kukhala chifunga mizukwa.
Nthawi ina mukadzamva ngati loya wa munthu wina, yesani kuvomereza chowonadi chowawa: mumadzipangira nokha zifukwa, mofunitsitsa kusiya moyo wokhutiritsa, chikondi, ndi ubale womwe mukufuna. Pamene onse awiri amasilira wina ndi mzake ndipo safunikira kudodometsa pa zofuna za wina wachilendo, wosadziŵika bwino, wosadziwika.
Munthu yekhayo amene ali ndi udindo wosonyeza chikondi kwa inu ndi inuyo.
Gwero: Catalog ya Maganizo.