Tonsefe timafunika kulankhulana ndi ena pankhani za ntchito. Kuti mupeze zotsatira zabwino, ndikofunikira kuti muzitha kulumikizana bwino ndi ogwira ntchito, kupanga zopempha, zokhumba ndi ndemanga molondola. Nazi zomwe muyenera kuchita ndi zomwe simuyenera kuchita.
Mwinamwake inuyo nthaŵi zambiri munayamba pempho lanu kapena ntchito yanu ndi mawu akuti “Ndikufuna,” makamaka pokambitsirana ndi antchito aang’ono. Tsoka ilo, iyi si njira yabwino yogawira ena maudindo komanso kuyanjana ndi anzanu. Ndi chifukwa chake.
Izi zimadula kuthekera kwa mayankho okwanira
Malinga ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo a bungwe Laura Gallagher, polankhula ndi mnzako kapena wogwira ntchito ndi mawu akuti "Ndikufuna," sitisiya malo oti tikambirane pazokambirana. Koma, mwinamwake, interlocutor sagwirizana ndi dongosolo lanu. Mwina alibe nthawi, kapena, m'malo mwake, ali ndi chidziwitso chochulukirapo ndipo amadziwa momwe angathetsere vutoli moyenera. Koma sitimangopereka mpata kwa munthuyo kuti alankhule (ngakhale kuti timachita zimenezi mosazindikira).
M'malo mwa "Ndikufuna iwe," Gallagher akulangiza kutembenukira kwa wogwira naye ntchito ndi mawu akuti: "Ndikufuna kuti uchite izi ndi izo. Mukuganiza chiyani?" kapena “Tinakumana ndi vuto ili. Kodi muli ndi njira zilizonse zothetsera vutoli?" Izi ndizofunikira makamaka pamene mayankho ochokera kwa wogwira ntchito amakhudza zotsatira zonse. Musakakamize kusankha kwanu kwa interlocutor, choyamba mulole kuti alankhule.
Sizipatsa mnzako mwayi wodzimva wofunika.
“Ntchito yomwe mumapatsa wogwira ntchito imatenga nthawi yake, zida zake. Kaŵirikaŵiri zimakhudza mmene tsiku la ntchito la munthu lidzayendera,” akufotokoza motero Loris Brown, katswiri wa maphunziro a akulu. "Koma popereka ntchito kwa ogwira nawo ntchito, ambiri nthawi zambiri samaganizira zomwe amaika patsogolo komanso momwe ntchito yatsopanoyo ingakhudzire kukhazikitsidwa kwa china chilichonse.
Kuphatikiza apo, "Ndikufuna" nthawi zonse ndi za ife komanso zomwe timayika patsogolo. Zikumveka zopanda manyazi komanso zamwano. Kuti ogwira ntchito akwaniritse zosowa zanu, ndikofunikira kuwalimbikitsa ndikuwawonetsa momwe kumaliza ntchitoyo kungakhudzire zotsatira zake zonse. "
Kuphatikiza apo, ambiri aife timafunikira kwambiri kulankhulana ndi kucheza ndi anthu, ndipo anthu amakonda kuchita zinthu zomwe zingapindulitse gulu lawo lonse. “Sonyezani kuti ntchito yanu ndi yofunika kaamba ka ubwino wa onse, ndipo munthuyo adzaichita mofunitsitsa,” anatero katswiriyo.
M’chochitika chirichonse, dziikeni nokha m’malo a mbali inayo—kodi mungakhale ndi chikhumbo chofuna kuthandiza?
Ngati anzanu anyalanyaza zopempha zanu, ganizirani izi: mwinamwake munachitapo cholakwika kale - mwachitsanzo, mudawononga nthawi yawo kapena simunagwiritse ntchito zotsatira za ntchito yawo nkomwe.
Kuti mupewe izi, yesani nthawi zonse kuwonetsa momveka bwino zomwe mukufuna thandizo. Mwachitsanzo: “Mawa mawa nthawi ya 9 koloko m’mawa ndikakhala ndi nkhani ku ofesi ya kasitomala. Ndikuthokozani ngati mutumiza lipoti mawa nthawi isanakwane 00:17 kuti ndiwerenge ndikuwonjezera zosintha zaposachedwa. Mukuganiza bwanji, zigwira ntchito?
Ndipo ngati musankha njira zopangira pempho lanu kapena malangizo, nthawi zonse dziyikeni m'malo mwa mbali inayo - kodi mungafune kukuthandizani?