«Zovuta zazaka zapakatikati - mutu umene sungakhale wokondweretsa, - katswiri wa zamaganizo Svetlana Krivtsova ndi wotsimikiza. - Ambiri aife pazaka za 30-45 timayamba nthawi yovuta ya kusagwirizana ndi moyo ndi ife eni. Zodabwitsa: Pachimake cha nyonga, timadzipeza tili pamalo pomwe sitikufuna kukhala monga kale, koma mwanjira yatsopano sizikuyenda bwino kapena palibe kumveka bwino kwa moyo watsopanowu. Zomwe ndikufuna komanso yemwe ndilidi ndi mafunso akuluakulu azovuta. Wina amakayikira ngati kuli koyenera kupitiriza ntchito yomwe akupeza. Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa "si wanga." Poyamba tinali kusonkhezeredwa ndi ntchito zovuta, koma tsopano mwadzidzidzi tazindikira kuti sitiyenera kuchita zonse zomwe tingathe. Ndipo kuti vuto lalikulu ndikupeza njira yanu komanso kukula kwanu. Ndipo izi ziyenera kuganiziridwa.
Elena Sapogova, Dokotala wa Psychology, akulemba kuti njira ya kukula ikugwirizana ndi kuzunzika, ndi kuwawa kwa kutaya chinyengo, kumafuna kulimba mtima. Mwina ndichifukwa chake lero pali ambiri omwe akukula, koma osakhwima? Nthawi izi sizimafuna kuti tikhale akuluakulu, koma kukhala ndi moyo wodekha komanso wodalirika. Masiku ano, popanda zilango zamtundu uliwonse, simungathe kugwira ntchito, osakhala ndi udindo kwa aliyense, osadziyika nokha mu chilichonse, ndipo nthawi yomweyo khalani okonzekera bwino m'moyo..
Kodi kukhwima maganizo kuli ndi phindu lanji? Ndipo mungafike bwanji ku uchikulire umenewo umene ungakuthandizeni kukhala ndi moyo watanthauzo? Bukuli limayandikira mitu imeneyi pang'onopang'ono. Choyamba, chidziwitso chosavuta koma chosangalatsa chokhudza kukula ndi zofunikira za kukhwima kwa owerenga, omwe mwina sanaganizepo kuti kusintha komwe kumachitika mu moyo wake kuli ndi tanthauzo la sayansi. Pamapeto - woyengedwa ndi woyengedwa «zakudya zabwino» kwa gourmets kudziona kusinkhasinkha. Malingaliro anzeru a Merab Mamardishvili ndi Alexander Pyatigorsky ponena za kudzisamalira kwenikweni. Ndipo maluwa a motley a nkhani zenizeni zamakasitomala. Gawo lauchikulire limaperekedwa kwa owerenga osiyanasiyana. Ndipo kwa akatswiri, nditha kupangira zolemba zowoneka bwino za wolemba yemweyo, Existential Psychology of Adulthood (Sense, 2013).
Svetlana Krivtsova, mkulu wa International Institute for Existential Counseling and Training (MIEKT), psychoanalyst, wolemba mabuku, mmodzi wa iwo - «Momwe mungapezere mgwirizano ndi inu nokha ndi dziko» (Genesis, 2004).
Genesis, 320 p., 434 rubles.