Olemba, olemba ndakatulo, otsogolera nthawi zambiri amajambula zithunzi za chikondi choyenera. Tikufuna kukhulupirira kuti ndi choncho. Tsiku lina kalonga wokongola adzabwera kudzatitengera ku ufumu wanthano. Koma nkhani zachikondi za m’mabuku sizigwirizana kwenikweni ndi moyo weniweniwo.
Kuyambira ndili mwana, ndimakonda mafilimu ndi mabuku achikondi. Ndinakulira ndi malingaliro abwino okhudza chikondi. Amuna aulemu ndi akazi okongola ankavina pansi pa kuwala kwa mwezi ndi kudya ndi makandulo kuti aziimba nyimbo. Amunawa anali akalonga okwera pamahatchi ochititsa chidwi kwambiri ndi kupulumutsa akazi okongola. Kupsompsona kokoma, kuvina kwachigololo, mphindi zachikondi, zochitika zachikondi - m'malingaliro mwanga, chikondi chinali chokongola.
Kenako ndinakula, ndinakwatiwa ndipo ndinazindikira kuti chikondi sichili choncho. Osandimvetsa bwino. Ndimakonda mwamuna wanga. Ndikuganiza kuti tili ndi moyo wabwino. Ndife okondwa komanso timakondanabe, monga momwe tidakumana pa phunziro lojambula m'kalasi lachisanu ndi chiwiri. Tinakulira limodzi ndikukula. Takhala gulu lenileni. Ndimakhulupirira mu chikondi.
Koma ngakhale zonsezi, sindimakhulupirira kuti chikondi ndi chokongola. Chikondi chenicheni sichitero ayi. Nditakhala m’banja zaka zisanu, ndinazindikira kuti chikondi chenicheni sichioneka changwiro, monga momwe zilili pachithunzichi. Pali mphindi zokhala ndi zithunzi zowoneka bwino: zithunzi za maulendo achilendo ndi chakudya chamadzulo chachikondi chomwe atsikana amalemba pa Instagram (bungwe lochita zinthu monyanyira loletsedwa ku Russia). Nthawi zina timalandira maluwa okongola komanso kuphunzira nyenyezi zakuthambo ndi wokondedwa wathu.
Koma nthawi ngati zimenezi ndi zosiyana. Nthawi zonse chikondi sichikongola
Sayandikira ngakhale kukongola. Chikondi chenicheni, chomwe chimasunga maukwati ndi moyo pamodzi, sichiri chabwino komanso chonyansa. Uwu ndi mulu wa mayesero, mavuto ndi kuthedwa nzeru, kuyesa kwa anthu awiri kupalasa mbali imodzi, mosasamala kanthu za malingaliro ndi zikhulupiriro zosiyanasiyana.
Uku ndikukwaniritsidwa kwa zenizeni: keke yaukwati sikhala nthawi yayitali, halo yaukwati ndi splashes za champagne zidzatha msanga. M'malo mwachisangalalo pamabwera moyo weniweni, m'malo mwamwayi ndi chikondi - nkhawa zadziko
Chikondi chenicheni ndi mikangano yonyansa ya achibale, ndalama, ndi soda zotayira mufiriji. Ichi ndi kuyeretsa zotsatira za kutsekeka kwa zimbudzi ndi kusanza pa kapeti. Musanyalanyaze masokosi amwazikana ndi makapu opanda kanthu a khofi otsalira m'nyumba yonse.
Chikondi n’kuvina m’khichini, kunyalanyaza mapiri a mbale zonyansa m’sinki ndi fungo la zinyalala limene linayenera kuchotsedwa kalekale, kulira paphewa lake ndi mitsinje ya nkhono ndi nyama yotuluka m’thupi.
Chikondi ndicho kuthandizana wina ndi mnzake pamene moyo ubweretsa mayesero owopsa ndipo palibe mphamvu yowonetsera kumwetulira
Ndi pamene iye amakumbukira mu sitolo kuti mumakonda lalanje Mafunso Chongani-tock, uploads mumaikonda nyimbo iTunes. Chikondi ndichowonana wina ndi mnzake akutuluka mkati munthawi zovuta komanso zopanda tsankho ndipo ngakhale izi ndikuti: "Ndili komweko, ndidzakhala ndi inu nthawi zonse."
Chikondi sichiri tsitsi langwiro ndi zodzoladzola, maluwa odabwitsa ndi chakudya chamadzulo chachikondi tsiku lililonse. Chikondi si ulendo wosangalatsa wodutsa m'munda wamaluwa amaluwa akamalowa dzuwa. Chikondi ndi chovuta, chowawa komanso chowopsa. Zili ndi magawo omwe simudzawonetsa ena. Chikondi ndicho kukaika, mikangano, mikangano, ndi maweruzo ovuta.
Chikondi sichiri chokongola, koma izi zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta komanso zofunikira kwambiri. Timamutsatira mosavutikira, timayenda m'mphepete ndikuyika pachiwopsezo. Timavomereza zoipa pamodzi ndi zabwino, chifukwa timagwirizana kwambiri ndi munthu ameneyu.
Sitingagulitse zolimba, chikondi cholimba cha mtundu wake wabwino. Ngakhale titakhala olimba komanso mantha, timapeza njira yosangalalira ndikuwona kukongola panthawi yovuta kwambiri. Iyi ndi mphamvu ya chikondi.
Za Wolemba: Lindsey Detweiler ndi wolemba zachikondi.