Syndrome ya "gray mbewa": chifukwa chiyani akazi amakana zovala zowala

Momwe nthawi zina ndimafuna kugula chovala chofiira kapena T-sheti yokhala ndi chitsanzo chowala! Koma ndiye mukuganiza: bwanji ngati ndizodzikuza kwambiri? Kodi anthu anena chiyani? Iyi si sitayilo yanga… Ndipo mukutenganso suti yotuwa yosadziwika bwino muchipinda…. Chifukwa chiyani izi zikuchitika komanso momwe mungagonjetsere kukaikira? Akutero stylist Inna Belova.

Makasitomala ambiri amabwera kwa ine, ndipo ndikudziwa motsimikiza kuti ambiri a iwo, akamagula okha, amawopa kugula zovala zamitundu yowala, amakonda mithunzi yakuda ndi yakuda. Komanso, kuchuluka kwa chuma sikukhudza zomwe amakonda.

Chifukwa chiyani zimachitika? Kodi chingachitike n’chiyani?

Nkhani ya Natalia

Natalia anabwera kudzakumana nane atavala tracksuit yakuda ndi ma sneaker oyera. Zovala zamasewera ndi zazikuluzikulu zinkawoneka kwa mtsikanayo kukhala zomasuka komanso zosavuta, koma mwachiwonekere sizinawonjezere ukazi.

Ndinamvetsetsa chifukwa chake Natalia amachitira zovala zake motere pamene adanena nkhani yake. Amachokera ku Krasnodon m'chigawo cha Luhansk. Anakulira m'banja lathunthu, anaphunzira kusukulu mpaka sitandade XNUMX, kenako anapita ku koleji. Ataphunzira, ankagwira ganyu m’sitolo yogulitsira mphatso kuti akhale ndi ndalama zakezake.

Ndili ndi zaka 16, heroine anakumana ndi mwamuna wake wam'tsogolo. Nditamaliza maphunziro ake ku koleji, iye analowa Institute kulibe, anakwatiwa ndi kupeza ntchito pa nthawi imeneyo makampani otchuka migodi ya malasha.

Ali ndi zaka 22, atabadwa mwana, anayamba kugulitsa zinthu pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti. Ali ndi zaka 25 adabwerera kuntchito, ndipo m'chaka chomwecho ... nkhondo inayamba.

Zovala, mabulawuzi ndi masiketi adasinthidwa ndi yunifolomu yantchito

Iye ndi banja lake anasamukira ku Dnepropetrovsk, koma anayenera kubwerera miyezi itatu chifukwa cha kusowa ndalama. M’tauni yakwathu munalibe anthu ndipo munali mantha. Malipiro anadulidwa, makolo anasiya kulipira penshoni.

Ndinayenera kusiya ntchito yomwe ndinkaikonda. Mwamunayo anayamba kupita ku Moscow kukagwira ntchito mozungulira. Pambuyo pake, Natalia adagwirizana naye. Ankalipira ma ruble 1000 patsiku, ndipo ntchitoyo inali yovuta kwambiri.

Mu 2017, Natalya ndi mwamuna wake analandira ufulu wokhala nzika ya Russia ndipo anasamukira ku Podolsk. Apa adapeza ntchito, m'nyumba yosungiramo zinthu zodziwika bwino pa intaneti. Zinali zovuta, ndimayenera kukhala ndikuyenda kwa maola 12 patsiku.

N'zosadabwitsa kuti pambuyo pa zovuta zambiri komanso kusintha kwa moyo, zovala za Natalia zasinthanso. Tsopano chinali cholamulidwa ndi zinthu zazikulu.

M'malo mwa zovala zachikazi, masewera omasuka anawonekera pamashelefu. Zotsatira zake, tinapatula tsiku lathunthu kuti Natalia asinthe zamatsenga. Koma zotsatira zake zinali zoyenerera.

Nuances kusintha

Chithunzi cha "chatsopano" Natalia chinakhala chokwera mtengo, chapamwamba. Tinatha kupanga chithunzi cha mkazi wodzidalira, wodzidalira, wodzidalira. Heroine ali ndi chithunzi chokongola, kotero sitinayenera kubisa kalikonse: tinangogogomezera kaimidwe kake ndi zidendene, tinkawonetsa mapewa ake okongola, khosi, manja ndi decolleté.

Kuti apange chithunzi chamtengo wapatali, mithunzi yapadera ndi zowonjezera zinasankhidwa. Anapanga kuwala kwatsitsi patsitsi ndikuzikongoletsa mokongola pafupi ndi nkhope, kutsegula khutu limodzi. Chisankhochi chinatsindika za asymmetry, kuwonjezera mphamvu ndi mphamvu ku fano.

Pambuyo pa kusinthako, Natalia adadziyang'ana mokondwera, misozi inali m'maso mwake: "Ndazolowera zovala zamasewera, komanso zokongola, koma zosavuta. Ndiyeno nditadziona ndekha pagalasi ndinadabwa kwambiri. chic, mkazi wokongola ”…

Ndipo ngakhale chithunzichi sichili cha tsiku ndi tsiku, nkofunika kusonyeza mkazi kuti akhoza kukhala wosiyana, kuti amatha kudzidabwitsa yekha ndikusintha maudindo.

Syndrome ya "gray mbewa": chifukwa chiyani akazi amakana zovala zowala

Kusintha kwa Natalia: isanayambe ndi itatha

Kodi Gray Mouse Syndrome imachitika bwanji?

Pafupifupi 40% yamakasitomala anga pambuyo pa zaka 30 amakonda kugula zovala zakuda ndi zotuwa, samavala zinthu zosindikizidwa. Chifukwa chiyani zimachitika? Chifukwa akazi amaphunzitsidwa mitundu imeneyi kuyambira ali ana.

Amakhulupirira kuti imvi ndi zakuda ndizo zonse, ndizochepa, ndipo nawo nthawi zonse mudzawoneka oyenera. Koma zidziwitso zasowa kuti mithunzi iyi imawoneka yokwera mtengo komanso yowoneka bwino kuphatikiza ndi zodzoladzola zapadera, mawonekedwe osangalatsa.

Kuwonjezera apo, iwo ndi oyenera kwa atsikana amtundu wina okha. Ndipo ngati mukufuna chithunzi chakuda ndi choyera ndi imvi kuti chiwoneke chokongola, ndiye kuti muyenera kuyesa.

Nthawi zambiri, mitundu yakuda ndi imvi imasankhidwa ndi amayi omwe sadzidalira okha. Mwachitsanzo, amawopa kupanga chithunzi chonyansa, samamvetsetsa momwe angavalire zinthu ndi zosindikizidwa, kapena amawopa kudziwonetsera okha.

Pambuyo pa kusinthika, makasitomala otere omwe ali ndi "gray mouse syndrome", monga lamulo, amasintha miyoyo yawo kwambiri ndikukhala anthu owala, olenga. Ndiyeno «domino zotsatira» ntchito - pang'onopang'ono bwino amabwera mu tsogolo lawo.

Mtundu ndi chikhalidwe cha maganizo, mgwirizano wake wamkati ndi moyo wabwino

Nthaŵi ina mtsikana wina anabwera kwa ine kudzaphunzira masitayelo mumkhalidwe wovutika maganizo kwambiri pambuyo pobereka. Pachithunzichi, iye anali atavala zovala zakuda za nondescript zazikulu ziwiri zazikulu kwambiri. Koma pambuyo pa phunziro lachitatu, iye anayamba kutumiza zithunzi za zithunzi analengedwa pamaziko a mitundu yosiyanasiyana ndi zipsera.

Wophunzirayo adamvera malangizo onse ndikupanga mauta owala komanso kuphatikiza kwakukulu. Kumapeto kwa maphunzirowo, sanasinthe zovala zake zokha, komanso ntchito yake. Ndiyeno anamaliza maphunziro ake monga mlengi wa mkati ndipo tsopano akupanga ndalama zabwino, amayenda kwambiri ndi banja lake ndipo amakhulupirira kuti kusintha kwa moyo wake kunayamba pambuyo pa kusintha kwa zovala kuchokera ku zakuda ndi zoyera kupita ku mtundu.

Wophunzira wanga wina, atasudzulana ndi mwamuna wake, atasintha zovala zake, adazindikira kuti akufuna kukhala m'dziko ladzuwa. Anapita ku Spain ndipo tsopano anakwatiwa bwino. Ali ndi mwamuna wachikondi wodabwitsa, anyamata awiri, ndipo mulibe wakuda ndi imvi mu zovala zake konse: zokonda tsopano zaperekedwa kwa kuphatikiza kowala.

Pali nkhani zambiri ngati zimenezi. Zikungowoneka kuti mtundu ndi zovala zokha. Ndikuganiza kuti mtundu ndi chikhalidwe cha maganizo, mgwirizano wake wamkati komanso moyo wabwino. Mukakhala osangalala mkati, zonse zimayenda bwino, ndipo nkhaniyo singakhale ndi mapeto oipa!

Siyani Mumakonda